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[quote name='Rags']I had already decided had she not been there, or things went awry I was not going back. Just an all around weird circumstance. Kinda like it could be on a sitcom or something.
It probably was for the best that this happened today and not Sunday when I was with the group of people.[/QUOTE]
I know...I was just saying from her point of view of not knowing who you were.
I dunno about the group thing-- that would've been freaking hilarious :lol:
It probably was for the best that this happened today and not Sunday when I was with the group of people.[/QUOTE]
I know...I was just saying from her point of view of not knowing who you were.
I dunno about the group thing-- that would've been freaking hilarious :lol:
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You should have given her your number anyway, "just in case". Chances are she's "bi", which means she doesn't know what the 
she wants yet.
she wants yet.
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[quote name='sblymnlcrymnl']You should have given her your number anyway, "just in case". Chances are she's "bi", which means she doesn't know what the she wants yet.[/QUOTE]
I am not stunned speachless very often, but I was today at Pizza Hut Bistro.
I will never forget this either.
she wants yet.[/QUOTE]I am not stunned speachless very often, but I was today at Pizza Hut Bistro.
I will never forget this either.
sounds like that was an invitation...
she left the door open quite a bit
orrrrry, but I kinda have a, a, GIRLFRIEND, and she may be kinda mad at me, I try to stay faitful".
if ANY girl is that wishy washy about it... don't let up.
it means she WANTS to be bad... and is used to being unfaithful
if it was a definite 'NO' you would have gotten a much different, and much colder response
she left the door open quite a bit
orrrrry, but I kinda have a, a, GIRLFRIEND, and she may be kinda mad at me, I try to stay faitful".
if ANY girl is that wishy washy about it... don't let up.
it means she WANTS to be bad... and is used to being unfaithful
if it was a definite 'NO' you would have gotten a much different, and much colder response
[quote name='Rags']No ONE could have called this the way it played out>
I got there about 11:00. The hostess OPENS the door for me(it was the same as the other day). She tells me the girl is not here yet, but will be there at 11:30. Anyway, I sit down. It gets to be 11:30(keep in mind I was not just loitering, it actually took that long to get my pizza). She walks in and says "Hey how are you doing today".
I say "oh fine I guess, do you by chance remember me"?
She says " Oh yeah, you were with that party, I even remember what you ordered, Steak bistro pizza with no peppers and onions, did you get that today"?
I say "nah, got something different"
She says "Is the waitress keeping good care of you"?
I say "Good enough for me"
Little more stupid small talk, and she walks away.
I get up to leave and she is standing at the entrance.
I say "Hey, you want to catch a movie or something sometime"?
She says AND HERE IS THE SHOCKER "sorrrrry, but I kinda have a, a, GIRLFRIEND, and she may be kinda mad at me, I try to stay faitful".
HOW THE HELL DO YOU RESPOND TO SOMETHING LIKE THAT?
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BOOM!!!
Not only is that a slap in the face, but in about 2 hours, whatever you got from Pizza Hut is going to hit you in the other end.
Sorry for your loss. Great story though. If it's any consolation, when I first asked my wife out, she had she told me the same thing only she "kind of" had a boyfriend. So two years later I ran into her again and that time she was single. The rest is history.
I got there about 11:00. The hostess OPENS the door for me(it was the same as the other day). She tells me the girl is not here yet, but will be there at 11:30. Anyway, I sit down. It gets to be 11:30(keep in mind I was not just loitering, it actually took that long to get my pizza). She walks in and says "Hey how are you doing today".
I say "oh fine I guess, do you by chance remember me"?
She says " Oh yeah, you were with that party, I even remember what you ordered, Steak bistro pizza with no peppers and onions, did you get that today"?
I say "nah, got something different"
She says "Is the waitress keeping good care of you"?
I say "Good enough for me"
Little more stupid small talk, and she walks away.
I get up to leave and she is standing at the entrance.
I say "Hey, you want to catch a movie or something sometime"?
She says AND HERE IS THE SHOCKER "sorrrrry, but I kinda have a, a, GIRLFRIEND, and she may be kinda mad at me, I try to stay faitful".
HOW THE HELL DO YOU RESPOND TO SOMETHING LIKE THAT?
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BOOM!!! Not only is that a slap in the face, but in about 2 hours, whatever you got from Pizza Hut is going to hit you in the other end.
Sorry for your loss. Great story though. If it's any consolation, when I first asked my wife out, she had she told me the same thing only she "kind of" had a boyfriend. So two years later I ran into her again and that time she was single. The rest is history.
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[quote name='Rags']The thing that gets me the most is this>
Why was she talking to me the most and not my sister?
