What Japanese women want: a Western husband

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Yes, my second asian-related post of the day.
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What Japanese women want: a Western husband
(TOKYO)The Japanese government wants women like Taeko Mizuguchi to get married and start doing something about the nation's plunging birthrate. But she's not interested.

At least, not if her prospective husband is Japanese.

A growing number of Japanese women are giving up on their male
counterparts, and taking a gamble that looking abroad for love will
bring them the qualities in a partner that seem rare at home. Mr.
Right, as the hope goes, is often an American or European, a man
appreciative of a wife's career and more of a partner in daily tasks.
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[quote name='opportunity777']Ahh well I had an Asian fetish when I was younger ... now I'm stuck with my redhead :p[/quote]

No, that's a chinese guy.
 
My girlfriend is Korean and Vietnamese, yet never dates other Asian guys... that article pretty much sums up why that is, here I thought she was the only one!
 
i dont even need to talk to her, i mean learning japanese would be cool and all, but i could imagine out relationship being perfect if we never have to speak. anyone have free shipping codes for this? :cool:
 
All my friends seem to have Asian fetishes. I dunno, I like European and American girls.
 
Wow a rich doctor in search for a husband you would think it would be easier for her. Now I see why so many military guys who get staioned in Japan get married there
 
[quote name='ww3676']My girlfriend is Korean and Vietnamese, yet never dates other Asian guys... that article pretty much sums up why that is, here I thought she was the only one![/quote]


i hope your girlfriend isnt dating other guys... that would probably hurt yuor relationship slightly......
 
I'm Asian, and I don't understand why some people are so fascinated by Asian girls. I guess they seem "exotic" to non-Asians....
 
[quote name='saikoh']I'm Asian, and I don't understand why some people are so fascinated by Asian girls. I guess they seem "exotic" to non-Asians....[/quote]

Ummm.........Great Legs!
 
Isnt Japan where they have a subway car designated for women only? I read somewhere there was a problem with groping.

That might underscore the deep social problems that may be present in Japan.
 
i disagree... i think white girls have the best legs. but asian girls have the prettiest faces.

this whole thing really isn't anything new. there's always been a thing with white guys and asian girls. being asian myself, i think one of the reasons (but not the ONLY reason, don't get me wrong) is that a lot of asian families in america right now are still in that culture clash mode. a lot of young/young-adult asians are first generation americans, and prefer the freer and more liberated american style of life, rather than the stricter, more traditional life. if you look at asians that are into other asians, you'll notice that they mostly tend to be attracted to the non-"immigrant"-ish (if you've ever heard of the term "fob"?) ones, haha. not saying this applies to all asians, nor that it is the all-encompassing reason, but i think it's a big one. my family was somewhat strict and traditional, and i'd hate to get involved with a girl who might be the same way.

also, in asia, the situation for females isn't exactly the greatest. males are almost always the dominant one, and by a huge margin. you could argue that males are also dominant in america, but there's no doubt that women are more empowered in america than in almost any country in the east.

i'm into latinas and asians mostly, but only usually the americanized ones.
 
[quote name='kristianator']i disagree... i think white girls have the best legs. but asian girls have the prettiest faces.

this whole thing really isn't anything new. there's always been a thing with white guys and asian girls. being asian myself, i think one of the reasons (but not the ONLY reason, don't get me wrong) is that a lot of asian families in america right now are still in that culture clash mode. a lot of young/young-adult asians are first generation americans, and prefer the freer and more liberated american style of life, rather than the stricter, more traditional life. if you look at asians that are into other asians, you'll notice that they mostly tend to be attracted to the non-"immigrant"-ish (if you've ever heard of the term "fob"?) ones, haha. not saying this applies to all asians, nor that it is the all-encompassing reason, but i think it's a big one. my family was somewhat strict and traditional, and i'd hate to get involved with a girl who might be the same way.

also, in asia, the situation for females isn't exactly the greatest. males are almost always the dominant one, and by a huge margin. you could argue that males are also dominant in america, but there's no doubt that women are more empowered in america than in almost any country in the east.

i'm into latinas and asians mostly, but only usually the americanized ones.[/quote]

You've pretty much got it down, kristianator. I've come across a lot of Asian girls who will only date non-Asian guys because they think it's some sort of Americanization.
 
[quote name='rapsodist'][quote name='kristianator']i disagree... i think white girls have the best legs. but asian girls have the prettiest faces.

this whole thing really isn't anything new. there's always been a thing with white guys and asian girls. being asian myself, i think one of the reasons (but not the ONLY reason, don't get me wrong) is that a lot of asian families in america right now are still in that culture clash mode. a lot of young/young-adult asians are first generation americans, and prefer the freer and more liberated american style of life, rather than the stricter, more traditional life. if you look at asians that are into other asians, you'll notice that they mostly tend to be attracted to the non-"immigrant"-ish (if you've ever heard of the term "fob"?) ones, haha. not saying this applies to all asians, nor that it is the all-encompassing reason, but i think it's a big one. my family was somewhat strict and traditional, and i'd hate to get involved with a girl who might be the same way.

