[quote name='sp00ge']I don't know how people can have roommates. We've had a few over the past several years and never, never, NEVER again! Friendships always ended up ruined.
The last ones were the final nail. They refused to chip-in for cable/internet because "We never watch TV and don't have a computer." Two months later, many numbers were worn off of my TV remote from their incessant channel flipping, and myself never getting to watch what I wanted. My computer ended up loaded with spyware from them going on unsavory sites. Needless to say, after another month or two of them refusing to chip-in, everything went into my room so they couldn't use it. Things got very hostile near the end.
Before we moved into the apartment, they took it upon themselves to make sure they got themselves on the lease and not us. Then they tried to hold that against us. "We're the lease-holders, so we get the parking space and the biggest room." "You follow OUR rules" etc etc... They also made sure they put themselves on all of the utilities. After living with them for a year or so, we moved out, right before rent and utility payments were due. Taught them a valuable lesson. Mid-summer in Palm Springs (100+ temps) in a poorly insulated apartment with that diva-bitch always having the AC cranked made for a very high electric bill. They sent a letter to the house that we moved into, demanding we pay them for our portion of the utilities or they'll sue us. We sent one back demanding their portion of the cable and internet they used for the past year (which exceeds what we "owed" them). We never heard from them again.
EDIT: And this doesn't even include our drug dealer, party all night neighbors. Because of this experience, I'll never have roommates or live in an apartment complex ever again.[/QUOTE]
You can't expect to have roommates and not setup some sort of house rules. I haven't had any other problems other than one roommate being extremely OCD about everything in the past, but he is gone thankfully, and that's a completely whole other story.
Maybe my situation is uncommon, and yours to be more of the norm, I don't know. But everything has been fairly good thus far and we've lived in the same place for over 3 years with various different room mates. If you have a good leaser that is responsible in managing the apartment then it's a whole lot easier to maintain order. Especially if a document is signed stating the various "rules" of the lease.