[quote name='speedracer']I strongly disagree. The only obligation that can arise is if the lender has a fiduciary duty to someone other than itself *AND* if the contract takes only the
time value of money at the rate of inflation. With that being the case then I'd say yea, that's reasonable. But as soon as you loan and expect more than the principle + time value of money at the rate of inflation then you're a speculator, a gambler, absolutely no different than a guy sitting at a table counting cards. We as a society feel no remorse for the speculator that loses when he puts his chips on 35 black, or remorse for the house when the guy bets on 35 black and wins. Why here?
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Just have to agree to disagree. People should know what they're getting into when they sign a loan or rack up credit card debt. Every person has the responsibility to take on debts they can handle and pay back as scheduled.
Of course disasters happen and people have to take on debt for medical emergencies, home damage the insurance won't cover etc. So not everyone that can't pay back their debt is some irresponsible dead beat.
But for the majority of us we make decisions about how much debt to take on when deciding what kind of car to buy, what kind of house and location to buy in (or whether to buy or keep renting), when deciding to buy something with a credit card because we don't have cash to pay it back.
As such, there is an ethical obligation to pay back those debts as we entered a contract saying we would. And people are pretty much

ing worthless if they can't honor their word and stick to contractual agreements.
The debt collectors bending or breaking laws, harassing and intimidating people are scum. But people that willingly take on debt they can't pay aren't a whole lot better IMO. Again excusing those who got into debt they couldn't avoid for medical reasons etc.
As for poor lending choices by banks etc., yeah they do need to be held accountable for that. But that doesn't excuse an individual person from buying more house than they can afford, or taking on too much credit card debt than they'll ever be able to pay off etc.
We just need tighter regulations on the granting of loans (require higher % down payments, set limits on how much the monthly payment can take of the persons monthly income etc.). And similar limits on how high of credit card limits a person can carry based on their income etc.
[quote name='speedracer']Again I disagree 100%. There is no significant different between short term credit and long term credit. Debt is debt. And I think the belief (happily reinforced by the lending industry) that mortgages are somehow different than other forms of credit is what's gotten us in this mess. [/QUOTE]
That's kind of true and not true. Debt is debt....but some debt is better or worse than others.
Even with in the same type of loan. i.e. Student loan debt that's in a high demand/income field that will end up making you money and giving you job security is a "good" debt. Student loan debt to get a degree in philosophy or some other random field that will likely not help make money down the road is "bad" debt (or at least not good debt).
Similarly, racking up credit card debt to buy TVs, video games, dine out and other optional stuff is worse debut than a home mortgage. It's higher interest and going to be harder to pay off. And it's shit you don't need.
Staying with mortgages, a mortgage you made a nice down payment on and can easily afford the monthly payments is of course better debut than taking on a big mortgage that you struggle to pay because you had to have the McMansion in the nice suburbs that was out of your budget.
With my debts, my $53K student loans to get my master's and Ph D I consider good debt as it's gotten me a nice professor gig that I love, that pays pretty well and it's a position with great job security as long as you bust ass and get tenure. Not immune--out a a couple grand this year with furlough days--but still one of the more secure jobs you can nab.
My car loan is probably bad debt. My old car was dying, but on my income level at the time (2nd to last year of grad school) I probably should have bought a used car instead of a new as the payments were rough then--though I can easily make them now.
Credit cards I've never carried a balance as I just use one for everything and pay it off in full each month so I can earn reward points. Only time I've carried a balance is on things like 2 year ,no interest deals to buy a TV or something. And those I've always paid off way before the end of the promo.
So debt is debt in the sense that you owe someone money. But there's good debt and bad/worse debt based on instant rates, how much the debt is relative to your income, whether the debt is for a necessity like a house or car (which should be within your means) or complete luxuries like electronics, dining out etc.
And again, the credit industry needs tighter regulations to prevent them giving huge credit to people with poor finances. But that's no excuse for the individual taking on more debt than they can handle for non-emergency reasons.