Smuttiness Vs. Attractiveness

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[quote name='MorPhiend']I don't understand the need for girls to try and be as unlady like as possible today either. But I think that girls stopped expecting to be treted ladylike and guys stopped treating them that way. I think that is why girls have grown to not act like ladies.[/QUOTE]

good point. I have friends that became close friends quicker because they were the 2-3 guys that didn't hit on me, just were nice and made conversation and didn't expect anything out of my friendship and didn't feel the need to treat me either like a princess or like one of the guys. (i.e. they'd hold the door, and not just to catch a glance at my ass).

Then I go out and we're car pooling and picking up a guy I haven't seen in awhile, he gets in the car and I started making a joke semi-at-his-expense, then I stopped mid sentance (thank god) because he saw me and complimented me on how nice I smelled that evening...I was like...Wow. 8-[ :oops:
heh, so sometimes I have to pinch myself and remember that I am not acutally one of the guys, well, sometimes I am anyway, but I don't have to act like a guy's-guy about it. :lol:

[quote name='doodle777_98']No prob tauruskatt. I personally don't see anything wrong with a guy acting a little chivalrous. I open doors for women, girls and older people than me. I think a lot of parents don't teach their kids any respect now adays. I use to hear that i treated my ex-roomates girl better than he did.

I also think a lot of guys don't care becuase the nice guys always finish last. And it's true. Women want men that they can "change". Which we all know is stupid. So every girl dates the bad guy. Thats why everyone wants to be the bad guy. Then girls are like i wish i had a really good boyfriend. I always tell them that many things in life are "self inflicted". Me and my girl just sit back and watch all these other couples fall apart, while me and her are always happy together. People these days, what can you do?[/QUOTE]

Yup, I'm always holding doors for people (especially older people). Not a lot of effort and it always means more then the minor amount of time it takes to do. (since when is another person not worth 3 seconds of my day?) that, and I think it's funny to have someone try and pronounce you being, "gentlewomanly"

Ah, the good old 'Beauty and the Beast' syndrome..."If I love him enough he'll become a prince!!". heh. I think only really lucky girls happen to not have an experience like that. but most smart girls only make that mistake once. 'the spell' doesn't lift in the real world, the beast just gets away with whatever they can while she's his prisoner, and leaves the girl with some low self-esteem issues (like, "damn, he's not changing, I'm doing something wrong").

We won't get into what "Sleeping Beauty" says about date rape. >.>
 
goes both ways, I've known guys who keep going back to the same girl who treats them like poo. Just because they think they can't get anything better I guess.
 
[quote name='tauruskatt']goes both ways, I've known guys who keep going back to the same girl who treats them like poo. Just because they think they can't get anything better I guess.[/QUOTE]

I'd say a big part of it is all the emtions that result from going out for years. You can't stop dating someone and then expect your next relationship to feel the same right away and chances are if it does it's a get over relationship that won't last very long.:D
 
[quote name='tauruskatt']goes both ways, I've known guys who keep going back to the same girl who treats them like poo. Just because they think they can't get anything better I guess.[/QUOTE]

True.
 
[quote name='tauruskatt']goes both ways, I've known guys who keep going back to the same girl who treats them like poo. Just because they think they can't get anything better I guess.[/QUOTE]

:cry:
 
[quote name='PhrostByte']:cry:[/QUOTE]

you frown because it's the truth?...mayhaps...but you aren't the only soul to give in to staying with someone over pre-invested time and energy. just a matter of figuring out if there's a payoff or not in the end ;)
 
I actually hate it when people say "was it worth it". I understand alot of money and time went into the relationship but saying it wasnt worth it is total bullshit. Every relationship i had is worth alot to me. I think people just say that to make themselves feel better about the loss. I spent tons of cash on one girl and didnt get any back, and i didnt care. It was worth it, it was a new experience and was worth every penny.

I guess i'd only think it wouldnt be worth it if th guy/ girl beat the other or something crazy happened all the time. Other than that it's total BS.
 
