I told my girlfriend to move out

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[quote name='JimmieMac']If you knew how to fu(k her right then it wouldn't be a problem.

Chicks put out less and less because their "man" doesn't know how to lay the pipe right and it's not worth messing up their hair for.[/QUOTE]

LOL.. I love how you tell it like it is. I've seen that happen to a lot of my friends.. they can't understand why their girls want it less. My girl's always had a healthy appetite ;)
 
[quote name='Dr Mario Kart']Also, they both work better when you hit them.[/quote]
:rofl:
How could I forget that one! (THat reminds me, I have to use my dipstick and check her oil ;) )
 
[quote name='jer7583']LOL.. I love how you tell it like it is. I've seen that happen to a lot of my friends.. they can't understand why their girls want it less. My girl's always had a healthy appetite ;)[/quote]
Yea. I had friends that would talk about how studly they are in bed. They wanna pull hair and call her a bitch and then stick it in their ass without warning. And then they wonder why no girls show interest in them. :lol:

Sometimes you gots ta fuck em gently.
 
Your upset and second-guessing yourself right now, simply becuase it's such a 'clean cut'. When you live with someone for a year, and then one day they're not there, you're going to feel funny.

It does NOT mean you should take her back!

If you do she'll just go right back to how she was, now knowing all she has to do when you piss her off is threaten to leave, and you'll cave. That's Very Bad.

Honestly, this girl sound like an old friend of mine... here's her mindset:
me > world

She wants things her way- ie, someone else paying her rent. Someone else providing her spending money. And someone else devoted to entertaining her and listening to her problems. And if you won't do it, she goes out with a friend that will and makes them listen to her problems (ie, you.)

Like everyone else says, just leave her be. Don't contact, and don't apologize. She'll be calling you soon enough wanting to hang out and bitch about her new boyfriend.
 
the whole exboyfreind thing this guy has reminds me of what chris rock once said about how easy it is being a woman because every guy's only purpose in life is to offer you dick.

And he went on to mention how ex boyfreinds will always offer dick for as long as the female "just wants to be freinds."
 
[quote name='thingsfallnapart']the whole exboyfreind thing this guy has reminds me of what chris rock once said about how easy it is being a woman because every guy's only purpose in life is to offer you dick.

And he went on to mention how ex boyfreinds will always offer dick for as long as the female "just wants to be freinds."[/quote]

"Can I help you with that? Can I help you with some dick?!?" Classic, classic stuff. And yes, everyone is right - she needed to get dumped, if for nothing other than bringing that guy over. Geez girls who play stupid ass games like that really bug the hell out of me...
 
You can do better. There are so many girls out there if you half a decent guy then you'll have no problem finding another GF. Don't you dare take her back.
 
Last night was the boiling point. Around 1 or 2 she went to an interview at Sears, she got the job and was upset that she did. She didn't want to work there, and only applied because her first choices wouldn't hire her. When she got home she was complaining about it quite a bit, I said she shouldn't have quit her first job, she got pissed and left... went see a movie with her ex-boyfriend and then bowl with him. This is a "friend" who, last time they hung out, was high and tried to get her to be physical with him. She calls around midnight to make sure I'm in the bedroom trying to sleep, then brings him over here and drinks with him until 3.

After reading the above all I can say is drop that bitch off at the curb.
 
Yeah man, sorry to sound redundant, but the ex-boyfriend thing is reason to get out of the relationship alone.

You made a life-altering decision and now that person who is guaranteed to be there, is now gone. Of course you are going to be hesitant on whether or not you made the right decision because its a major change. In the end it will be for the better.
 
I really wish we'd find out why the ex boyfriend was allowed to stay in the house, and why the OP just went to sleep while they "drank" together.
 
[quote name='Roufuss']I really wish we'd find out why the ex boyfriend was allowed to stay in the house, and why the OP just went to sleep while they "drank" together.[/quote]

Emasculation. Definitely.
 
I was okay with her talking to him even after he tried to get physical, since she needs friends that she can talk to... most of her other friends are definitely not the supportive type. Going see a movie with him after what he did was a bit much, staying out with him until midnight was definitely too far, and when she came in the bedroom and told me he was over I pretty much knew it was the end of our relationship. I didn't give her shit about it until the next day though, mostly because laying there that night, I didn't consider her my girlfriend.

She now says she knows he shouldn't have been here and doesn't know why she did it. To me, it just proves she doesn't care about me. She claims to love me, but if it were true she wouldn't have done that, for any reason.
 
You were right for telling her to move out.

Make sure that you telling her to move out doesn't turn into you asking her to move out.
 
[quote name='Koggit']She now says she knows he shouldn't have been here and doesn't know why she did it. To me, it just proves she doesn't care about me. She claims to love me, but if it were true she wouldn't have done that, for any reason.[/quote]

No shit son. Is she totally gone now?
 
Only read the first few paragraphs, but based on that alone I already know you did the right thing. If a girl is really getting on your nerves that much, and there are that many possible big problems after just a year, then it wasn't going to get any better.

She thinks she doesn't have to pay for her own things just because her parents don't help? Newsflash, you do have to pay BECAUSE your parents don't help. If she is home all day and is capable of having at least a part time job, she should have one. You seem like you're probably in your 20's so I think you're doing the right thing going to school and working part time for some money and experience. If she is only in her 20's and quitting jobs and school even when she needs them, she will probably continue doing this and frustrate you even more further down the line.

From other posts, it sounds like she had an ex over, this is just the last straw. She should never invite an ex over to a place that you are partially paying for without at least getting your permission or seeing if you are ok with it.
 
[quote name='Koggit']got pissed and left... went see a movie with her ex-boyfriend and then bowl with him. This is a "friend" who, last time they hung out, was high and tried to get her to be physical with him. She calls around midnight to make sure I'm in the bedroom trying to sleep, then brings him over here and drinks with him until 3.[/quote]
lol...the hell? /harpo-on Sounds like a high-class broad knuckknuckknuck!!!







/harpo-off

forget about that passive aggressive bitch
 
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