[quote name='Roufuss']Nah, this "friend" did that shit to me because she is one of those fairweather friends I think... she's around when she needs someone to talk to but her other friends I guess take precedence over me any other time. I'm kind of over it, she complains too much about shit anyways, like her BF she keeps dumping and getting back with.
Shit, I don't have a six pack at all =/ I mean, I want to start working out, but I'm the type that gets motivated when I have a workout partner and I'm not even sure where to get one of those. I think I might start running in the morning though, but I have to wake up so early to do it. I've got insomnia, which really sucks and puts a damper on what I can do since I'm always so tired and drained of energy.
And I've used the OTT for awhile now to blow off steam so I don't randomly berate people that piss me off

You're not such a bad person yourself

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Thanks for those kind words. She doesn't sound like a great friend then, but I'm sure when she needs you, she'll call. When your ex needs you, she'll probably call too, depending on how the break up was.
My b/f has insomnia too. He cant sleep in and it takes him a long time to fall asleep (he's asleep now). Thats one of the reasons he works out 6 days a week. Not all weight lifting and stuff, but stretching and kicking and crap (I think he's some kinda undercover ninja

)
It is common though that whenever someone gets out of a relationship, to dislike the opposite sex in general.
Just look at the bright side, you can do all the things you wanna do know, that you couldn't before.
[quote name='Roufuss']I hear ya. I just want a chick who is down to earth, fun to be with, someone you can just chill with and watch a movie and dosen't constantly expect all sorts of shit.
I'm starting to think such a woman who is like "Hey, I can't decide on what movie to watch, Mad Max or Escape from New York?" just dosen't exist.[/QUOTE]
Escape from New York. I love John Carpenter movies.
[quote name='Brak']I went through an introverted "beat-the-dogshit-out-of-myself" phase for quite a while, as a result of losing a girl. In retrospect,
and even during (subconsciously), I've realized that I was doing it over
nothing, and the chain of events was a literal favor in disguise. (Not even a disguise, either. I should have

ing thanked her.)
Count your blessings and move on. We all have multiple soul mates, anyway. Assuming those exist, of course. Friends come and go; people change.
I'm not being sexist, at all, but I'd really love to have a relationship with a girl who isn't your stereotypical, superficial "I love the magical girl life, and
still wish I was in high school" woman. In recent years, however, the last thing I want is a relationship... and, strangely, the first thing I want is a relationship. I've yet to make sense of that, and I know I'm not expressing something that hasn't been felt before... but, damn; it's some confusing shit.[/QUOTE]
I'm able to separate my high school friends from the rest of my life. Sometimes Relationship Jane and Independent Jane party together, but usually I'll spent one weekend night with them, and the other with my b/f and his friends.