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Sorry, but I really can't deal with the extra weight. Even if they have a great personality, I can't be with an obeise person. I work out every day and I eat right. America is getting very, very lazy. They would rather chomp on Pork Rinds and watch The OC than get some good, healthy excersise. And just because you eat right doesn't mean its nasty food.
 
most girls will do anything to get the cutest guy and most guys will do anything to get into the girls pants. simple as that. how does this relate to the topic? hell if I know but what I just said is true. As for dating a "fat" chick if you have to ask anyone then you shouldn't bother.
 
[quote name='space_rover']Yeah Im tired of prissy shallow superficial skinny chicks that think that they are hot to death. They think that being them selves means being some body else. I hear every ones fat in TX[/quote]

What's up with the shot to the Texans...and here I thought the worst stereotypes we had was everybody wears cowboy hats and chaps, rides to work on a horse, and we don't have electricity. Whatever.

Oh to tell you the truth, Texas has been voted on numerous occassions to have the most beautiful women in the country.

And to answer the topic, who cares if she's fat? It's not going to affect the way she acts of talks or anything.
 
[quote name='Mr. Anderson']
Would you date a fat chick?
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Sorry, but I really can't deal with the extra weight. Even if they have a great personality, I can't be with an obeise person. I work out every day and I eat right. America is getting very, very lazy. They would rather chomp on Pork Rinds and watch The OC than get some good, healthy excersise. And just because you eat right doesn't mean its nasty food.[/quote]

The OC is trash, but very entertaining. I like to watch it while I exercise.
 
[quote name='"Mr. Anderson'] Sorry, but I really can't deal with the extra weight. Even if they have a great personality, I can't be with an obeise person. I work out every day and I eat right. America is getting very, very lazy. They would rather chomp on Pork Rinds and watch The OC than get some good, healthy excersise. And just because you eat right doesn't mean its nasty food.[/quote]

Yup. My thought exactly.
 
The holy grail of girls are girls who used to be fat/ugly and so had to have really nice personalities to make friends. Then when they started caring about their weight or became prettier, they still retain their personalities. Bingo!
 
[quote name='space_rover']This woman :?: at school Keeps turning around and making eye contact with me. She has beautiful eyes. She seems really smart and down to earth. But shes huge. I dont have anything against fat people its just that America alienates them and makes them look so bad. Like theyve commited a crime for becoming over weight. Every thing in america seems so Schizophrenic[/quote]

I have to ask: Why is there a question mark in the middle of the first sentence? :shock:

Anyhow, you've answered your own question. You sound like, other than the weight issue, you like her, and you recognize that overweight people are discriminated against.

In response to what some people here are saying I just thought I should mention that not every overweight person overeats or is lazy. First of all, there's the metabolism issue. It's not an excuse to be morbidly obese, but there are some people who will always be at least slightly overweight no matter how they diet or exercise. Also, I'm no expert but I think there's some kind of medical condition where someone can look overweight even if they're not. (I think it has something to do with water retention. Does anyone know what I'm talking about?)
 
[quote name='juicedup1']Recent results of the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES) 1999 indicate that an estimated 61 percent of U.S. adults are either overweight or obese, defined as having a body mass index (BMI) of 25 or more.

Among U.S. adults aged 20-74 years, the prevalence of overweight (defined as BMI 25.0–29.9) has increased an estimated 2 percent since 1980, increasing from 33 percent to the 35 percent of the population in 1999 (based on NHANES II and NHANES 1999 data).
In the same population, obesity (defined as BMI greater than or equal to 30.0) has nearly doubled from approximately 15 percent in 1980 to an estimated 27 percent in 1999.


Overweight
Overweight refers to increased body weight in relation to height, when compared to some standard of acceptable or desirable weight (NRC p.114; Stunkard p.14). NOTE: Overweight may or may not be due to increases in body fat. It may also be due to an increase in lean muscle. For example, professional athletes may be very lean and muscular, with very little body fat, yet they may weigh more than others of the same height. While they may qualify as "overweight" due to their large muscle mass, they are not necessarily "over fat," regardless of BMI.