Baffles my mind.[/QUOTE]
Well, maybe she felt more comfortable around you. Anyway, women are incredibly difficult to figure out, as everyone knows.
[quote name='Brak']At least you had the balls to persue her.[/QUOTE]
[quote name='Rags']Too bad balls is not want she wanted.[/QUOTE]
Instant classic.
[quote name='Rags']Kinda makes me wonder if the hostess even knew. Why else would she have made such an effort? Probably just to make an ass out of me, and she did a good job.[/QUOTE]
Well, is it possible that maybe the hostess thought you enjoyed the waitress' service and maybe you wanted her to serve you again?
I don't see why she'd want to see you make an ass of yourself, since you're a complete stranger. But maybe she gets kicks out of that. Who knows?
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Sorry for your loss. Great story though. If it's any consolation, when I first asked my wife out, she had she told me the same thing only she "kind of" had a boyfriend. So two years later I ran into her again and that time she was single. The rest is history.[/QUOTE]
That's a good point to bring up. Time can be your best friend instead of your worst enemy.
Hell, you can hate someone or have them hate you, but let some time pass, and they could be your best friend. I've seen stranger things happen.
Why was she talking to me the most and not my sister?
Baffles my mind.[/QUOTE]
Well, maybe she felt more comfortable around you. Anyway, women are incredibly difficult to figure out, as everyone knows.
[quote name='Brak']At least you had the balls to persue her.[/QUOTE]
[quote name='Rags']Too bad balls is not want she wanted.[/QUOTE]
Instant classic.
[quote name='Rags']Kinda makes me wonder if the hostess even knew. Why else would she have made such an effort? Probably just to make an ass out of me, and she did a good job.[/QUOTE]
Well, is it possible that maybe the hostess thought you enjoyed the waitress' service and maybe you wanted her to serve you again?
I don't see why she'd want to see you make an ass of yourself, since you're a complete stranger. But maybe she gets kicks out of that. Who knows?
[quote name='Number83']
Sorry for your loss. Great story though. If it's any consolation, when I first asked my wife out, she had she told me the same thing only she "kind of" had a boyfriend. So two years later I ran into her again and that time she was single. The rest is history.[/QUOTE]
That's a good point to bring up. Time can be your best friend instead of your worst enemy.
Hell, you can hate someone or have them hate you, but let some time pass, and they could be your best friend. I've seen stranger things happen.
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LOL! This story was awesome.
Maybe she didn't like you and just played the lesbian card? That's comparable to the "I got the shit's" calling in sick excuse that Jimmy Mac always suggests. It's one of those things you just... can't respond to!
In all seriousness though, I'm sure she really was... gay. That's too bad. You do have a lot of balls going after her, though. I'm really a pussy when it comes to stuff like that.
Good luck in the future. Tough break.. but at least you can sleep well at night knowing you tried, and that you didn't let one get away.
Awesome story man!
Maybe she didn't like you and just played the lesbian card? That's comparable to the "I got the shit's" calling in sick excuse that Jimmy Mac always suggests. It's one of those things you just... can't respond to!
In all seriousness though, I'm sure she really was... gay. That's too bad. You do have a lot of balls going after her, though. I'm really a pussy when it comes to stuff like that.
Good luck in the future. Tough break.. but at least you can sleep well at night knowing you tried, and that you didn't let one get away.
Awesome story man!
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All I know is that I may never go that Pizza Hut again, she told me she had been there since it opened(like 2 years ago).
Not really a loss there either, only so much Pizza I can stand.
And to the comment earlier> I am 99% sure she was telling me the truth about having a girlfriend, the situation just told me so. It had a sort of akwardness that could only be brought on by the comment itself
Not really a loss there either, only so much Pizza I can stand.
And to the comment earlier> I am 99% sure she was telling me the truth about having a girlfriend, the situation just told me so. It had a sort of akwardness that could only be brought on by the comment itself
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[quote name='Rags']All I know is that I may never go that Pizza Hut again, she told me she had been there since it opened(like 2 years ago).
Not really a loss there either, only so much Pizza I can stand.[/QUOTE]
A bit off-topic, but does anyone have any places that they won't go to anymore because somebody works there?
I remember there was one restaurant I wouldn't go to because of somebody that worked there... the guy was a freak of nature... I'll have to share the one story sometime involving him literally destroying a toilet from regular use. :lol:
Not really a loss there either, only so much Pizza I can stand.[/QUOTE]
A bit off-topic, but does anyone have any places that they won't go to anymore because somebody works there?
