none of my friends could help me so I will ask here. Theres this girl that likes me and I like her but she already has a boyfriend. Her friends all tell me that she likes me but doesnt know what to do because she also likes the other guy. what should i do?
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Magehart
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Find a girl w/o any drama attached to her. There are an endless amount of girls out there who are hotter and smarter than the afformentioned lady so I say forget her until she's an easy target.
Add a poll too.
Girls do tests like these to find out a guys character. The best thing to do is just ignore them outright and not play into it.
Add a poll too.
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Just hook up with her untill your sick of her and your not obligated cause she has a bf or just move on to someone who doesn't have a bf because she obviously isnt trust worthy to be a gf so I wouldnt even bother with a relationship with her. You cheat once you cheat for life.
[quote name='mrmafia33']none of my friends could help me so I will ask here. Theres this girl that likes me and I like her but she already has a boyfriend. Her friends all tell me that she likes me but doesnt know what to do because she also likes the other guy. what should i do?[/quote]
If she leaves him for you, what makes you think she won't leave you for the next guy that comes around? Be smart about this.
If she leaves him for you, what makes you think she won't leave you for the next guy that comes around? Be smart about this.
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[quote name='SIUfan']If she leaves him for you, what makes you think she won't leave you for the next guy that comes around? Be smart about this.[/QUOTE]
what he says
what he says
2008 starts where 2007 left off.
Yeah, it's cool.....you both dig each other. Just let that be enough, for now. When her bf cheats on her, you can be there to console her, and be her friend. Unless you're a drama seeker, just let things happen how they happen. And keep your eyes open for other girls.
Yeah, it's cool.....you both dig each other. Just let that be enough, for now. When her bf cheats on her, you can be there to console her, and be her friend. Unless you're a drama seeker, just let things happen how they happen. And keep your eyes open for other girls.
If it was me i'd start having sex with the guy, suck him off constantly and he'll brag to her about how good the oral is. Don't pay her any attention just keep sexing the guy. She'll want you so bad she'll leave him and throw herself at you but resist and keep sexing the guy. OR you can always go 80's style and cut his break lines, this as we all know will force him to drive off a cliff when he realizes he has no brakes! 
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[quote name='Moxio']I love these threads.[/quote]
Same. I mentaly grin when I see them.
[quote name='SIUfan']If she leaves him for you, what makes you think she won't leave you for the next guy that comes around?[/quote]
That's so my perspective on these sort of things.
Same. I mentaly grin when I see them.
[quote name='SIUfan']If she leaves him for you, what makes you think she won't leave you for the next guy that comes around?[/quote]
That's so my perspective on these sort of things.
[quote name='Pylis']Another one of these? Ugh. I will never figure out why anyone thinks asking a bunch of 
ing gamer dweeb strangers for relationship advice is a good idea.[/quote]
Because some of us actually have decent, long-lasting relationships.
[quote name='mrmafia33']none of my friends could help me so I will ask here. Theres this girl that likes me and I like her but she already has a boyfriend. Her friends all tell me that she likes me but doesnt know what to do because she also likes the other guy. what should i do?[/quote]
Mrmafia, if she's thinking of hooking up with other guys while she's in a relationship, she's not worth going after. Even if she isn't happy with her current relationship, there's still a way of doing things, and dumping someone just to be with someone else is usually a huge red flag, regardless of what side of it you're on.
Basicially, if her and her friends can't figure out what to do (perferably something in good taste), then don't get involved with it. I think the last thing most guys want to deal with is a young, indecisive teenage girl.
Good relationships start when both sides are mature enough to know what they want.
~HotShotX
ing gamer dweeb strangers for relationship advice is a good idea.[/quote]Because some of us actually have decent, long-lasting relationships.
[quote name='mrmafia33']none of my friends could help me so I will ask here. Theres this girl that likes me and I like her but she already has a boyfriend. Her friends all tell me that she likes me but doesnt know what to do because she also likes the other guy. what should i do?[/quote]
Mrmafia, if she's thinking of hooking up with other guys while she's in a relationship, she's not worth going after. Even if she isn't happy with her current relationship, there's still a way of doing things, and dumping someone just to be with someone else is usually a huge red flag, regardless of what side of it you're on.
Basicially, if her and her friends can't figure out what to do (perferably something in good taste), then don't get involved with it. I think the last thing most guys want to deal with is a young, indecisive teenage girl.
Good relationships start when both sides are mature enough to know what they want.
~HotShotX
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[quote name='mrmafia33']none of my friends could help me so I will ask here. Theres this girl that likes me and I like her but she already has a boyfriend. Her friends all tell me that she likes me but doesnt know what to do because she also likes the other guy. what should i do?[/quote]
Forget about her, or wait till she has enough integrity to tell her current man she's not interested in him.
Do you really want to "be with" someone who can't even be honest with another person? Ask yourself that.