61 percent that is a joke! I look down on fat people,there is know way you need to let yourself get that way. Instead of exercising and tring to lose weight, Americans take the easy way out and get there tummy stapled![/quote]

1. Everybody is different. I'm sure you know people who eat the same amount you do or even less and weigh more. Don't hate someone because of their genes. Then again, you feel suited to judge people based on their appearance. How sad. Why don't you worry about your own life instead of judging others that you have never met?

2. Those statistics are very misleading. They definition of overweight and obesity has changed over the years, adding more people to that category. This accounts for much (not all) of the increase over the years. Now, I could care less what someone weighs, but that's something interesting to take into account when you hear all these people screaming about some "epidemic".
 
[quote name='RichD1'][quote name='kittycatgirl2k']I also laugh at the people that say "if I can diet so can you" and all that shit. Some people simply CANT lose weight. They go on unhealthy diets and starve themselves and excerise and the weight just will not come off. Thyroid problems can blow you up if its hypo and then if it switches to hyper you start losing weight like crazy. People's metabolisms also differ. Some can eat whatever they want in huge quantities, sit on their butt all day, rinse, repeat and never gain an ounce. Others just LOOK at a cheeseburger or candy bar and instantly you can add on three pounds.

That doesn't excuse not getting a good diet though, it should be balanced and not too one way or the other. The Atkins diet is okay though... it seems to gel with alot of people. Maybe we were once simply carnivores. The world will never know.[/quote]

Are you fat?[/quote]

If so, want to get together? :D
 
[quote name='Amanda the Red Mage']

In response to what some people here are saying I just thought I should mention that not every overweight person overeats or is lazy. First of all, there's the metabolism issue. It's not an excuse to be morbidly obese, but there are some people who will always be at least slightly overweight no matter how they diet or exercise. Also, I'm no expert but I think there's some kind of medical condition where someone can look overweight even if they're not. (I think it has something to do with water retention. Does anyone know what I'm talking about?)[/quote]

There's lots of medical conditions that can cause this, and even some medications as a side effect.

In fact, in my abnormal psychology class my professor told us he found out about Prozac through his anorexic patients before the medical journals even tipped him off. The reason being is that anorexic patients almost always refuse antidepressants because they cause major weight gain,and Prozac doesn't.

although, someone doesn't have to be fat to be considered fat.

Sometimes it's all about the bone structure and boobs.

For example, one of the curses of being a thin person with large breasts is that you can't wear normal tops unless you want to look like a huge overweight person. It either has to be form fitting or a crop top.this one is not so bad because it can be worked around; unless you work or go to school at a place that requires uniforms or a dress code -- then you're screwed.

The other big problem involving being mistaken for big is a small jaw -- something that drives me personally absolutely nuts. Some random pictures of me make me look like I weigh 400 pounds because their only from the chin up. the pictures are taken by my so-called friends who think the pictures look good and I have yet to be able to knock into their thick heads that the only thing less attractive than a double chin is no chin at all--maybe I should start using a baseball bat ;-)
 
you shouldnt judge neone by their appearance, because she could be a really nice person. chances are why shes staring at you so much is cuz she likes you, unless you are REALLY annoying or shooting spitballs at her, your hair looks like it just got run over, etc.
trust me i know this cuz im a girl myself (and yes i DO like video games)
so i would say you should take her aside one day and ask her why she stares at you but make sure ur friends arent around
if shes brave she'll tell you the truth and then date her because she could be a really nice person but just insecure so shes too scared to go ask you about anything, im insecure myself (though not fat.. though not exactly SKINNY) because of the mean things teenagers say. so, go out with her, see if you like her/she likes you, and then make your decision. NEVER base your decision on purely how she looks, or you're just shallow/fake.

and thats all i gotta say.
 
Eh, it's a touchy subject. It varies from person to person, as a lot of people here have been saying. Actually, that's not what a lot of them have been saying. It's an overwhelmingly "they're humans too! Sicko!" response now that I think back on it, and I'm not too keen on that.

