[quote name='donkeed157']
So, some sellers just say they can't accept it once I pm them about it.[/QUOTE]
TECHNICALLY (technically, mind you), in case you don't read the link, how the rule works is this:
I (as a seller) can in no way, shape or form, advertise or hint that I accept money orders/checks, etc. This goes as far as I can't put in my auction "E-mail me for alternate payment options".
BUT, if a buyer contacts me and says "hey, can I pay with money order" - it's no problem for me to accept it.
bmulligan
I've had the same thing happen - I ship absurdly fast, and paypal has frozen funds after shipment.
Use your own judgement - if it's a 0 feedbacker, keeping your mouth shut may be wise. If the person has a significant amount of feedback, some recent and regularly buys items greater than $10-25, I'd contact them. They probably don't want to deal with the retaliations of a pissed off seller due to an f-up of their bank or paypal.
My money's on after two weeks, PP will say "investigation over, here's your money, sorry for the inconvenience" as this is what's happened to me on any/every "seemingly random" investigation.