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[quote name='jer7583'] she's been doing stupid things like dating some 30 year old guy (she's 20) deciding to have a threesome with some married couple in the building, and trying drugs.
The last straw was when ....[/QUOTE]
Are you shitting me? You stayed with this chick while she was doing all of the above?!?! So having threesomes and dating older men you were cool with, you just didn't like her hanging out with that other guy? Wow.
The last straw was when ....[/QUOTE]
Are you shitting me? You stayed with this chick while she was doing all of the above?!?! So having threesomes and dating older men you were cool with, you just didn't like her hanging out with that other guy? Wow.
[quote name='rodeojones903']Are you shitting me? You stayed with this chick while she was doing all of the above?!?! So having threesomes and dating older men you were cool with, you just didn't like her hanging out with that other guy?[/quote]
QFT. This relationship was over a long time ago.
QFT. This relationship was over a long time ago.
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[quote name='Skelah']yeah this is strange ...was she like a councler like you or was she one of the campers figured id be the first to ask.
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lol yeah that's deserved.
I'm not going to pretend i wasn't a moron for sticking with her, we'd break up, and then she'd promise to change, and I never was strong enough to leave. And the last thing that did it wasn't the staying over at this guy's house, it was finding out from her friend how much she was lying about. One of her best friends volunteers at the camp too, and after my exgf told her everything, she told me everything.
I know everyone's going to hate on me for staying with her with all that shit. I know i was stupid, but i'm trying to move on.
If anyone gives me instructions for posting a pic i have no problem posting one of myself and her.
[/QUOTE]lol yeah that's deserved.
I'm not going to pretend i wasn't a moron for sticking with her, we'd break up, and then she'd promise to change, and I never was strong enough to leave. And the last thing that did it wasn't the staying over at this guy's house, it was finding out from her friend how much she was lying about. One of her best friends volunteers at the camp too, and after my exgf told her everything, she told me everything.
I know everyone's going to hate on me for staying with her with all that shit. I know i was stupid, but i'm trying to move on.
If anyone gives me instructions for posting a pic i have no problem posting one of myself and her.
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[quote name='organicow']Tip #1 for meeting new girls:
Don't ask for advice on a gaming website.
Just a thought.
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But we have jaykrue here
Don't ask for advice on a gaming website.
Just a thought.
[/quote]But we have jaykrue here
alot of people have met that kind of girl seems normal and she turns out to have so many self serving slutty issues.
It sucks but hey I supose it makes u smarter.
Go to events with alot of people? I supose that would be a good way if friends cant fix u up. Good to focus on talking to alot of females instead of trying to get close to one atleast for a bit after a 3 year thing.
It sucks but hey I supose it makes u smarter.
Go to events with alot of people? I supose that would be a good way if friends cant fix u up. Good to focus on talking to alot of females instead of trying to get close to one atleast for a bit after a 3 year thing.
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[quote name='organicow']Tip #1 for meeting new girls:
Don't ask for advice on a gaming website.
Just a thought.[/QUOTE]
I don't really think of the lifestyle forum as a "gaming board" People talk about a lot of things on here, and I think there are a lot of CAGs that are more mature than many other places on the internet. If you've got a problem with the topic, then ignore it.
I don't see any problem with posting a pic, she was already in my avatar on here for about a year.
Don't ask for advice on a gaming website.
Just a thought.
[/QUOTE]I don't really think of the lifestyle forum as a "gaming board" People talk about a lot of things on here, and I think there are a lot of CAGs that are more mature than many other places on the internet. If you've got a problem with the topic, then ignore it.
I don't see any problem with posting a pic, she was already in my avatar on here for about a year.
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[quote name='csantos']www.blowmeuptom.com[/QUOTE]
so much for it being a more mature board. Thanks for nothing, cag.
so much for it being a more mature board. Thanks for nothing, cag.
EDIT: Fcuk. What wasted effort. Ah well. I gave out the info. It's outta my hands now.
[quote name='jer7583']I'd just appreciate any tips any single cags can give from their experiences. The whole bar scene isn't for me, girls all seem unapproachable or even worse than the girl i just left.[/quote]
That's the first problem you need to overcome - do NOT put the pussy on the pedestal. Man up. Girls are just as human as any male. They have sexual fantasies/needs/desires and also range in variety in terms of loyalty as well as sex appeal. First thing first you need to realize is girls, unlike guys, have a slut phase.
