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About the bank account thing.

I was actually thinking of using the "Post-op transexual" defense to get money out of my account.

That is when I go to the bank with my mother's ID, and ask for money. When they say that the ID isn't mine, I will tell them I am a post op tranny, and if they want to confirm it. Right there they should say no and give me the money.
 
[quote name='daphatty']I'd say he isn't old enough to move out if he has to ask this question. There also seem to be some trust issues in that house. You need to address those first.

After that, take a couple weeks off from your job but tell your parents you quit and that they forced you to do it. No job, no stealing your money, no paying rent. And if they kick you out, you'll be better off wherever you go. Especially since you still have a job. :D[/quote]

That's the best idea yet. Then give em the finger on your way out.
 
[quote name='Dragonlordfrodo']About the bank account thing.

I was actually thinking of using the "Post-op transexual" defense to get money out of my account.

That is when I go to the bank with my mother's ID, and ask for money. When they say that the ID isn't mine, I will tell them I am a post op tranny, and if they want to confirm it. Right there they should say no and give me the money.[/quote]

Hahaha. Dude seriously. Get the hell out of that house. No one should tell you that anymore. You came here to ask for advice, and we're giving you pearls here, kid. Take it or leave it.

Like many people here have said, there has to be some things that you're just not telling us. Because I know for sure my parents wouldn't have been telling me to do shit when I was 20. Especially stealing money out of my bank account.

When your parents are at work, pack your shit, go get an apartment and set up shop far away from their asses. Get all the damn money out of your bank account, open a new one at a different bank and put all your money in it.

Get a decent job just to take care of the rent, utilities and your needs. Dude, you seriously have to start taking responsibility for your actions and the things that you let people do to you.

You are going to stay in this situation until you stand up and put a stop to it. It's up to you now. Get your ass out of there and get a fucking life, man!
 
I think this is a hoax. No one can be that stupid.

Edit: And if you're not you can always talk to Dr. Maury (is that how you spell it?). He is very experienced with this kinda stuff; he even has his own tv show!
 
In all honesty, he reminds me of my 1st roomate from college. He lived in the city on Doat St, basically a poor neighborhood. His mom, who was refered to as "the bitch" was overweight and bossy, his dad is in a wheelchair with stumps for legs, and they lived on welfare pretty much. He was always unkempt and most of his jeans were patched in the crotch. He was a kinda big boy and wasn't very social.

Anyway, he hated being at home and he spent most of his time in his room and ate rarely while he was there because "the bitch is in the kitchen". Now he blamed his parents for everything and wanted to leave but could never get a full time job (I won't go into that). So he graduated from college and couldn't stand being home, so after a few months, he found a school that would give him money to attend, so he traveled across the country and now lives in San Francisco. He had a van which he abandoned months ago and is now homeless as he lives with a bunch of squatters and eats out of dumpsters. I hear from him every so often when he borrows someone's cell phone or see him online when he uses his school's facilitys. He hates his parents so much that he'd rather be homeless and eat out of dumpsters then move back. He's now 24 too, so that could be you in 5 years.
 
When I was 20 years old, my mom was making less than 20k/year, I had a minimum wage job, and my dad wasn't in my life. But my life at 20 rocked because:

1. I was attending a 4 year private university working on an engineering degree. (Without paying a dime out of my own pocket)

2. I was living in a fraternity house surrounded by plenty of free beer and easy women.

How could someone so poor have it so good? Two words: Clinton Administration. Bush is the education president my ass. Under Clinton, there was so much free college money 18-22 year olds had it made. Although, now that I've finished my degree and am making the "big bucks", i kinda prefer the Bush policies...

Anyway, my advice to you is find a way to go to college for free, and drink heavily while your there.
 
Not only should you have to pay your parents rent, you should also have to pay a fee to every CAG for every post you make on this board.
 
Dude, I don't know you, but you are facing some SERIOUS problems. Not just with your parents (who seem really overbearing), but also with your attitude.
I would really suggest you get a change of scenery. Can you move in with some uncle or grandparent? Maybe move in with someone else's parents? I have a good friend who moved out of her parents' house because it was bad there, too (she was 19 at the time). It made a huge difference to be with some well-adjused people.
At some point, you'll need to realize that your messed-up situation is only PARTIALLY the fault of your parents, and PARTIALLY your fault, beecause of how you respond to it.

I read a really good book that helped me in a similar situation a few years ago.
Boundaries, by Henry Cloud
Look it up on Amazon. It's really good stuff. It will show you how to deal with your messed-up parents, and it should agree with everyone else on the board: GET OUT of the house!!
 
Yeah, attitude is everything.

You complain about your parents and how miserable you are but then you say you don't want to move out. Take your pick.
 
you sounds like your like 10 years old. Get your fat ass out of the house, pack up your shit, and look for a apartment, or at worst a hostel or hotel for aawhile.
 