It's true that they are humans at base, yes. But to say that someone's shallow just because they don't want to date an overweight person is just as ridiculous as you're making them out to be to begin with. Weight is an inter-changable variable just like height, eye color, hair (curly/straight), skin color, race, and so forth. Some people just have their own preferences, and they're not any less of people for it, regardless of what you self-righteous activists might like to think.

Eh, that aside, I'm one of those people who can eat anything and everything, sit on my ass, and not gain a pound. That's great and all, but I'm anticipating the day that it kicks me in the ass. It's not like it goes without repercussions.

As far as your situation goes, Space Rover, I'd go for it in your example. You sound like you're not too sure about whether or not you'll like that sort of thing, so you should give it a shot.
 
[quote name='SolinariDotCom']Eh, it's a touchy subject. It varies from person to person, as a lot of people here have been saying. Actually, that's not what a lot of them have been saying. It's an overwhelmingly "they're humans too! Sicko!" response now that I think back on it, and I'm not too keen on that.

It's true that they are humans at base, yes. But to say that someone's shallow just because they don't want to date an overweight person is just as ridiculous as you're making them out to be to begin with. Weight is an inter-changable variable just like height, eye color, hair (curly/straight), skin color, race, and so forth. Some people just have their own preferences, and they're not any less of people for it, regardless of what you self-righteous activists might like to think.

Eh, that aside, I'm one of those people who can eat anything and everything, sit on my ass, and not gain a pound. That's great and all, but I'm anticipating the day that it kicks me in the ass. It's not like it goes without repercussions.

As far as your situation goes, Space Rover, I'd go for it in your example. You sound like you're not too sure about whether or not you'll like that sort of thing, so you should give it a shot.[/quote]

im not saying HES shallow, but for any one person to entirely base their decision on whether or not they should go out with someone just on how they look is completely ridiculous, therefore THEY are shallow. he didnt say specifically that he refused to go out with the girl, so i am saying that he should try to, and if he likes her, then that's great.
 
[quote name='Gothic_Walrus']You just bumped a thread that's been dead for well over a year. A year.

BigNick = teh n00b. ;)[/QUOTE]

That ws the point. Its really easy to sort the threads by date, so I said why not!
 
I dated a few fat chicks but it never lasted. Its more of a personality thing. I was active and I wanted to go out and do shit. The fat girls tend to want to stay at home and watch reruns.

Nowadays, I take my previous experience in account when I consider someone and I find myself not dating fat girls. Am I shallow? Thats up for debate...
 
[quote name='JSweeney']And lo, the proletariat shall rise up and overthrow the bourgeoisie.
Eventually, people will just come to terms with body image.. they will have to, with 61 percent being overweight. There were times in history that obesiety was a sign of prestige, and I wouldn't doubt that an eventual paradigm shift will have to occur.

I laugh at these children who whine about how they hate fat people... just wait until thier metabolisms drop off, and there gains in weight aren't hidden by growth. They will become what they hate... and even worse, they'll likely be self loathing overwieght people.[/QUOTE]

If you are a fatty, unless you have a gland problem or other medical issue, you are a drain on the healthcare system. Look at Japan dammit, you don't see nearly the number of fat people there and people live to ripe old ages. It is a real problem, and "fat acceptance" groups piss me off to no end. You don't see "Tuberculosis acceptance" groups - because people take the drugs and cure the disease. Why is it different for obeisity?
 
[quote name='camoor']If you are a fatty, unless you have a gland problem or other medical issue, you are a drain on the healthcare system. Look at Japan dammit, you don't see nearly the number of fat people there and people live to ripe old ages. It is a real problem, and "fat acceptance" groups piss me off to no end. You don't see "Tuberculosis acceptance" groups - because people take the drugs and cure the disease. Why is it different for obeisity?[/QUOTE]

The problem however, is that a good 85-90% chunk of overweight people are like that because of genetics. If you see fat kids, more often than not, you'll see fat parents. And so on, and so on.

