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No I don't want to borrow money. But I'll keep things simple. Long but simple:
Disclaimer: This is long, because it's personal and it has to do with my life. I don't need any "too long didn't read posts". If it's too long, just click back on your browser. You're not cool or part of a "funny" fad by saying it's too long and you didn't read it. You're just another recycled clone of another person's joke. Follow up with a Chuck Norris joke so everyone that sees your "TLDR" post can know that you have no sense of humor and you just do what people expect a troll to do.
Problem : I have high blood pressure. It's not because of diet or sugar intake. It's because of anxiety and stress. The truth is I've wasted too many years. I'm 24 and registered to go back to school, but being single, not having money and working a retail job are stressing me out. Not being in school and not using my mind leaves my mind bored and I spend hours every night wandering in thought. I can't just turn off my mind, so I end up going nights without sleep when I'm not upset about something or high on caffeine.
Solution : I know some people say stuff like, "Just stop thinking man and go to sleep!" Doesn't work sorry. I thought about what death and religion really meant when I was 7 years old. By the time I was 9, I stopped asking my mom for toys because I knew what it meant to waste money and be poor. By the time I was 14, I had convinced myself God was a frame of reference and I had no need for religion. To put it simply: I think a lot. I was born that way and it's not something I can turn off. But I get the most sleep when my mind is working hard and learning something productive. I don't start school until July 7th, and frankly, I don't want to die of exhaustion before then so I need some motivational support.
What I plan to do about it :
I need to get out of this bullshit retail job. Best Buy is one of the best retail companies you can work at, but as a reference to something Al Gore himself referenced to: Human beings only react to drastic change. Gradual worsening environments, we get comfortable with and let bring us down. Because Best Buy isn't "as" bad as other jobs, I think it's a good job. Because Best Buy doesn't pay as "low" as other jobs, I think it's a good paying job. Because they don't write me up or reprimand me for things other jobs do, I think it's a tolerant job. But it's not a good job. Bottom line, it's a corporate operated retail sales job, where the only thing that matters is how long you're on the clock and how much you sell in the few hours you get. If you can make the company the revenue they want, with the most minimal hours, that's exactly what you'll get.
Secondly, I need to start seeing my goals through. In October 2007 I had a goal of making my own website, recording my own gaming review videos and writing short stories. I wanted to converge the site with my other friends' ideas so we could help each other gain momentum and popularity and possibly get sponsors and have a fun way of making some extra money doing something we love. It's June 2008 and I haven't even started ONE template. Not to mention losing two of the friends in that time frame that I started the idea with.
Third, I need to work on me. I waste too much of my money and time on frivolous things. I haven't bought a "new" outfit in over a year. I haven't fixed up my car in over a year. I keep wasting my money on useless things: Blurays, game deals that I don't even play. I have a freakin' retail sealed copy of Eye of Judgment, just because I got it for $40. That $40 could've been a shirt and pants. I need to start spending wisely, but spending on me and no one or nothing else. When I'm comfortable with how I look and what I drive, I know that my confidence will rise and other things will follow. If I'm not happy with what I'm wearing and I'm ashamed of what I drive, that attitude is going to follow me to work, school, to parties and straight into my room, where I'll "think" about it for 3 hours every night when I'm supposed to be asleep like a normal human being.
That being said, this is what I think I should do, and this is where I need your guys' help:
1) I want to cut off my cell phone. I love my Palm Centro, but honestly, I don't use my cell phone for anything productive. All it is is something for me to text message people with, waste a few hours arguing with a girl on. And bottom line, it's $50 a month that I don't even really need to spend. I've never "needed" it for anything urgent that a payphone or a public phone wouldn't offer me. I know it's one of those things like, EVERYONE has a cell phone. But realistically, why do I need one now? When I'm comfortable and all my bills and affairs are in order, yeah I'll get it activated again. But right now? It's just $50 a month that gets in the way. If I spent that $50 on games even, I'd have 12 games a year, full retail copies just sitting in my room.
2) I need to join a gym. Not a "fitness" center like 24 hour fitness, but a gym like a training center. One with olympic bars, benches, squat racks and free weights. Not treadmills and auto-machines. Something cheap. I checked out 24 hour fitness, and the activation and initiation fees add up to $80 initial payment. I was thinking of SDSU but it's a 40 minute drive. That's like $5-10 gas every other day lol.
3) I need a way of organizing my goals and putting them in my face. I was going to type them in Word and print them out. Maybe put them on the wall next to posters and wall scrolls? The problem I find a lot is that in the morning, it takes me 45 minutes before I finally feel like, "Okay I have to get out of bed". I'll lay in bed for all that time just doing nothing. Which leads to my next number-
4) Do any of you guys know a lot about depression? Can it cause a lack of energy? Like a lack of, "Okay let's get up and move and do something" type of feeling I used to have in the morning? I have a great diet, I drink a lot of water, eat healthy food, 4 small meals a day, and I sleep a solid 8 hours a night. But I have anxiety dreams and I lack energy. Does depression cause it? How can I kick this aside without a therapist?
5) I'm going to get off my ass and learn how to make this website template. I'm going to take a class on Flash, HTML and web design so I can start putting the pieces together. Maybe invest in a cheap but decent quality camera to record some videos.
