[quote name='Dr Mario Kart']boo, well. I dont have to deal with nagging and the nonestop yackity yacking. and the money being spent to keep her around, because bitches need to be treated fancy.
I just spent like $600 on ebay this week filling in my PS1 collection, probably sitting at at least 2 years worth of just PS1 backlog now[/QUOTE]
Well that's your problem right there - you're thinking in terms of singularities. I find that most guys still focus on one girl and that's really how everything goes down the shitter. Strangely enough, if you're dating more than one girl, they all seem to want to flock to you and compete for your attention. I'm single and proud of it. I date a rotating selection of women at a rate of 3 per week and they usually come back for more.
Most guys often wonder why is it that a girl will go after a guy who already has a gf. Some of them say it's because the single girl wants what she can't have - the forbidden pleasure (the stolen boyfriend). This is only a partial truth. What most guys don't realize is that when they're with their gf, they don't notice the shift in attitude towards females that they're not currently seeing. It's a very subtle shift. While attached guys will still have roaming eyes, they also forget that they've achieved a semblance of confidence towards the fairer sex. This confidence is an attractive allure that captivates a woman's attention. This coupled with your gf dressing you in stylish clothing AND the fact that you ARE attached makes for an unstoppable combination.
I never go into a relationship with a girl with the thought that I'll eventually end up marrying her. That's a self-defeating thought. I go in thinking she might be right for me but this girl Rachel called me up the other day and she seems like a good one also so I'll
keep my options open. That, my friend, is the key to fun. I never get tired of any one girl and once they're starting to use the 'commitment' weapon, I rotate them and bring some fresh blood in.
To focus all your energies (time/money/emotion) on one person is wasteful. What is the purpose of dating? To get to know another person which
may end in marriage as an eventual ending. But in order to find that one good one you gotta go through all the bad ones. I think of dating as akin to testing out different model cars. You'll drive a few before you settle on the one you like. Or if you're more fiscally-minded, diversify your portfolio to hedge your bets. You don't want to put all your eggs in one basket until you're definite that basket is the right one for you.
As for money, I truly don't spend a lot of money on dates. Relationships are expensive... dating is not. Understand the difference and you're ready to begin your journey into the dating world. Pimpology 101 is over. Class dismissed.
