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Jack-Hunter

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I'm writing a blog about this that I have saved as a draft, so I won't go into detail and i'll just put it all in a nut shell.

1. I met this girl two days ago.

2. She's fucking cute.

3. We both have huge crushes on each other, and we both know it.

4. She can't decide between me and another guy.

Our conversation 5 minutes ago is as follows:

Lionhart617 (8:35:37 AM): so you felt sick?


+1915249 (8:36:17 AM): No, just not in the mood to sit and walk around hallways all day



Lionhart617 (8:38:41 AM): so I can't kiss you till tomorrow?
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+1915449 (8:39:34 AM): Woah! didn't expect you to say that



Lionhart617 (8:40:20 AM): Ahahahaha.
+1915449 (8:41:18 AM): Well I honestly first gotta figure out whats gonna happen or what happened with the other dude



Lionhart617 (8:41:41 AM): Well I was just kidding. :p
+1915449 (8:42:02 AM): =) l.o.l



Lionhart617 (8:42:20 AM): You can go out with him if you'd like. I mean don't let me hold you back or anything.


+15217649 (8:45:22 AM): Well yeah thanks =). I just told my friend that he asked me out....I felt horrible. if I go with him it will hurt her =/



Lionhart617 (8:45:48 AM): do you want to?


+1916449 (8:47:05 AM): Well I like him and I've talked to him he seems nice enough but I'm not sure

I mean two days ago, since we went on a double date thing with our respective friends, we kissed, made out, held hands and stuff. And all of a sudden I find this out -_-

So..what should I do to get her to keep her eyes on me? Should I act like i'm deciding between her and another girl as well, or would that probably make her care less?

I can honestly say that after two days ago, I developed an interest in her, but I wanted to take things slowly as I mistakenly thought that I had all the time in the world. Then when she brought up this other guy, it's made me want her even more. It's a smart tactic, whether or not it was planned, and it's working.

Pretty interesting scenario for me.

EDIT:

Lionhart617 (8:57:18 AM): So should we just be friends?


+1915249 (8:58:56 AM): Probably yeah
But I would like to go out with yu
Perhaps later on?

What the hell should I say to that? I feel like telling her "I really don't like being used as a backwheel." Or "Well I don't know. I mean someone sort of likes me too."
 
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Lionhart617 (9:03:08 AM): Well I don't know. I mean someone sort of likes me too. I mean..even if you didnt like the other guy, I couldn't go out with you yet


Lionhart617 (9:03:09 AM): because I don't know you well enough, even though I think you're cute.


+191549 (9:04:21 AM): Yes its true so we agree on staying friends? =)



Lionhart617 (9:04:47 AM): Does that mean you're going to go out with the other guy?
+191549 (9:05:36 AM): More than likely I won't but its not fer sure

Hmm...

EDIT

Lionhart617 (9:09:32 AM): Being friends is okay with me along as we can still..like eachother? x_x


+191549 (9:10:34 AM): Yes that would be great =P

Seems like things are fine again. Maybe my introducing of this fictional "other person" of my own got her to step down a little and say the "more than likely I won't" line. Who knows.

I guess I made this thread useless by continuing on without waiting for responses here. I'd still like to hear your opinions though, and any advice.

The blog will probably be out later today for those bored/interested enough to read it. I could put it out right now, but i'd rather add/remove the necessary/unnecessary parts and finish, then polish it.
 
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I don't think your friend would appreciate you posting her phone number like that, hahaha.

You've known her for two days, have huge crushes on each other, yet she can't decide if she likes you more than some other mang? Ditch the bitch.
 
[quote name='tiredfornow']I don't think your friend would appreciate you posting her phone number like that, hahaha.

You've known her for two days, have huge crushes on each other, yet she can't decide if she likes you more than some other mang? Ditch the bitch.[/quote]

 
[quote name='botticus']Nah, they would have said Jack, and it would have confused her. Now they know to say Edward.[/quote]

Yeah, the response I got from her was ''I don't even know anyone named Jack. Stop fucking calling.'' :roll:
 
[quote name='botticus']Nah, they would have said Jack, and it would have confused her. Now they know to say Edward.[/quote]

That means my plan is working. Shh. Give it some thought. ;)
 
[quote name='botticus']Nah, they would have said Jack, and it would have confused her. Now they know to say Edward.[/QUOTE]

:rofl:

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First, how old are you?

Second, hit it and quit it.
 
You can go out with him if you'd like. I mean don't let me hold you back or anything.
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Lionhart617 (8:42:20 AM):

Psycho. I'm sure she's relieve that you're "allowing" her to go out with another dude.

The best thing to do is ignore her. That makes the ladies want you even more.
 
[quote name='shieryda']Lionhart617 (8:42:20 AM):

Psycho. I'm sure she's relieve that you're "allowing" her to go out with another dude.

The best thing to do is ignore her. That makes the ladies want you even more.[/quote]

She better be. I'm not usually that lenient. :cool:
 
[quote name='Ikohn4ever']just dont start cutting yourself when she says you arent emo enough for her[/quote]

Yeah, you already told me how that worked out for you. Didn't have the best ending, did it?
 