You shouldn't judge people like that for what they eat, because they usually don't eat that much or that badly to begin with. There are ALOT of skinny-as-a-rail people that I know that eat more than anybody I've ever seen. I've seen buddies of mine go through whole pizzas, and they don't gain a pound. Yet you can go out and see somebody who's 300 lbs and eating 1 small meal a day in hopes of losing the weight. What you eat has very little bearing on what you weigh.

Which is why fat people really don't get a fair shake in today's society. You hear things like what you said, where "Oh they shouldn't eat so much", but that has nothing to do with it. Its something that makes them different, that they can't do anything about.

Its just another group of people that mainstream society can scapegoat, and for something they can't help. You can't make fun of somebody for being a certain race any more, so we make fun of them for being a certain size. It seems that every timeperiod needs their scapegoat.
 
[quote name='camoor']If you are a fatty, unless you have a gland problem or other medical issue, you are a drain on the healthcare system. Look at Japan dammit, you don't see nearly the number of fat people there and people live to ripe old ages. It is a real problem, and "fat acceptance" groups piss me off to no end. You don't see "Tuberculosis acceptance" groups - because people take the drugs and cure the disease. Why is it different for obeisity?[/QUOTE]


Well seeing how there is no drugs or cure (save for a major surgery, which really isn't an exact cure) for obesisty, that would be the first difference that comes to mind. Also, I'm quite sure there's plenty of TB acceptence or suuport groups around.
 
I don't care if a guy is fat... as long as I enjoy being with him, and we both have a great time getting off.. it's fine by me.
 
I don't think I could date a TOTALLY fat chick,... but a thick-ums......... yeah, they are great.
I've only dated one thick girl, and I can tell you,...... they work extra hard to please you.
The thing about my ex is, she was a hick in the city.
She was from upstate NY, who moved down to the Pine's in NJ, and worked in a more urban city,....... where we met.

She was really down to Earth,.... so much so, that it was like she was constantly toasted.

That bothered me. I can't stand a woman who is pleaser...... although at first, it was pure bliss.
She was actually my learning unit, so to speak,... and I mean no disrespect.
She was just too nice. Everything was let's do this, and that, or eat here, or whatever you decide. Which would be fine if she wasn't PSYCHOFAQING my mind, deducing my plans of action, then relating, and considering every possible desire I'd have....... only to choose something very similar to what I'D WANT.

I can't stand this.
I need a girl with some strength, and her's was only in her diesel lips.
NOW,........... on the other end of the spectrum,..... her lips could immitate a vagina, better than the most well trained vagina. *not to forget, she could also manipulate ALL of her female muscles*
:)

She made things happen that NOTHING else in this vast world has down there.

I'm talking PRINGLE DICK!!!!
Once I popped, I couldn't stop!!! She knew how to hit a nerve, or something; using suction, her silky soft overly juicy lips, her rose petal tongue, and her Adam's Apple.
I swear to the LORD in the Heavens,....... it was like she turned on this tap on my testes.
After about 1 minute of releasing,.... I started feeling the pressure pulling on the nuts,... it was FAQing crazy!!!! The whole time, in an ultra sensitive, orgasmic state.

Wow,.... I should give her a call.

Anyway,............ bottom line,.............. fat girls are just girls with better people skills, when it comes to men.
All of the embarassment and ridicule will be worth it,... once you take one to bed.
Just be wary,... they are either totally NICE,.... or a complete BEOTCH, from being either picked on by others,.. or used and loosed by many men who know how sensual heavy girls are.

Just pick a thick-ums up when she's ripe, and bang the sheot out of her until she looses weight. *you should have seen my girl's neck muscles,... oh my lord*
:)


Oh yeah,.... I told her we could only be friends, and she was devestated. I feel pretty bad now,... but it wasn't what I wanted, so it worked out.
Otherwise,... I'd probably be unhappily married to her now, as we were together for over 2 years.
Man........... those were some good times.


