Speaking to a few different topics, so I'm not going to bother multi-quoting.....
Crysis 2 has deathmatch and team deathmatch open from the start and the other modes open up as you rank up. The king of the hill-type mode opens up fairly quickly, I think when you hit rank 10. That's all I've played so far, though I think I might have unlocked one other mode (I'm rank 14 or 15). Its fast-paced and first-person, so its definitely nothing like RF:G, but its certainly fun. I throughly enjoyed the increased level of mobility, with the power-jumping, ledge-grabbing, and sliding and I also appreciate the strategy involved in the fact that all of your abilities require energy (sprinting, stealth, armor, etc.). If you haven't already read it, feel free to check out my review I wrote about it:
http://mkernan.wordpress.com/2011/04/08/crysis-2-review-will-it-blend/
Regarding what other games to play.... I have many of the ones mentioned and would enjoy playing most of them. Uncharted 2, Section 8, blah blah blah, or even just more RF:G. Brink does seem compelling, but I don't know a ton about it and would probably want to wait on reviews before I ran out and bought it. I don't own "Episodes from Liberty City" specifically, but I do own vanilla GTA IV and have purchased both add-ons via PSN. I assume that would allow me to play with people running the 'Episodes' disc, but I dunno..... sometimes devs do stupid shit and I honestly don't know if they interoperate.
On the topic of RF:A, I think I share the various sentiments that have been expressed here thus far. I enjoy Volition's work and I'm sure it'll be a fantastic game, but times are tight financially and I don't think I can justify a day-one purchase with no competitive multiplayer included. I'm sure I'll buy it sooner or later, but without this little GFB community to play with, I have no sense of urgency regarding it.
i think we're all mature enough here to recognize that clearly J/One Letter had nothing to do with the decision to not include a competitive multiplayer mode and to know that we obviously shouldn't be giving him shit for it. On the other hand, (like DD points out) it is his job to act as the mediator between Volition and the community, so we should not hold back in telling him how we feel, so long as it is done in a civilized manner. (Hey J - if you're reading, tell yours peeps to develop that shit as DLC!!!!)
Its 1:30am my time, and I've been drinking, so hopefully these thoughts have come across in a fairly cohesive manner. If not, expect some edits tomorrow morning.
In the end, I'm sure we can all continue to have fun playing shit online together, even if it (sadly) isn't in the new Red Faction game.
p.s. - If and when any of you have kids, don't stay up til 2am like I somtimes do. Its just not smart. =)