What do you guys think? Any useful information?
Disclaimer: This is long, because it's personal and it has to do with my life. I don't need any "too long didn't read posts". If it's too long, just click back on your browser. You're not cool or part of a "funny" fad by saying it's too long and you didn't read it. You're just another recycled clone of another person's joke. Follow up with a Chuck Norris joke so everyone that sees your "TLDR" post can know that you have no sense of humor and you just do what people expect a troll to do.
Problem : I have high blood pressure. It's not because of diet or sugar intake. It's because of anxiety and stress. The truth is I've wasted too many years. I'm 24 and registered to go back to school, but being single, not having money and working a retail job are stressing me out. Not being in school and not using my mind leaves my mind bored and I spend hours every night wandering in thought. I can't just turn off my mind, so I end up going nights without sleep when I'm not upset about something or high on caffeine.
Solution : I know some people say stuff like, "Just stop thinking man and go to sleep!" Doesn't work sorry. I thought about what death and religion really meant when I was 7 years old. By the time I was 9, I stopped asking my mom for toys because I knew what it meant to waste money and be poor. By the time I was 14, I had convinced myself God was a frame of reference and I had no need for religion. To put it simply: I think a lot. I was born that way and it's not something I can turn off. But I get the most sleep when my mind is working hard and learning something productive. I don't start school until July 7th, and frankly, I don't want to die of exhaustion before then so I need some motivational support.
What I plan to do about it :
I need to get out of this bullshit retail job. Best Buy is one of the best retail companies you can work at, but as a reference to something Al Gore himself referenced to: Human beings only react to drastic change. Gradual worsening environments, we get comfortable with and let bring us down. Because Best Buy isn't "as" bad as other jobs, I think it's a good job. Because Best Buy doesn't pay as "low" as other jobs, I think it's a good paying job. Because they don't write me up or reprimand me for things other jobs do, I think it's a tolerant job. But it's not a good job. Bottom line, it's a corporate operated retail sales job, where the only thing that matters is how long you're on the clock and how much you sell in the few hours you get. If you can make the company the revenue they want, with the most minimal hours, that's exactly what you'll get.
Secondly, I need to start seeing my goals through. In October 2007 I had a goal of making my own website, recording my own gaming review videos and writing short stories. I wanted to converge the site with my other friends' ideas so we could help each other gain momentum and popularity and possibly get sponsors and have a fun way of making some extra money doing something we love. It's June 2008 and I haven't even started ONE template. Not to mention losing two of the friends in that time frame that I started the idea with.
Third, I need to work on me. I waste too much of my money and time on frivolous things. I haven't bought a "new" outfit in over a year. I haven't fixed up my car in over a year. I keep wasting my money on useless things: Blurays, game deals that I don't even play. I have a freakin' retail sealed copy of Eye of Judgment, just because I got it for $40. That $40 could've been a shirt and pants. I need to start spending wisely, but spending on me and no one or nothing else. When I'm comfortable with how I look and what I drive, I know that my confidence will rise and other things will follow. If I'm not happy with what I'm wearing and I'm ashamed of what I drive, that attitude is going to follow me to work, school, to parties and straight into my room, where I'll "think" about it for 3 hours every night when I'm supposed to be asleep like a normal human being.
That being said, this is what I think I should do, and this is where I need your guys' help:
1) I want to cut off my cell phone. I love my Palm Centro, but honestly, I don't use my cell phone for anything productive. All it is is something for me to text message people with, waste a few hours arguing with a girl on. And bottom line, it's $50 a month that I don't even really need to spend. I've never "needed" it for anything urgent that a payphone or a public phone wouldn't offer me. I know it's one of those things like, EVERYONE has a cell phone. But realistically, why do I need one now? When I'm comfortable and all my bills and affairs are in order, yeah I'll get it activated again. But right now? It's just $50 a month that gets in the way. If I spent that $50 on games even, I'd have 12 games a year, full retail copies just sitting in my room.
2) I need to join a gym. Not a "fitness" center like 24 hour fitness, but a gym like a training center. One with olympic bars, benches, squat racks and free weights. Not treadmills and auto-machines. Something cheap. I checked out 24 hour fitness, and the activation and initiation fees add up to $80 initial payment. I was thinking of SDSU but it's a 40 minute drive. That's like $5-10 gas every other day lol.
3) I need a way of organizing my goals and putting them in my face. I was going to type them in Word and print them out. Maybe put them on the wall next to posters and wall scrolls? The problem I find a lot is that in the morning, it takes me 45 minutes before I finally feel like, "Okay I have to get out of bed". I'll lay in bed for all that time just doing nothing. Which leads to my next number-
4) Do any of you guys know a lot about depression? Can it cause a lack of energy? Like a lack of, "Okay let's get up and move and do something" type of feeling I used to have in the morning? I have a great diet, I drink a lot of water, eat healthy food, 4 small meals a day, and I sleep a solid 8 hours a night. But I have anxiety dreams and I lack energy. Does depression cause it? How can I kick this aside without a therapist?
5) I'm going to get off my ass and learn how to make this website template. I'm going to take a class on Flash, HTML and web design so I can start putting the pieces together. Maybe invest in a cheap but decent quality camera to record some videos.
What do you guys think? Any useful information?