1) Both things are wrong, but you choosing to prioritize what is more "wrong" and deeming once acceptable over the other is not how it works. Neither should happen.
2) So, if I'm harassed, I should stick up for myself, when the action is clearly wrong? Wow gator, but don't worry, we'll get to this later.
3) Reasonable adults engage in harassing of each other? This is what you are implying, if not outright saying.
4) So, you first tell me to stick up for myself, then say I have to do something about it? I don't know, but the action is wrong in the first place. And so is this "logic" of yours. And what moral pedestal? I just pointed a simple fact.
5) Like I said, harassing Equistina or Snakey for the matter, is wrong. If viewing it's "acceptable", just because its Snakey, and he should stick up for himself/others defend him, I'm calling you out on this.