Now let me start by saying that I was going to post this way back but wasn't a member so I stopped, also I didn't feel like posting in any other threads but this thread speaks to me.
Ok here goes my story that falls into the messed up category. The year was 2006. I was currently in a relationship with a total party girl we were both 20 at the time. We had been together since the summer of 2005 and were coming on 8 months.
My life at the time consisted of 30+ hours of raiding a week in WOW doing BWL AQ40 etc. I was an awesome UD mage in a top horde guild and loving every minute of it. My girlfriend at the time was a total party girl would go out 24/7 do the Hollywood glam thing and get drunk. Keep in mind I was 20 without a fake ID and would prefer hanging out in the world of Azeroth to being around a bunch of tools.
I took her to Hawaii for Xmas and the following month we got back...something changed.
One night she comes over and we do your usual thing and she felt...bigger inside I questioned it, and she denied any difference. Anyways it didn't happen again and I didn't pay any attention to it. This was in FEB btw, so I'm doing my daily sat raid sessions, doing 2 20 man back to back and then a 40. In the middle of one of the 20 man raids we take a break so I decided to go look at some porn. I am doing my usual rounds when suddenly I'm hit with something familiar from one of the images. I quickly hit back and what would you know. It ends up being my girlfriend. I saw her in pink fishnets taking it from some dude. To my dismay I broke down crying and I didn't know what to do. The only person I could talk to my was Mage officer, who was really great in helping me through it. I continued to raid for the rest of the evening and freak out.
Also at this time she was getting breast implants which made me wonder where she got the cash. She said it was a grant (total bullshit) but I didn't have any proof. The video of course was it.
The next day my friends came over and told me that they had found more videos of her. She was on a couple of the major Asian sites, and a dirty debutantes video. I was mortified that she could have betrayed me like that.
I decided I would confront her about it. I called her and decided to just ask her basic questions, if she's cheated on me etc. All no, then after a series of those I got down to brass tax. I played an audio clip of her scene and she came over immediately. She told me what was going on and how it was a mistake and that she was sorry etc. Immediately I decided to end it. I told her that if she contacts me Ill tell her parents (whose dad is a pastor).
For the next 3 months June-august she continued to harass me telling me to take her back etc. I told her to
off, still kept my phone # the same etc. we hooked up a few times (no stds thank god), her new found rack was hard to turn down. I was 20 at the time come on!
Anyways. I'm raiding naxx one night and I get a call. I found out that she was cheating on me from like march onward with a guy named Gill. Gill calls me one night asking me where his girlfriend is. The limey prick gives me this whole speech about how guys need to stick together and girls are the tyranny. This whole lame thing. I have put up with 3 months (at this point) of her stupid bullshit of trying to get me back and harassment at all hours of the night coming to my apartment etc. My threats empty and she knew it.
However, Gill calling me was the breaking point. I simply respond with...
"Don't worry bro, I know what's up, ill help you out. Bros got to stick together!"
"Thanks man, call me back!"
"Sure thing Broham!"
Anyways, I then decide that tonight is the night I ruin her for life and destroy everything she knows and destroy her family. I call her father, the pastor and proceed to tell him that I am scared for his daughter. I give him this speech about how she never calls me and is always partying late at night. To which he responds with "she always says she's with you" and then I said. "BUT IT GETS WORSE!"
I then tell him that I saw videos of her online doing sex acts and that she is on DVD covers and what not. That I don't know what to do and that you need to do something! I tell him that I can provide proof etc. He then tells me he trusts me and despite not acting nice to me that I am an awesome person and he will deal with the matter.
I have a demonic aura about myself but am filled with great joy due to upcoming shit storm that will 'Katrina' her family.
Anyways, she calls me 5 minutes later, asking me what I've done. I proceed to tell her very non scholantly. I'm just raiding babe, what's wrong?
"Uhhh, what?"
"I'm raiding naxx right now, kind of busy"
"oh...so you didn't do anything?"
"I have no idea what your talking about, want to talk to my officer?"
"no its ok...ill...call you back"
I then call Gill and tell him that she's with another dude and create more trouble on that front.
He response with thank you and I hang up.
I then get a call back some hours later with her crying hysterically. She goes on to say that I have destroyed her family and that her father wants nothing to do with her and that I've ruined her for like. I respond with a hearty laugh and tell her to die in a fire. She continues to rant and I say, you shouldn't have let Gill get my #. I told you not to
with me and now you pay the ultimate price. I hang up, and then the next day I change my # and cut her off completely.
Needless to say I was still very broken and it took some time to recover from that ordeal and gain trust in woman again. Honestly like last fall I started dating again and now I'm in a great relationship. Also WOW free for 2.5 years!
As for the aftermath. New Years Day of 07 she calls me on my house phone and tells me that she got into a car accident. I say tough shit. She then proceeds to say her life flashed before her eyes and that all she saw was me. I let out an 'awww' and said...
"you know what the worst part about that is?"
"my car is totaled?"
"no...the other car didn't do its job."
*hung up*
Even to this day ill get random calls (she has my new cell) with her crying on the phone and she tells me how I've ruined her life and that I should have beat her up or keyed her car. To which I always respond...
"Its easy to hit someone or break something that can be fixed. The hard part is breaking someone for the rest of their existence." Then she tells me that I'm evil because I take great joy in the pain I've caused her and well....yeah its great!
So yeah, that was one of the most horrible experiences of my life, the blank years of 05-07 because it was just WOW and her....sigh. Now I am free of both and living life!