also, in asia, the situation for females isn't exactly the greatest. males are almost always the dominant one, and by a huge margin. you could argue that males are also dominant in america, but there's no doubt that women are more empowered in america than in almost any country in the east.

i'm into latinas and asians mostly, but only usually the americanized ones.[/quote]

You've pretty much got it down, kristianator. I've come across a lot of Asian girls who will only date non-Asian guys because they think it's some sort of Americanization.[/quote]

I don't know if that would apply to the asian guys. My own reason preferring non-asians (specifically latinas) is that's all I knew growing up. I was the only asian kid (let alone filipino) for miles around and my neighborhood was predominantly puerto rican/black. But I AM a first generation asian as well. :whistle2:k
 
[quote name='rapsodist'][quote name='kristianator']i disagree... i think white girls have the best legs. but asian girls have the prettiest faces.

this whole thing really isn't anything new. there's always been a thing with white guys and asian girls. being asian myself, i think one of the reasons (but not the ONLY reason, don't get me wrong) is that a lot of asian families in america right now are still in that culture clash mode. a lot of young/young-adult asians are first generation americans, and prefer the freer and more liberated american style of life, rather than the stricter, more traditional life. if you look at asians that are into other asians, you'll notice that they mostly tend to be attracted to the non-"immigrant"-ish (if you've ever heard of the term "fob"?) ones, haha. not saying this applies to all asians, nor that it is the all-encompassing reason, but i think it's a big one. my family was somewhat strict and traditional, and i'd hate to get involved with a girl who might be the same way.

also, in asia, the situation for females isn't exactly the greatest. males are almost always the dominant one, and by a huge margin. you could argue that males are also dominant in america, but there's no doubt that women are more empowered in america than in almost any country in the east.

i'm into latinas and asians mostly, but only usually the americanized ones.[/quote]

You've pretty much got it down, kristianator. I've come across a lot of Asian girls who will only date non-Asian guys because they think it's some sort of Americanization.[/quote]

u guys brought up a good point..for starters...i think white girls have nice legs :p, and asians have prettier faces..ahem..so i agree with u on that, and ur also very right in the sense of most asian teens being first generation and coming from stricter families...to be honest, i like that better, it gives the girl kind of a more moral background..most of the time that is..i have dated spanish and white girls also...not to be stereotypical..but msot of the spanish girls were poor, and white girls were rich..the rich white girls i went out with..were seriously obsessed with going to clubs, and getting drunk/high..i dont do ne of this stuff, so u can imagine my annoyance when i wud get drunken calls from them complaining that im not out getting wasted with them (my avoidence of drinking is anothter story:p) but yea...plus they complain about EVERYTHING!! and theyr always out till the wee hours of the morning, and many of them were spoiled and annoying (dont see how i liked them in the 1st place..)
the spanish girls i went out with...werent as open with the drinking and the drugs ..it was there, but not out the open *i didnt hear, "omg! i got so wasted on friday!" like every 2 seconds...these girls came from a more strict house...but wudnt shut up about it .."mah momma is gonna beat mah ass" etc..etc..plus if i hear the phrase "cus im boriqua" one more time...grr..neways, like after dating a few asian girls, its hard to explain, i like the fact that they come from stricter homes *many of them* since its easier for me 2 relate to..even tho im in college, i dont have the most freedom, and my area..isnt the nicest, so im mostly around spanish and black girls..so an asian girl is quite rare :p...many asian girls have more class as well than the average white or spanish girl also..seriosuly, try going to comunity pages "migente.com or blackplanet.com" tell if u like any of what you see there..those are the kind of ppl i live around..so an asian girl raised with morals is a welcome change of pace for me :)
 
[quote name='6669']not this again :roll:[/quote]

Oh c'mon. I know girls talk as much about us guys. Sheesh, my sister and her friends are far far worse in the stuff they talk about when talking about guys.
 
[quote name='kristianator']i disagree... i think white girls have the best legs. but asian girls have the prettiest faces.

this whole thing really isn't anything new. there's always been a thing with white guys and asian girls. being asian myself, i think one of the reasons (but not the ONLY reason, don't get me wrong) is that a lot of asian families in america right now are still in that culture clash mode. a lot of young/young-adult asians are first generation americans, and prefer the freer and more liberated american style of life, rather than the stricter, more traditional life. if you look at asians that are into other asians, you'll notice that they mostly tend to be attracted to the non-"immigrant"-ish (if you've ever heard of the term "fob"?) ones, haha. not saying this applies to all asians, nor that it is the all-encompassing reason, but i think it's a big one. my family was somewhat strict and traditional, and i'd hate to get involved with a girl who might be the same way.
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This is true in many areas, but I found that in Toronto it is entirely different. Over 20% of the population is asian, they have asian clubs, asian malls etc. Here they seem to be just as conscious of being asian and dating asians as many black people are conscious of being black. It's strange though, all my asian friends in the u.s. don't seem to be very concerned with being or acting asian (or even how to go about this if they wanted to), the population difference (and the availability of asian youth culture) is the only reason I can think of. For example, there's this girl I know in toronto that keeps complaining that her friends make fun of her for not acting asian enough, not speaking cantonese well enough etc.
 
