http://www.avsforum.com/avs-vb/forumdisplay.php?f=166
I'm sure there is a ton of info buried in here. I am too lazy to look for it, but AVS Forum is about as credible as it comes (other than the fact that a lot of people seem to create problems for themselves by being overly nit picky).
I ordered 11 HD-DVDs from them about a month and a half ago (they were around $4.99 then) and they all arrived with no problem. They were packaged fairly well and shipped pretty quick. Overall, I personally would not hesitate to do business with them again.
http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp?id=abcat0106001&type=category
It's a good starting point. I bought my stand from them and haven't had any complaints.