When a girl comes out and tells you that she has to think about picking you or another guy, you're just asking for trouble. Maybe not right away, but eventually it will happen. Just walk away and find someone who doesn't act like she's car shopping.
 
[quote name='sp00ge']When a girl comes out and tells you that she has to think about picking you or another guy, you're just asking for trouble. Maybe not right away, but eventually it will happen. Just walk away and find someone who doesn't act like she's car shopping.[/quote]

Agreed. I've run into this kind of trouble before. But i've also noticed that if you finish with them and then dump them before they dump you, it's all good.

I'm not into serious dating.

I was with a girl for a year, that was it for me.

I'll get serious about it some 10-15 years from now.
 
You come off as more than a little creepy in those chats, and she comes off as uninterested. If she isn't ready to settle down and open her baby maker to you after two days, then what good is she? Besides, you don't want sloppy seconds from her first choice.
 
[quote name='benjamouth']"You're heading for a 3-way, and not the good kind of 3-way" - sp00ge[/quote]

lol - The "Hey, at least I'm getting some" beggars-can't-be-choosers three-way.
 
[quote name='PR Mega X']You come off as more than a little creepy in those chats, and she comes off as uninterested. If she isn't ready to settle down and open her baby maker to you after two days, then what good is she? Besides, you don't want sloppy seconds from her first choice.[/quote]


I'd agree if I hadn't, as my friend Allen described: "made out with her for a total of an hour and thirty minutes" those two days past.

I see what you're saying though. :rofl:
 
[quote name='PR Mega X']You come off as more than a little creepy in those chats, and she comes off as uninterested. If she isn't ready to settle down and open her baby maker to you after two days, then what good is she? Besides, you don't want sloppy seconds from her first choice.[/QUOTE]


This.

[quote name='Jack-Hunter']I'd agree if I hadn't, as my friend Allen described: "made out with her for a total of an hour and thirty minutes" those two days past.

I see what you're saying though. :rofl:[/QUOTE]

She's trying to play the field....of dicks. You just happened to be stumbled upon.
 
[quote name='benjamouth']"You're heading for a 3-way, and not the good kind of 3-way" - sp00ge[/quote]

The classic Love Triangle.

..Or pass around the beer fiasco.
 
[quote name='seanr1221']This.



She's trying to play the field....of dicks. You just happened to be stumbled upon.[/quote]

Meh. I didn't exactly like her at first. She came onto me. The trick is holding a wad of 1's and making it look like you have a fuck load of cash. ALWAYS works. :bouncy:
 
There are literally thousands of hot chicks out there - I wouldn't waste 30 seconds on someone who was "deciding between me and another guy." Jesus Christ.
 
I knew this thread would be a winner.

So are you trying to bang her or what? You're not going to have a real relationship with this chick.
 
[quote name='sp00ge']When a girl comes out and tells you that she has to think about picking you or another guy, you're just asking for trouble. Maybe not right away, but eventually it will happen. Just walk away and find someone who doesn't act like she's car shopping.[/quote]

I agree.

She's just keeping you on a short leash. Some women thrive on having multiple guys swoon over them. It empowers them.

Move on.

(edit) Unless you're trying to just bang her and kick her out of your pad. Then by all means go for it =) (don't waste too much time on trying though)
 
[quote name='SpazX']I knew this thread would be a winner.

So are you trying to bang her or what? You're not going to have a real relationship with this chick.[/quote]

Obviously. I stated before i'm not into serious relationships yet.

I should have anticipated people with bad vision in a gaming forum.
 
Hit it and quit it. She'll be needy and indecisive like this forever. Also, just because she made out with you for an hour and a half doesn't mean anything. Girls make out with guys because they're bored. If you didn't get her engine revving from making out to banging like rabbits, then she's just not into you.
 
[quote name='Jack-Hunter']Obviously. I stated before i'm not into serious relationships yet.

I should have anticipated people with bad vision in a gaming forum.[/QUOTE]

Bad vision? It's not like your vision can be all that good given how you dress.
 
[quote name='Jack-Hunter']Dude #2, I hate that guy...[/quote]

Settle it once and for all - challenge him to a pistol duel, or a knife fight.:D
 
after 3 lines i knew what my answer was gonna be. delete her number from your phone. take her off your buddy list. never talk to her again.

she's pulling the typical bullshit games that girls love to play. read the advice category of my blog for more dating advice.
 
[quote name='depascal22']Hit it and quit it. She'll be needy and indecisive like this forever. Also, just because she made out with you for an hour and a half doesn't mean anything. Girls make out with guys because they're bored. If you didn't get her engine revving from making out to banging like rabbits, then she's just not into you.[/quote]

Point taken. Time to move on then.
 
Tell that bitch you got hoes in different area codes and that it's time for a HO LI DAY wile you get some HODERVES. I recommend slapping her with a big ass sack.
 
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