I remember there was one restaurant I wouldn't go to because of somebody that worked there... the guy was a freak of nature... I'll have to share the one story sometime involving him literally destroying a toilet from regular use. :lol:
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Well for one, Pizza Hut
Olive Garden (for a while) -
I stopped going because this guy who thought he was Italian and talked with a crappy accent. He would say Do youa wanta somea parmasana cheesaa? And somehow, I got him everytime so I just stopped going there.
Applebees -
there was this lady who looked like Eegore(yeah from Frankenstein) and she would always come sit on my knee and take my order. Weirded me out everytime.
Can't really think of anywhere else right now though.
Olive Garden (for a while) -
I stopped going because this guy who thought he was Italian and talked with a crappy accent. He would say Do youa wanta somea parmasana cheesaa? And somehow, I got him everytime so I just stopped going there.
Applebees -
there was this lady who looked like Eegore(yeah from Frankenstein) and she would always come sit on my knee and take my order. Weirded me out everytime.
Can't really think of anywhere else right now though.
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[quote name='Rags']Well for one, Pizza Hut
Olive Garden (for a while)
I stopped going because this guy who thought he was Italian and talked with a crappy accent. He would say Do youa wanta somea parmasana cheesaa? And somehow, I got him everytime so I just stopped going there.
Can't really think of anywhere else right now though.[/QUOTE]
There was one goofy guy at Olive Garden I remember many moons ago. He looked a bit like Jon Heder, and I was just waiting for him to bust out with, "Are you guys enjoying your food? Gosh!" :lol:
Olive Garden (for a while)
I stopped going because this guy who thought he was Italian and talked with a crappy accent. He would say Do youa wanta somea parmasana cheesaa? And somehow, I got him everytime so I just stopped going there.
Can't really think of anywhere else right now though.[/QUOTE]
There was one goofy guy at Olive Garden I remember many moons ago. He looked a bit like Jon Heder, and I was just waiting for him to bust out with, "Are you guys enjoying your food? Gosh!" :lol:
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[quote name='fuzz']sorry to jump in here like this but almost EVERY good looking girl I have found is either "lesbian" or "Bi" I am sorry but it is true...
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Or they've got a lot of emotional baggage, demons, and problems, unfortunately.
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Or they've got a lot of emotional baggage, demons, and problems, unfortunately.
well, at least you tried and that you won't go through life saying "what I did ask her out?"
I actually think the whole she has a girlfriend thing is actually better because now you know you have absolutely no chance with her at the moment. But use the experience as a confidence booster, that you have the courage to ask out a complete stranger and not come off as some kind of weirdo.
I actually think the whole she has a girlfriend thing is actually better because now you know you have absolutely no chance with her at the moment. But use the experience as a confidence booster, that you have the courage to ask out a complete stranger and not come off as some kind of weirdo.
[quote name='Rags']Well for one, Pizza Hut
Olive Garden (for a while) -
I stopped going because this guy who thought he was Italian and talked with a crappy accent. He would say Do youa wanta somea parmasana cheesaa? And somehow, I got him everytime so I just stopped going there.
Applebees -
there was this lady who looked like Eegore(yeah from Frankenstein) and she would always come sit on my knee and take my order. Weirded me out everytime.
Can't really think of anywhere else right now though.[/QUOTE]
Rags, you are awesome.
Olive Garden (for a while) -
I stopped going because this guy who thought he was Italian and talked with a crappy accent. He would say Do youa wanta somea parmasana cheesaa? And somehow, I got him everytime so I just stopped going there.
Applebees -
there was this lady who looked like Eegore(yeah from Frankenstein) and she would always come sit on my knee and take my order. Weirded me out everytime.
Can't really think of anywhere else right now though.[/QUOTE]
Rags, you are awesome.
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Applebees -
there was this lady who looked like Eegore(yeah from Frankenstein) and she would always come sit on my knee and take my order. Weirded me out everytime.
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That's messed up. Any other funny or interesting stories, Rags?
Applebees -
there was this lady who looked like Eegore(yeah from Frankenstein) and she would always come sit on my knee and take my order. Weirded me out everytime.
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That's messed up. Any other funny or interesting stories, Rags?
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[quote name='Rags']You do mean stories that make me look stupid right?
Because I have some I may share but....on Monday when I'm back at work, connection is better than the home one. Just thought I'd check this one more time today.[/QUOTE]
Not at all. I apologize if you think I was making fun of you.
I mean, do you have any stories about any weird people that you've encountered and such, like those restaurant people?
Because I have some I may share but....on Monday when I'm back at work, connection is better than the home one. Just thought I'd check this one more time today.[/QUOTE]
Not at all. I apologize if you think I was making fun of you.