Something crazy did happen all the time...

But I guess I don't regret it. I mean... Maybe I wouldn't have had things happen the way they did, but I did learn from it, which is a plus. Yaknow.. sometimes, I think it would have been better if she did in fact cheat on me. I imagine it would hurt a lot, but then I would be able to transform that pain into anger and have more strength in never talking to her again :cool:

Unfortunately, it was slightly less fucked up but still up there. Oh well, I'm just glad it's over. You live, you learn. I'm lonely though... I hope I can find a nice girl before I die heh.
 
ha, there are always girls around. Don't worry as long as you dont lock yourself up in a room 24/7 you'll find somebody. Wow, i sound like a chick. What i meant to say was, um... fuck um and leave um....ha.... anyways...
 
*tries to refrain from getting a case of the giggles*

don't worry, I won't tell anyone else you were talking about, you know, deep stuff, or whatever. ;)
 
[quote name='tauruskatt']*tries to refrain from getting a case of the giggles*

don't worry, I won't tell anyone else you were talking about, you know, deep stuff, or whatever. ;)[/QUOTE]

That's not very nice, maybe this time around he learned from his mistakes.:D
 
oh I know, it was meant in love. =P

*since this is my post, I'm deeming it a safe space.*

(re: no cat fights or bullying or I start biting people.)
 
[quote name='PhrostByte']Huh? Was that for me taurus? I don't get it...[/QUOTE]

In other words I wasn't making fun of you~ if everyone in life understood all their mistakes we'd all probalby be much happier, so hopefully you're getting your stuff straightened out and such, I'm certainly not harboring any ill will as long as you're honest about trying to be a better person and stuff :D
 
[quote name='tauruskatt']In other words I wasn't making fun of you~ if everyone in life understood all their mistakes we'd all probalby be much happier, so hopefully you're getting your stuff straightened out and such, I'm certainly not harboring any ill will as long as you're honest about trying to be a better person and stuff :D[/QUOTE]

Oh... I mean yea, aren't we all trying to improve ourselves and our lives? Or not... anyway, do you want me to come in tomorrow and pre-order? are you working?
 
[quote name='PhrostByte']Oh... I mean yea, aren't we all trying to improve ourselves and our lives? Or not... anyway, do you want me to come in tomorrow and pre-order? are you working?[/QUOTE]

Come in and pre-order? Is that some kind of code for ask out on a date? Cmon do it, you can be the new CAG couple!!!
 
[quote name='Kayden']Preordering? So thats what the kids are callin it nowdays...[/QUOTE]

Nah, that's what kids are called these days...
 
*angst*

I'm sorry Phrosty, but I may or may not actually recognize you when you get there o_O

god I suck at people memory sometimes.
 
[quote name='tauruskatt']*angst*

I'm sorry Phrosty, but I may or may not actually recognize you when you get there o_O

god I suck at people memory sometimes.[/QUOTE]

Here's the real question...what would you say if he did ask you out? ;)
 
[quote name='tauruskatt']*angst*

I'm sorry Phrosty, but I may or may not actually recognize you when you get there o_O

god I suck at people memory sometimes.[/QUOTE]

Maybe you can remember him by his attitude.:bouncy:
 
[quote name='tauruskatt']*angst*

I'm sorry Phrosty, but I may or may not actually recognize you when you get there o_O

god I suck at people memory sometimes.[/QUOTE]

Oh you'll recognize me. I'll be surrounded by a holy aura. :D


[quote name='zionoverfire'] Maybe you can remember him by his attitude.:bouncy:[/QUOTE]
I'm awesome kthxbbq.
 
[quote name='PhrostByte']Oh you'll recognize me. I'll be surrounded by a holy aura. :D



I'm awesome kthxbbq.[/QUOTE]

Holy Auras only make you an easier target.
:)
 
[quote name='hiccupleftovers']Close the boobies thread and this one goes crazy.[/QUOTE]

I think it's funny that Led finally closed that when he did because it had turned into an OTT, like that wasn't true from the very beginning. :lol: To bad he didn't let it reach 1000 posts first ...
 