I am SO counting on this to be true.

That's why I'm (hopefully, if I get the job) leaving for Japan as soon as I graduate next summer! :)
 
[quote name='alonzomourning23'][quote name='kristianator']i disagree... i think white girls have the best legs. but asian girls have the prettiest faces.

this whole thing really isn't anything new. there's always been a thing with white guys and asian girls. being asian myself, i think one of the reasons (but not the ONLY reason, don't get me wrong) is that a lot of asian families in america right now are still in that culture clash mode. a lot of young/young-adult asians are first generation americans, and prefer the freer and more liberated american style of life, rather than the stricter, more traditional life. if you look at asians that are into other asians, you'll notice that they mostly tend to be attracted to the non-"immigrant"-ish (if you've ever heard of the term "fob"?) ones, haha. not saying this applies to all asians, nor that it is the all-encompassing reason, but i think it's a big one. my family was somewhat strict and traditional, and i'd hate to get involved with a girl who might be the same way.
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This is true in many areas, but I found that in Toronto it is entirely different. Over 20% of the population is asian, they have asian clubs, asian malls etc. Here they seem to be just as conscious of being asian and dating asians as many black people are conscious of being black. It's strange though, all my asian friends in the u.s. don't seem to be very concerned with being or acting asian (or even how to go about this if they wanted to), the population difference (and the availability of asian youth culture) is the only reason I can think of. For example, there's this girl I know in toronto that keeps complaining that her friends make fun of her for not acting asian enough, not speaking cantonese well enough etc.[/quote]

i've gone through this identity conflict before, and i'm pretty sure most of us first generation americans have. just kind of an obscure fact, but one of the biggest means for filipinos to immigrate to america was through recruitment into the american armed forces. my pops was a navy man, but he was alongside many other filipinos who "jumped ship" (excuse the unfunny and somewhat fucked up pun) and that's how him and moms ended up here, and i ended up subsequently being born here. they raised me alongside many other filipino families who tried too too hard to keep traditions alive in a brand new country.

i get mad criticized by older filipino folks because i don't even speak the language. parents didn't teach me, and i'm not interested because i don't plan on living in the philippines. asians my age say shit like i'm losing touch of my roots, which is true, but almost doesn't really matter to me. i'm not hating my country and culture of origin, but i'm not gonna try and live that way if it doesn't relate to my current situation. i know what you mean about the TO asian population though.. i've lived in quite a few places like that.. namely certain parts of san diego, or so cal for that matter.
 
[quote name='kristianator'][quote name='alonzomourning23'][quote name='kristianator']i disagree... i think white girls have the best legs. but asian girls have the prettiest faces.

this whole thing really isn't anything new. there's always been a thing with white guys and asian girls. being asian myself, i think one of the reasons (but not the ONLY reason, don't get me wrong) is that a lot of asian families in america right now are still in that culture clash mode. a lot of young/young-adult asians are first generation americans, and prefer the freer and more liberated american style of life, rather than the stricter, more traditional life. if you look at asians that are into other asians, you'll notice that they mostly tend to be attracted to the non-"immigrant"-ish (if you've ever heard of the term "fob"?) ones, haha. not saying this applies to all asians, nor that it is the all-encompassing reason, but i think it's a big one. my family was somewhat strict and traditional, and i'd hate to get involved with a girl who might be the same way.
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This is true in many areas, but I found that in Toronto it is entirely different. Over 20% of the population is asian, they have asian clubs, asian malls etc. Here they seem to be just as conscious of being asian and dating asians as many black people are conscious of being black. It's strange though, all my asian friends in the u.s. don't seem to be very concerned with being or acting asian (or even how to go about this if they wanted to), the population difference (and the availability of asian youth culture) is the only reason I can think of. For example, there's this girl I know in toronto that keeps complaining that her friends make fun of her for not acting asian enough, not speaking cantonese well enough etc.[/quote]

i've gone through this identity conflict before, and i'm pretty sure most of us first generation americans have. just kind of an obscure fact, but one of the biggest means for filipinos to immigrate to america was through recruitment into the american armed forces. my pops was a navy man, but he was alongside many other filipinos who "jumped ship" (excuse the unfunny and somewhat shaq-fued up pun) and that's how him and moms ended up here, and i ended up subsequently being born here. they raised me alongside many other filipino families who tried too too hard to keep traditions alive in a brand new country.

i get mad criticized by older filipino folks because i don't even speak the language. parents didn't teach me, and i'm not interested because i don't plan on living in the philippines. asians my age say shit like i'm losing touch of my roots, which is true, but almost doesn't really matter to me. i'm not hating my country and culture of origin, but i'm not gonna try and live that way if it doesn't relate to my current situation. i know what you mean about the TO asian population though.. i've lived in quite a few places like that.. namely certain parts of san diego, or so cal for that matter.[/quote]

When i visit my relatives there, I gotta say, they know how to party. But ya I can't disagree w/ ya on the whole criticizing front. I myself wasn't born in the US but I still get treated the same since my parents actually encouraged me to talk in english as opposed to tagalog.
 
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