I mean, do you have any stories about any weird people that you've encountered and such, like those restaurant people?
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[quote name='Saucy Jack']A bit off-topic, but does anyone have any places that they won't go to anymore because somebody works there?[/quote]
A couple years ago, I dated a guy for about two weeks. He wanted to move way too fast (He had me looking at engagement rings on our third date) and when I told him I wanted to slow down (Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but I'd like to know someone for more than a month before deciding to spend the rest of my life with them), he went psychotic on me. Threatened to kill me, tried to break into my house multiple times, stalked me for over a year...dude had issues. He worked at a deli right down the street from my house. I still don't like to go in there even though he's moved out of the area, because I know he comes back frequently to visit former co-workers.
A couple years ago, I dated a guy for about two weeks. He wanted to move way too fast (He had me looking at engagement rings on our third date) and when I told him I wanted to slow down (Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but I'd like to know someone for more than a month before deciding to spend the rest of my life with them), he went psychotic on me. Threatened to kill me, tried to break into my house multiple times, stalked me for over a year...dude had issues. He worked at a deli right down the street from my house. I still don't like to go in there even though he's moved out of the area, because I know he comes back frequently to visit former co-workers.
[quote name='Saucy Jack']A bit off-topic, but does anyone have any places that they won't go to anymore because somebody works there?
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My Ex STILL works at the Target where I use to work at. I left like a year after I started there, but to this day (5 years later) she is stillen there, while I have moved on. I honestly don't care for Target as there stuff is crap... Target is basically a women's shopping store with useless junk.
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My Ex STILL works at the Target where I use to work at. I left like a year after I started there, but to this day (5 years later) she is still
en there, while I have moved on. I honestly don't care for Target as there stuff is crap... Target is basically a women's shopping store with useless junk.
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[quote name='Saucy Jack']Not at all. I apologize if you think I was making fun of you.
I mean, do you have any stories about any weird people that you've encountered and such, like those restaurant people?[/QUOTE]
Hey, I take no offense. I am really desensitized to all criticism at this point in my life. Anyway, I was in town so I stopped by the office to grab something and figured I'd check this. Also, I found a pic of myself if anyone is still interested in the hair(I think it was needed).
http://img287.imageshack.us/img287/5302/1ou3.jpg
Anyway, storytime>
This story has some language that some may not like, but I SWEAR this is what this Greg dude said to me. I am going to make up names though.
There was a group of people I usually talked to back then in my major department because they were in most of my classes.
There was maybe 8 to 10 of us. Myself(early twenties at the time), Susie(pretty girl, early twenties), Jason(annoying clingy guy, early twenties, not really mentioned in either of these stories though), Hwuang-Se(her actual name, she was chinease, annoying forty year old lady that I could not understand), and Greg( in his fifties). There was a couple more, but these were the regulars at the time.
Anyway, Greg and I were talking one day before a class one day, just the 2 of us. Keep in mind this guy was like Mr Rogers when he talked, all nicey nice. Well, we talk for about 5 minutes about stuff for the class. Well, these 2 girls walk up to Greg(I did not know them). They talk for a minute or so about another class. The 2 girls walk away, and Greg says "There's some nice pussy, nice indeed". I stood there a sec and said "Huh". This came as a total surprise to me, I mean this guy was Mr Rogers everytime I saw him for like 2 years. Then BAM, this comes out. He says, "she has the best ass I have seen for years, you know there may be white up above but there's still fire down below". He then went on and said some more things that I have only heard in porn movies. I just kinda smiled and said "right on" and walked away.
Later on he started talking the same way about Susie, even more graphic. This is the stuff that was more graphic than than on porn movies, and she's standing RIGHT there looking at us. Tom's laughing it up as she looks towards us, saying "what are you guy's saying about me"? I just had to walk away from that one. After that, Tom never really talked to me anymore and I was fine with that. Weirdest guy I met in college I think, it was kinda like Jekel and Hyde sorta. I never really looked at him the same again.
Susie and I talked the most of the group. Talked all the time, and I had contact even after she changed majors. At the time, it was a different class than the one above but the 2 of us were in it. We sat right next to each other in the class, and this guy sat in front of us. The guy in front of us was named Tom Biggs. Cool thing was the guy weighed like 600 pounds, so big he had a breathing machine. What is the odds of a 600 pound guy having the name Biggs? But that is another story.
