Did you not get a software CD with the bluetoth ..should just be a matter of runing the cd ...install ..then run the pogram and hook up the phone via usb cable ..select the correct setting no the phone and voila
It is probably due to slow loading of thepage i get that sometimes , all you do if you want to see the pic is right click and select shwow picture and it will load that specific part of the page
You either have too many programs set to start up with windows is why it is taking soo long or there is a program set to start up with windows that is having trouble .
I would go through as many as your software cd,s and reinstall everything yuo can from fresh to try and save you from a format
I am tempted soo much to go to WoW but i dont think i want to get as addicted again for a while after playing EQ ...i am enjoying sopending some quality time with the kids