What you have to understand is the practice of gamesharing is based upon trust and unfortunately, it is very much open to abuse by dishonest people. You will have to excuse people not falling over to give details of the processes to anyone who comes asking but its just precaution.
Try not to be too impatient man, I understand its a little frustrating when it feels like your this 'black sheep' in a flock of know-it-alls but your not going to endear yourself with snappy comments about people not answering you sooner.
Welcome, be patient, polite and build yourself up a little reputation and you'll soon be alright
I appreciate you taking the time to speak with me. Sorry for getting riled up