I have a baby on the way as well (December) so I know how you feel man!
If there was anything I could do on that referral thing for you I would but, I'm not too sure of how it works.
I live in Japan but I do use my parents address as my home address in the US. Is there an offer I could dign up for that's easy to get you credit but not ding me on something I can't easily get rid of from here?