Imagine, too, that you were the "other guy". There will be times in your life that you will be the "other guy". Approach the situation carefully, and always remember- as long as she's being dishonest with her "man", it's really not something you want to tangle with.
Oh, wait...you wanted the bubblegum answer...sorry
Forget about her, or wait till she has enough integrity to tell her current man she's not interested in him.
Do you really want to "be with" someone who can't even be honest with another person? Ask yourself that.
Imagine, too, that you were the "other guy". There will be times in your life that you will be the "other guy". Approach the situation carefully, and always remember- as long as she's being dishonest with her "man", it's really not something you want to tangle with.
Oh, wait...you wanted the bubblegum answer...sorry
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Like electronics, they work better when you hit them 
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[quote name='HotShotX']Because some of us actually have decent, long-lasting relationships.
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Absolutely. I'm one of them. Mostly, it was a lame joke.
But let's face it, the questions asked almost always have common sense answers, almost always are mild permutations of other relationship questions asked by other CAGs, and more than 50% of the responses are requests for pictures or suggestions to put it in her pooper.
I don't mean any ill-will against the OP, I just hate these threads because of how rapidly they degrade.
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Absolutely. I'm one of them. Mostly, it was a lame joke.
But let's face it, the questions asked almost always have common sense answers, almost always are mild permutations of other relationship questions asked by other CAGs, and more than 50% of the responses are requests for pictures or suggestions to put it in her pooper.
I don't mean any ill-will against the OP, I just hate these threads because of how rapidly they degrade.
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Find someone else. It's not worth it. She probably wants to see 2 guys fight over herself to make herself feel special.
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Make a decision yourself, for gods sake.
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[quote name='Kayden']I was in this situation once. I had sex with her and she told her boyfriend. He started crying and she felt bad. She "dumped" me and stayed with him.
A winner is me.[/quote]
A winner is you; truly. Anyone who'd stay with a chick who cheated is a pussy so he got what he deserved.
A winner is me.[/quote]
A winner is you; truly. Anyone who'd stay with a chick who cheated is a pussy so he got what he deserved.
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[quote name='Bazz']Just hook up with her untill your sick of her and your not obligated cause she has a bf or just move on to someone who doesn't have a bf because she obviously isnt trust worthy to be a gf so I wouldnt even bother with a relationship with her. You cheat once you cheat for life.[/quote]
a-men.
a-men.
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a boyfriend doesn't matter.. shoot.. i've had girls cheat on me.. I figure you are pretty young (16-20) girls will always be a dime a dozen.. if you really like the girl.. go up say "hey, you wanna go out sometime?" then escalate it from there.. she'll either say "yes" or "no i got a boyfriend".. even if she said no you're no better off then you are now.. stop being a ing wuss and go talk to girls already.. they arn't that hard to talk to.
EDIT: if you are in the aforementioned age group.. you shouldn't be looking for a "long lasting" relationship anyways.. just go out there and get ya some.. don't worry about the long term stuff until you'veed through the shit and found the good stuff.. its too bad you won't do anything and you'll just cry yourself to sleep everynight over this one girl who has a boyfriend and you're too much of a puss to go talk to her.
ing wuss and go talk to girls already.. they arn't that hard to talk to.EDIT: if you are in the aforementioned age group.. you shouldn't be looking for a "long lasting" relationship anyways.. just go out there and get ya some.. don't worry about the long term stuff until you've
ed through the shit and found the good stuff.. its too bad you won't do anything and you'll just cry yourself to sleep everynight over this one girl who has a boyfriend and you're too much of a puss to go talk to her.Just a repeat of what's been said. If she really likes you, she'll be with you. Though you have to be careful with a chick that is willing to leave who she is currently with to be with someone else, it means she might leave you at a moments notice.
The best thing I can say is decide for yourself and will she really be worth the headache. If you like her for more than just her looks then maybe, if it is just because she is cute (and it's the same on her end), don't because you're just asking for some pain down the road that probably wasn't worth it. Just remember that the odds are that she isn't the best one for you (I'm just being a realist).
The best thing I can say is decide for yourself and will she really be worth the headache. If you like her for more than just her looks then maybe, if it is just because she is cute (and it's the same on her end), don't because you're just asking for some pain down the road that probably wasn't worth it. Just remember that the odds are that she isn't the best one for you (I'm just being a realist).
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Do her a favor and never talk to her because she can do better than a guy who asks for relationship advice on a videogame board.
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Ask her if, when she has someone going down on her, she likes them to put a pinky in her anus. If she says "yes" then that's pretty much par the course.
[quote name='Pylis']Absolutely. I'm one of them. Mostly, it was a lame joke.
But let's face it, the questions asked almost always have common sense answers, almost always are mild permutations of other relationship questions asked by other CAGs, and more than 50% of the responses are requests for pictures or suggestions to put it in her pooper.