Don't discriminate,........ inseminate!!!!
:)
 
[quote name='thingsfallnapart']go on one date with her dude, one thing youll learn in life, if a chick makes you smile and have a good time, then shes worth everything in the world no matter what she looks like.[/QUOTE]

True. But for me, most of my family is really fat, while most other people I grew up with were normal or overweight but not obese. Basically, they make me think of family which is a big no no when dating. Though I love healthy looking women marilyn monroe, pre anorexia christina ricci, kate winslet (not sure what she looks like now), kate moss (again, don't know what she looks like now), renee zelweger (bridget jones diary) etc. I hate bones. When they start looking like roseanne I start thinking of family.

Though I know there is genetics involved. I eat 2 meals a day, and they're small ones at that. I don't particularly like fattening foods (I hate being able to taste butter, oil etc) and I restrict what I eat anyway. I'm still overweight in a sense, I have been able to reduce it so I look perfectly normal when clothed, just I have a stomach which is hidden underneath. I also have a friend who eats between 4-6 meals, each equal to, or larger than, the meals I eat. He's rail thin. The only good thing is since my metabolism is already at a crawl, I've learned how to deal with it by controlling what I eat and how much. He'll be a blimp if his slows down, he has absolutely no control or restriction on what he eats.

Though I've learned that knowing how to cook helps, that way you don't get stuck eating all the packaged, and fast food high fat foods that most students live off of.

and her Adam's Apple.
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Either I'm not up to date on my sex slang, or there was a reasons he knew how to please a man so well.
 
[quote name='evilmax17']The problem however, is that a good 85-90% chunk of overweight people are like that because of genetics. If you see fat kids, more often than not, you'll see fat parents. And so on, and so on.

You shouldn't judge people like that for what they eat, because they usually don't eat that much or that badly to begin with. There are ALOT of skinny-as-a-rail people that I know that eat more than anybody I've ever seen. I've seen buddies of mine go through whole pizzas, and they don't gain a pound. Yet you can go out and see somebody who's 300 lbs and eating 1 small meal a day in hopes of losing the weight. What you eat has very little bearing on what you weigh.

Which is why fat people really don't get a fair shake in today's society. You hear things like what you said, where "Oh they shouldn't eat so much", but that has nothing to do with it. Its something that makes them different, that they can't do anything about.

Its just another group of people that mainstream society can scapegoat, and for something they can't help. You can't make fun of somebody for being a certain race any more, so we make fun of them for being a certain size. It seems that every timeperiod needs their scapegoat.[/QUOTE]

LOL. I already ruled out the gland problem people.

Come on - most of those fat people chow down - and you know this, man. If it was as you say, Europeans would be just as obese as Americans.

Put down the double patty and pick up a carrot, dammit.

http://www.fatchicksinpartyhats.com/
 
[quote name='camoor']LOL. I already ruled out the gland problem people.

Come on - most of those fat people chow down - and you know this, man. If it was as you say, Europeans would be just as obese as Americans.

Put down the double patty and pick up a carrot, dammit.

http://www.fatchicksinpartyhats.com/[/QUOTE]

Some do eat a lot, some just have poor eating habits (don't eat much but high calorie, high fat, low exercise), others will become fat (like me) if they eat what the average, normal weight, person would eat. I usually take in about 1500-2000 calories a day and I'm still heavier than normal. Up to 1000 of those calories is in apple juice. I eat tons of pasta, its my stable diet (usually with tomato sauce and some grated cheese, as well as udon. Can't remember the last time I didn't have pasta in, some form, during the day). Carrots (with no calorie mustard) is my favorite snack, along with hot air, unbuttered, popcorn. Sometimes I'll eat dried apricots too. I'm not very active, I play basketball twice a week but that's about it (though I do walk alot, 10 minute walk to classes everyday and I tend not to use my car to go short distances). I had much more leg muscle, but also more fat, when I rode my bike for 10 miles a day for about a year (before I had a car and used it to go to work) and I ate about the same then as I do now. When I look at what my friends do and eat, I shouldn't have any weight problem whatsoever.
 
plump is ok. Being a gamer I'll overlook a lot of other faults. As long as I'm not afraid of being crushed to death in my sleep during an accidental rollover, I think I can manage.
 
A little bit of plumpness can't hurt. However, I would have to question someone's outlook on life if they were incredibly overweight. I've dated girls from quite thin to mildly overweight. Weight has not been a deciding factor in any of my previous relationships.

