So I emailed a seller about an item that has three different editions, asking which one it is. He replies back and tells me. Great, it's the one I want. A few days pass and the auction ends - I win, and I pay within a day.
Shipping was supposed to be Priority Mail. I forgot about that and thought it was coming parcel post. So its been a week and no "Your item has shipped" email. Some sellers don't bother with that so I didn't think too much of it until the week had passed.
So then I email asking if the item shipped yet.
I get back a response of "Oh I didn't even realize the auction ended and it sold" and "My eBay alerts aren't working" followed by "I'm super busy working two jobs." And I'll add here that the item description said something about the seller just being a college kid who needs cash so the prices might not be the best on eBay, so he's already working sob stories into his auction descriptions.
Look, maybe I'm just being a dick - but I don't really care if you're working two jobs or if you're a poor starving college kid. Admit you

ed up, apologize, and send the damn thing already. Don't make bullshit excuses. To me, when you sell on eBay, you're held to the same quality standards as anyone, whether its some person selling random crap or a major company. You're the one choosing to sell, so meet those minimum standards of customer service. And I don't think those standards are too hard to meet. Reply back to emails within a reasonable period of time. Live up to the handling time you choose for your auction listings. Things like that.
Additionally, when someone pays you via PayPal like I did, you get an email saying your buyer has paid, ship the item. So is he claiming he doesn't get those emails either? Where did he think the money in his PayPal account came from? A magical fairy? And if for whatever reason he's not getting emails from eBay and PayPal, that's his responsibility to find out what's going on and fix it - though I suspect this guy is just bullshitting me.
If someone was in the hospital or died or things are hectic - I can understand that and I'm rarely ever in a rush to get my items I buy/win on eBay. Just don't bullshit me when you fall behind and

up sending out the item. I don't appreciate that.