[quote name='JimmieMac']If you don't make a move soon you're going to be stuck in The Friend Zone forever, you don't need more friends, you need someone that will let you fu(k them.
You go out on your days off, what do I need to do, come there and put your arm around her? When you're walking into some place just take her hand, hold it for a bit, see how she acts. Then, when you're inside and you let go of it, next time you go to grab her hand pull her in to you and kiss her, don't "try", just do it.[/quote]
Jimmie's got the right idea here. Don't wait, girls hate indecisiveness. As for figuring out whether she's into you or not, it's obvious she likes you enough to hang out. Since you've got that 'in' already, what you're gonna wanna do is build up physical contact. I don't mean jump her bones. That's called rape. I mean slight affectionate touches to indicate attraction. To elaborate on what jimmie said, while holding her hand, rub the area between her thumb and index finger gently with your own thumb with a constant frequency. Don't hold hands too long as you're not 'officially' going out yet. Just long enough to let her know you dig her. After you let go of her hands, give her a mischievous smile like you're hiding a secret. Another instance, when you're hangin' out and want to show her interesting, don't just say, "Hey, I wanna show you something." Instead, grab her firmly, but gently on her arm and then say it. Don't forget to do it w/ a smile or she'll freak out. You'd be surprised how many girls lower their guard thanks to a disarming smile. An alternative approach, if that's too aggressive for you, is to hold the 'small' of her back with a flat palm. Despite its cheesiness from the movie 'Hitch' it does work. Even when you're tellin' her an interesting story or joke, whenever you hit the high point of the story/joke, just touch her forearm. After about 2 weeks or so (if you're slow, 2-3 days if you're decent, 12 hours if you're good), if it seems like she hangs out w/ you more often than most of her female friends (if she has any) or hangs out w/ you more than the rest of her male friends, it's GO TIME and move in for the kiss. At that point, it's all risk, dude. But it's better to get it out of the way ASAP than let it linger and you could end up, like jimmie said, in the Friend Zone, or worse, freak her out by acting in a such an indecisive way.