I don't mean any ill-will against the OP, I just hate these threads because of how rapidly they degrade.[/quote]
True, but the best things about these threads are the following:
1. The OP can wade through the responses and follow the advice that best fits his personality/lifestyle (i.e. "find a decent girl" / "GET SOME!")
2. Some of us can laugh our asses off at the other responses (such as $hady, magiic, Bigspoony, and Reality to name a few).
3. The rest of us can worry about how many CAGs actually follow the advice of #2, particulary the fathers of the community.
~HotShotX
But let's face it, the questions asked almost always have common sense answers, almost always are mild permutations of other relationship questions asked by other CAGs, and more than 50% of the responses are requests for pictures or suggestions to put it in her pooper.
I don't mean any ill-will against the OP, I just hate these threads because of how rapidly they degrade.[/quote]
True, but the best things about these threads are the following:
1. The OP can wade through the responses and follow the advice that best fits his personality/lifestyle (i.e. "find a decent girl" / "GET SOME!")
2. Some of us can laugh our asses off at the other responses (such as $hady, magiic, Bigspoony, and Reality to name a few).
3. The rest of us can worry about how many CAGs actually follow the advice of #2, particulary the fathers of the community.
~HotShotX
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[quote name='btw1217']If she really likes you she'll break up with the guy. If not, she's not worth having to begin with. Either way, she's probably not worth having to begin with.[/QUOTE]
Truth.
I went through the exact same situation through-out the fall. Met the girl in August, didn't worry about it because she had a boyfriend, she told me she was interested in September, we started hanging out and talking a whole lot in October, but by December I just abandoned it.
As many times as she said "I like you more" or "I should be with you," she was unable to go balls to the wall and just break up with her boyfriend.
I'd advise you to give her an ultimatum: tell her that she's going to have to make a decision soon or you will move on. If she likes you that much, that'll be enough to get her off her ass...if she still doesn't break up with him, she wasn't worth it anyways.
Of course, all of this is the nice/logical thing to do. If you're sure she really likes you and you want to try to speed things up, start going on dates with other girls to make her jealous. Then again, that sort of thing always has the potential to backfire.:lol:
Don't sweat it. Even if you got her, she'd probably miss her relationship and it would be jumping from one thing to another entirely too quickly. And hey, you'll probably meet another girl - while I was stressing out over the girl this fall, I got closer to another girl by getting advice about it all without really realizing it, and now we've been going on dates.
Also: Pics or it didn't happen.
Truth.
I went through the exact same situation through-out the fall. Met the girl in August, didn't worry about it because she had a boyfriend, she told me she was interested in September, we started hanging out and talking a whole lot in October, but by December I just abandoned it.
As many times as she said "I like you more" or "I should be with you," she was unable to go balls to the wall and just break up with her boyfriend.
I'd advise you to give her an ultimatum: tell her that she's going to have to make a decision soon or you will move on. If she likes you that much, that'll be enough to get her off her ass...if she still doesn't break up with him, she wasn't worth it anyways.
Of course, all of this is the nice/logical thing to do. If you're sure she really likes you and you want to try to speed things up, start going on dates with other girls to make her jealous. Then again, that sort of thing always has the potential to backfire.:lol:
Don't sweat it. Even if you got her, she'd probably miss her relationship and it would be jumping from one thing to another entirely too quickly. And hey, you'll probably meet another girl - while I was stressing out over the girl this fall, I got closer to another girl by getting advice about it all without really realizing it, and now we've been going on dates.
Also: Pics or it didn't happen.
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*Walks into thread, looks around*
At least she aint married!
*Walks right back out*
At least she aint married!
*Walks right back out*
Sounds like a serious problem. I guess we're equally qualified to offer you advice as much as anybody else. Anyone remember:
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still i enjoy them for them lullz:
Reality's Fringe] Ask her if said:
[quote name='Markn951']give them both AIDS then you dont have to worry about either of them[/quote]
OP we do need more details on the situation. For instance, your age group, what is the girl's relationship like with her bf? Why are you so insistent on this girl? Are there no better alternatives for you?
Details. Add them.
and post some mutha
in' pix![quote name='Magehart']The problem w/ hooking up is that the boyfriend could be a psycho redneck. No amount of poon is worth dealing w/ that shit.[/QUOTE]
Get him drunk then hook him up with the Bang or Bait Bus or whatever it's called. All Redneck means is one drink from a cock in their ass or dick in their mouth. After that you can go out with her. Kidding, kidding. But hey, it's fun to mock idiots.
Get him drunk then hook him up with the Bang or Bait Bus or whatever it's called. All Redneck means is one drink from a cock in their ass or dick in their mouth. After that you can go out with her. Kidding, kidding. But hey, it's fun to mock idiots.
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This isn't complicated at all. You have two options:
1. her and forget her
2. Walk away from the whole situation
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her and forget her2. Walk away from the whole situation
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I'd pass.
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kill her. FRIKKIN KILL HER
bread's done