If you are intrigued by this girl, don't let her size turn you away. Weight can always be lost and health improved.
 
i dont date fat chicks, but it's not like i hate them. it's just because im a shallow bastard. i like to date chicks with some junk in the trunk because for some reason i like a girl with an assss. but if theres too much i have to draw a line.
 
actually, its all about the ratio. A plump or fat woman that has a similar waist to hip ratio as the stereotypically thinner women(~.7), then they will be more attractive, to pretty much everyone.
 
Yeah,.......... like in Lost in Translation,....... where your good old avatar was looking thick as hell. I wanted nothing more than to be in that hotel with her, instead of that crusty old Bill Murray.

Damn, with a face like his, he still pulls the beotches.

My lord, SJ is so freaking hot.
:)
 
If you can live with the folds then go for it. Know that she will probably die sooner than she should unless you get her on a treadmill or something so don't get too attached.
 
[quote name='sblymnlcrymnl']I don't "date" but I'm not into fatties either. I know they need love too, but they have to pay for it.[/QUOTE]


Ha ha ha ha hah ha ha ha ha. Are you a male hooker that specializes in fat women? Does it pay well? :)
 
Well, guess i'll put my two cents in on this and then let it be.


I know alot of people dont date, "fatties" but then who are you to judge how anyone looks?


Ok, you got me, I am a "fat chick" and nope, I dont have a boyfriend at the time.


Not sure if it's because us fat people are icky and might devour half the nation or if it's because people are afraid of what others might think when you walk down the street with a hippo by your side.

Whatever it is, well, I dont care to be honest.

I also find it funny when I go to an arcade and play "Pump it up" (similar to DDR, but much better) and I can see people looking at me as I get on the pads and are probably thinking, "aww..poor fat chick got lost. The pizza is that way sweetheart" but then I start playing and people actually think it's cool.


Anyway, point is, not all fatties just sit there and do nothing. I have been fat my entire life and I have tried everything to lose weight (I played baseball for 6 years, softball for 3, and would play outside everyday with my friends growing up) It sometimes gets depressing when you see people who say, "Why dosent that cow just get up and get some excercise...it'll do her some good" because I do and nothing seems to help.


So before you judge, understand.
 
[quote name='MegoW64']I also find it funny when I go to an arcade and play "Pump it up" (similar to DDR, but much better)[/QUOTE]

You poor, misguided woman...
 
Fat chicks are like mopeds, fun to ride, until your friend's find out. In school though, not to diss on anyone, your better off not I would say simply because it really causes more of a fuss and would probably put her through more pain than she should bear anyway.
 
And I'm sure everyone here talking about not dating 'fat chicks' is a Brad Pitt lookalike, scoring [since, after all, that's what it's all about] with Angelina Jolie lookalikes, that is, when they can beat off the Milla Jovoviches or whoever's considered 'hot' now.

Need to start another thread: "Girls: Would you date a gamer geek?"

Most Americans nowadays are overweight-to-obese. The causes are many and varied: video games and home electronics replacing kickball and going for walks; prepackaged and fast food; laziness; the growth of Suburbia [too far to walk places and too spread out to not need access to a car]; metabolism; water retention; and, yes, too much of the wrong foods and not enough exercise.

I personally would rather 'date' a girl who's got a little more flesh on her bones, than the anorexic, concentration-camp-victim-lookalikes, sticklike carcasses that are all over the media.
And don't worry, all you people who shelter inferiority complexes--even with all the political correctness, there's still a few types of people that it's okay to make fun of/insult: white males, Christians, and overweight people.
 
[quote name='ZeroSupporT']Fat chicks are like mopeds, fun to ride, until your friend's find out. In school though, not to diss on anyone, your better off not I would say simply because it really causes more of a fuss and would probably put her through more pain than she should bear anyway.[/QUOTE]\

Wow....So you date people based on what your friends think? How little you must value your own opinion. Think for yourself for a change, and make/have/STAND BY your own opinions. Don't decide what you think by taking a poll.
 
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