Why don't guys have one? Because we're sluts every waking second of our lives. Women are only like that on a few occasion (barring the occasional nympho sex fiend). This slut phase tends to happen from 15-22 and from 30-42. What happens from 23-29? Women undergo a 'calm' phase in which they're focused on career and will only fcuk on occasion (a one night stand or someone met online). You would think that this would be the most ideal time to act like a sex fiend but the contrary is true. The reason being is that they are trying to establish themselves in society with a bit of respectability and when was the last time a slut got any respect? The reason why they're sluts from 15-22 is simple - they're young and dumb (and waiting to be full of cum). The 30-42 are usually what I call 'time bombs'. These are the women who were so focused on career that they're having 2nd thoughts about what they've accomplished & need to let off some steam. It's the female equivalent of the male midlife crisis. So they're gonna look for young studcock.
Anyway, what you need to do is start your stable (or harem or whatever you prefer to call it). Find and talk to several women. Engage them in conversation. Be charming, etc. All the stuff to woo them. Don't EVER feel sorry for women as if they're delicate flowers too naive in the ways of the world. That's just their beguiling nature. They know how the game is played. When a guy walks up to a girl and reeks of desperation, she can spot that a mile away. You don't think she has guys coming up to her almost every 30 mins. w/ a cheesy line and a played out hook? Why do I say talk to more than one woman? Efficiency and competion. Generally speaking, guys are usually at the behest of the women, wooing her & competing for her affection. She's usually picking from several guys who she'll spread her legs for. So throw the game right back. Be confident and chase multiple women at once. You'll weed out the crazies faster this way (as well as score some good kinky notches on your bedpost, gain some sexual experience, and be an overall better lover). Then pick an amount of women you think you can comfortably handle (I can handle nothing more than 5 every 4-5 months at any given time) but it's gotta be more than one. Also, if women know (after you tell them upfront you want to date around) that they're competing w/ other women, they're gonna work that much harder to win your affection... which is what usually happens when girls are surrounded by drooling guys.
If you're gonna ask a girl out, do it as if she's the only girl in the room and never hesitate. If you stutter for one second, it's over. Got no game? That's impossible. Every guy has game. Some have more. Some have less. But game is a muscle. If it's not exercised regularly, it can get out of shape and atrophy. I hate referencing this movie scene as it's cliche but it's only cliche because it's a common sense aphorism (I leave it to you to figure out what that word means). If you've seen the 40 yr old virgin (and if you haven't, get out of that rock), the most basic example of game I'm talkin' about is the scene in which the virgin asks a pretty girl in a bookstore questions. Not just any questions but questions which were statements she made. Let her dictate the direction of the conversation. Paraphrased:
Girl: "Can I help you with something?"
Virgin: "I don't know... Can you?"
G: "Maybe. Is there a particular subject you're looking for?"
V: "What do you think I should look for?"
And on and on. It's a technique called mirroring or mimicing and is not limited to human beings in the mating game. Many animals do this as well. Except it's a bit more complex with humans due to our complex social structuring. Even if conversation stops to a halt, you can still pick up on things like background details and other inane shit like that and continue the conversation.
Never lie to a girl you just started seeing (there'll be time enough during the relationship... if you're a dick). Girls are better at subterfuge than any male so lying out of your ass isn't going to work every time. Rather, dole out personal information sparingly and be aloof. Nothing more attractive that a man with an air of mystery about him. On the question of 'are you dating anyone?' simply say you're not interested in serious relationships and only looking for fun. Doesn't matter if she is (though it's preferred) since, if you treat her as an equal, she will come to become affectionate. The hard & fast rule when it comes to love: girls fall fast while guys fall hard. Despite what they say, girls are romantics at heart; they want the knight in the shining armor. If you display the qualities according to their personal knight, you will go from fcuk buddies to relationships real quick... but only if you want to go that route. Usually this happens at the 3 month mark (at least for me) so it's at this point you need to figure out whether you want to stay in this relationship or continue the game. What happens after that is up to you.