I'm sad they don't just carry on forever, I'd miss this thread if it got closed...:(

oh, yeah. and +1 Phrosty reserve today. :cool:

how weird is it that some of the people I couldn't stand working with that got fired/quit and moved to an EB now work for the company again...*shudder*
 
[quote name='tauruskatt']I'm sad they don't just carry on forever, I'd miss this thread if it got closed...:(

oh, yeah. and +1 Phrosty reserve today. :cool:

how weird is it that some of the people I couldn't stand working with that got fired/quit and moved to an EB now work for the company again...*shudder*[/QUOTE]

So, did you recognize him or not?
 
[quote name='sblymnlcrymnl']So, did you recognize him or not?[/QUOTE]

I did in the fact that he was the only college age white guy staring mindlessly at ps2 accesories and in the store alone in the middle of tha day, then when he came up and wanted to reserve something that kind of gave it away. :lol:

and it was Psychonauts, btw, tie dye shirt, pretty decent freebie.
 
[quote name='tauruskatt']I did in the fact that he was the only college age white guy staring mindlessly at ps2 accesories and in the store alone in the middle of tha day, then when he came up and wanted to reserve something that kind of gave it away. :lol:

and it was Psychonauts, btw, tie dye shirt, pretty decent freebie.[/QUOTE]

Doesn't that describe about 1/3 of your customers? The other thirds being parents who don't know what the hell they're looking for and 30 something obese men who live in their mother's basements and D&D every night?
 
[quote name='tauruskatt']I did in the fact that he was the only college age white guy staring mindlessly at ps2 accesories and in the store alone in the middle of tha day, then when he came up and wanted to reserve something that kind of gave it away. :lol:

and it was Psychonauts, btw, tie dye shirt, pretty decent freebie.[/QUOTE]

Awww. That sounds kind of sad.
Maybe it's just the way you're framing it...
it sounds rather lonely.
 
"We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone."
 
[quote name='sblymnlcrymnl']Doesn't that describe about 1/3 of your customers? The other thirds being parents who don't know what the hell they're looking for and 30 something obese men who live in their mother's basements and D&D every night?[/QUOTE]
I don't fit any of those categories. I feel so left out :sad:
 
[quote name='dcfox']I don't fit any of those categories. I feel so left out :sad:[/QUOTE]

The fact that I end up in the same catagory as dcfox troubles me deeply. :lol:
 
[quote name='JSweeney']The fact that I end up in the same catagory as dcfox troubles me deeply. :lol:[/QUOTE]

I'd be more worried about ending up in the same room. :lol:
 
[quote name='Kayden']I'd be more worried about ending up in the same room. :lol:[/QUOTE]
It all depends on whether or not JSweeney built the appropriate holes in his new metal chassis ;)
 
[quote name='dcfox']It all depends on whether or not JSweeney built the appropriate holes in his new metal chassis ;)[/QUOTE]
Nothing I diamond tipped drill bit would fix... you can even selct the size thats best for you.
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[quote name='dcfox']It all depends on whether or not JSweeney built the appropriate holes in his new metal chassis ;)[/QUOTE]

Easier to fix a missing hole in a metal chassis, just add a drill to the equation.

And it's always about the holes, isn't it? ;)

Yay, I leapfrogged back over dcfox in posts. :bouncy:
 
[quote name='Kayden']Nothing I diamond tipped drill bit would fix... you can even selct the size thats best for you.
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Would that be for making the holes in his chassis, or for a more drilling type of .... conversation? :D

Jinx, BTW.
 
[quote name='shrike4242']Yay, I leapfrogged back over dcfox in posts. :bouncy:[/QUOTE]
I saw that. You also jumped ahead of epobirs too. But don't think I wont catch up to you :lol:
 
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