Anyway, I swear like a sailor in a swearing contest. Everyday in class(class was 2 days a week at 7-9:45 at night), I would talke like I always do(or did, kinda changed my ways with nephews around). One day about 9 weeks into the class, Susie tells me "You know Tom, the guy in front of us"? I say "yeah"
"Tom told my dad(her dad worked in the Learning Enhancement Center) that you were talking inapropriatly around me".(Tom was the kinda guy that when he was a kid he probably reminded teacher that she forgot to take up homework)
I kinda looked at her puzzled and said "OK". Keep in mind that Tom sat RIGHT in front of us. Well, at that point I said quite loudly, "Tell your dad to tell Tom to come talk to me so I can tell him to kiss my ass". Well Susie kinda laughed her laugh, and Tom just sunk his head down into his king size bag of chips and Diet Coke(Yes, he would down a king size bag of chips every class). Tom and I never really were on good terms after that.
More later, including a golf outing of where a scar on my face came from>
I'll tell some of the short things from high school as well(which is where I kinda went from great student to lazy slacker).
Hey, I started a new topic , kinda different but spawned from this thread.
http://www.cheapassgamer.com/forums/showthread.php?p=2237850&posted=1#post2237850
I mean, do you have any stories about any weird people that you've encountered and such, like those restaurant people?[/QUOTE]
Hey, I take no offense. I am really desensitized to all criticism at this point in my life. Anyway, I was in town so I stopped by the office to grab something and figured I'd check this. Also, I found a pic of myself if anyone is still interested in the hair(I think it was needed).
http://img287.imageshack.us/img287/5302/1ou3.jpg
Anyway, storytime>
This story has some language that some may not like, but I SWEAR this is what this Greg dude said to me. I am going to make up names though.
There was a group of people I usually talked to back then in my major department because they were in most of my classes.
There was maybe 8 to 10 of us. Myself(early twenties at the time), Susie(pretty girl, early twenties), Jason(annoying clingy guy, early twenties, not really mentioned in either of these stories though), Hwuang-Se(her actual name, she was chinease, annoying forty year old lady that I could not understand), and Greg( in his fifties). There was a couple more, but these were the regulars at the time.
Anyway, Greg and I were talking one day before a class one day, just the 2 of us. Keep in mind this guy was like Mr Rogers when he talked, all nicey nice. Well, we talk for about 5 minutes about stuff for the class. Well, these 2 girls walk up to Greg(I did not know them). They talk for a minute or so about another class. The 2 girls walk away, and Greg says "There's some nice pussy, nice indeed". I stood there a sec and said "Huh". This came as a total surprise to me, I mean this guy was Mr Rogers everytime I saw him for like 2 years. Then BAM, this comes out. He says, "she has the best ass I have seen for years, you know there may be white up above but there's still fire down below". He then went on and said some more things that I have only heard in porn movies. I just kinda smiled and said "right on" and walked away.
Later on he started talking the same way about Susie, even more graphic. This is the stuff that was more graphic than than on porn movies, and she's standing RIGHT there looking at us. Tom's laughing it up as she looks towards us, saying "what are you guy's saying about me"? I just had to walk away from that one. After that, Tom never really talked to me anymore and I was fine with that. Weirdest guy I met in college I think, it was kinda like Jekel and Hyde sorta. I never really looked at him the same again.
Susie and I talked the most of the group. Talked all the time, and I had contact even after she changed majors. At the time, it was a different class than the one above but the 2 of us were in it. We sat right next to each other in the class, and this guy sat in front of us. The guy in front of us was named Tom Biggs. Cool thing was the guy weighed like 600 pounds, so big he had a breathing machine. What is the odds of a 600 pound guy having the name Biggs? But that is another story.
Anyway, I swear like a sailor in a swearing contest. Everyday in class(class was 2 days a week at 7-9:45 at night), I would talke like I always do(or did, kinda changed my ways with nephews around). One day about 9 weeks into the class, Susie tells me "You know Tom, the guy in front of us"? I say "yeah"
"Tom told my dad(her dad worked in the Learning Enhancement Center) that you were talking inapropriatly around me".(Tom was the kinda guy that when he was a kid he probably reminded teacher that she forgot to take up homework)
I kinda looked at her puzzled and said "OK". Keep in mind that Tom sat RIGHT in front of us. Well, at that point I said quite loudly, "Tell your dad to tell Tom to come talk to me so I can tell him to kiss my ass". Well Susie kinda laughed her laugh, and Tom just sunk his head down into his king size bag of chips and Diet Coke(Yes, he would down a king size bag of chips every class). Tom and I never really were on good terms after that.
More later, including a golf outing of where a scar on my face came from>
I'll tell some of the short things from high school as well(which is where I kinda went from great student to lazy slacker).
Hey, I started a new topic , kinda different but spawned from this thread.
http://www.cheapassgamer.com/forums/showthread.php?p=2237850&posted=1#post2237850
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