[quote name='jer7583']I'd just appreciate any tips any single cags can give from their experiences. The whole bar scene isn't for me, girls all seem unapproachable or even worse than the girl i just left.[/quote]
That's the first problem you need to overcome - do NOT put the pussy on the pedestal. Man up. Girls are just as human as any male. They have sexual fantasies/needs/desires and also range in variety in terms of loyalty as well as sex appeal. First thing first you need to realize is girls, unlike guys, have a slut phase.
Why don't guys have one? Because we're sluts every waking second of our lives. Women are only like that on a few occasion (barring the occasional nympho sex fiend). This slut phase tends to happen from 15-22 and from 30-42. What happens from 23-29? Women undergo a 'calm' phase in which they're focused on career and will only fcuk on occasion (a one night stand or someone met online). You would think that this would be the most ideal time to act like a sex fiend but the contrary is true. The reason being is that they are trying to establish themselves in society with a bit of respectability and when was the last time a slut got any respect? The reason why they're sluts from 15-22 is simple - they're young and dumb (and waiting to be full of cum). The 30-42 are usually what I call 'time bombs'. These are the women who were so focused on career that they're having 2nd thoughts about what they've accomplished & need to let off some steam. It's the female equivalent of the male midlife crisis. So they're gonna look for young studcock.
Anyway, what you need to do is start your stable (or harem or whatever you prefer to call it). Find and talk to several women. Engage them in conversation. Be charming, etc. All the stuff to woo them. Don't EVER feel sorry for women as if they're delicate flowers too naive in the ways of the world. That's just their beguiling nature. They know how the game is played. When a guy walks up to a girl and reeks of desperation, she can spot that a mile away. You don't think she has guys coming up to her almost every 30 mins. w/ a cheesy line and a played out hook? Why do I say talk to more than one woman? Efficiency and competion. Generally speaking, guys are usually at the behest of the women, wooing her & competing for her affection. She's usually picking from several guys who she'll spread her legs for. So throw the game right back. Be confident and chase multiple women at once. You'll weed out the crazies faster this way (as well as score some good kinky notches on your bedpost, gain some sexual experience, and be an overall better lover). Then pick an amount of women you think you can comfortably handle (I can handle nothing more than 5 every 4-5 months at any given time) but it's gotta be more than one. Also, if women know (after you tell them upfront you want to date around) that they're competing w/ other women, they're gonna work that much harder to win your affection... which is what usually happens when girls are surrounded by drooling guys.
If you're gonna ask a girl out, do it as if she's the only girl in the room and never hesitate. If you stutter for one second, it's over. Got no game? That's impossible. Every guy has game. Some have more. Some have less. But game is a muscle. If it's not exercised regularly, it can get out of shape and atrophy. I hate referencing this movie scene as it's cliche but it's only cliche because it's a common sense aphorism (I leave it to you to figure out what that word means). If you've seen the 40 yr old virgin (and if you haven't, get out of that rock), the most basic example of game I'm talkin' about is the scene in which the virgin asks a pretty girl in a bookstore questions. Not just any questions but questions which were statements she made. Let her dictate the direction of the conversation. Paraphrased:
Girl: "Can I help you with something?"
Virgin: "I don't know... Can you?"
G: "Maybe. Is there a particular subject you're looking for?"
V: "What do you think I should look for?"
And on and on. It's a technique called mirroring or mimicing and is not limited to human beings in the mating game. Many animals do this as well. Except it's a bit more complex with humans due to our complex social structuring. Even if conversation stops to a halt, you can still pick up on things like background details and other inane shit like that and continue the conversation.
Never lie to a girl you just started seeing (there'll be time enough during the relationship... if you're a dick). Girls are better at subterfuge than any male so lying out of your ass isn't going to work every time. Rather, dole out personal information sparingly and be aloof. Nothing more attractive that a man with an air of mystery about him. On the question of 'are you dating anyone?' simply say you're not interested in serious relationships and only looking for fun. Doesn't matter if she is (though it's preferred) since, if you treat her as an equal, she will come to become affectionate. The hard & fast rule when it comes to love: girls fall fast while guys fall hard. Despite what they say, girls are romantics at heart; they want the knight in the shining armor. If you display the qualities according to their personal knight, you will go from fcuk buddies to relationships real quick... but only if you want to go that route. Usually this happens at the 3 month mark (at least for me) so it's at this point you need to figure out whether you want to stay in this relationship or continue the game. What happens after that is up to you.
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