Consider this. I have been stealing left and right from my mom, $20 here and there. 90% I don't even get caught. Why? Because she is unable to keep track of her own money. With that said, how would she be able to keep track of mine?
 
[quote name='Dragonlordfrodo']Enough... with stupid comments. And moving out is not an option.[/quote]

why isn't moving out an option?
 
Because they won't let me. Plus I refuse to be homeless, or live in a UCP home. Let me tell you a story about that UCP home

I went to look at an apartment run by UCP a while back. I was told I would have a roommate, his name was Dave, and that he was "High Functioning". I go to meet this guy and he answers the door in nothing but his boxers. This guy was fat beyond belief, easily fatter than me. On top of that he started to feel himself up in front of me and my service coordinator. This guy looked like High Pitch Eric from Howard Stern. I go tto meet other "High functioning people", A girl with CP, a guy in a wheelchair. How the hell are these people High Functioning? To top it off the building was all run down, and I was told by my service coordinator that the guy I would be living with, steals money from people. The only positive is that it was a really good neighborhood (Kenmore/Colvin) there was a franco's pizza right across the street (Complete with lunch buffet!) an EBgames within walking distance. 2 libraries, Rite Aid on the corner.
 
Look man, what do you want from us? You asked us collectively for advice/opinions, and we gave them. You don't have to listen to us, but shit - whining about it more isn't going to change anything.

Look - you have to be willing to take a risk, or you're going to die a sad little man. Pull your head out of your ass and change your life - no one (especially us) can do it for you.

As for this thread, it is becoming more and more obvious that you are just looking for sympathy. I think i speak for most of us when i say that we've given you all we can offer.
 
You don't make yourself look any better by dissing people with mental problems.

Your parents can't stop you from moving out, once you're an adult that would be like kidnapping someone wouldn't it? Bring it to the courts.
 
Odd... what kind of craphole city do YOU live in where you can't get... oh I don't know... a NORMAL APARTMENT?! Unless you live in Two-Dirt-Road, Montana or something, surely you can find an affordable place that isn't under a Cerebral Palsy guideline...
 
Learn some respect punk. Do they feed you, house you, etc? And for them to search you like that.. I'm somehow positive you've given them good reason. Kids these days have 0 respect for their parents, here are rights you do NOT have as a freeloader in your parents house:

You do not have the right to privacy.
You do not have the right to stay out all night.
You do not have the right to leave with no notice.
You do not have the right to play your music loudly.
You do not have the right to talk back to your parents.
You do not have the right to have females spend the night, or to be alone with them in a seperate room.
You do not have the right to break any of your parents rules simply because you think they are "bogus".

It's be an amazing thing if anyone was respectful and responsibile these days.
 
[quote name='Dragonlordfrodo']I can get a normal apartment, but then I would have to live in the ghetto where I got shot at, or a shotgun shack.[/quote]

Move to another city. Heck you could probably afford it with all that money you "steal from your mom".
 
[quote name='Dragonlordfrodo']Shut up organicow you don't belong in this thread.[/quote]

Chill out buddy! I'm not trying to be mean - I just don't know what you want from us. We have given you plenty of suggestions, none of which you seem to feel are possible for you.

And being an ass to me certainly isn't going to help. If you'll recall, I was one of the few who apologized for ripping into you in that other thread once I realized that you are one seriously f'd-up kid. Don't take your hostilities out on me.
 
I wasn't going to comment on this crap but I have to now. All this thread is an attention ploy. You are looking for everyone here to agree with you and somehow justify your attitude. You are pathetic and all you do is whine about stuff. You aren't willing to take steps to fix the situation but you want everyones sympathy. I have known people in much worse places than you that made it out. You don't deserve anyones help here. Shit or get off the pot.
 
[quote name='Aryss']I wasn't going to comment on this crap but I have to now. All this thread is an attention ploy. You are looking for everyone here to agree with you and somehow justify your attitude. You are pathetic and all you do is whine about stuff. You aren't willing to take steps to fix the situation but you want everyones sympathy. I have known people in much worse places than you that made it out. You don't deserve anyones help here. Shit or get off the pot.[/quote]

*old Budweiser ad line* True... true...
 
I was actually thinking of moving in with my aunt, because we get along really good, but I decided not to because she has like 4 kids already, who are my cousins (One is like in his early to mid 20's I think, another is 18, another is like 14 or 15 and the other is like 8 years old). There is barely room for all of them, let alone extra for me.
 
[quote name='Cornfedwb']Learn some respect punk. Do they feed you, house you, etc? And for them to search you like that.. I'm somehow positive you've given them good reason. Kids these days have 0 respect for their parents, here are rights you do NOT have as a freeloader in your parents house:

You do not have the right to privacy.
You do not have the right to stay out all night.
You do not have the right to leave with no notice.
You do not have the right to play your music loudly.
You do not have the right to talk back to your parents.
You do not have the right to have females spend the night, or to be alone with them in a seperate room.
You do not have the right to break any of your parents rules simply because you think they are "bogus".

It's be an amazing thing if anyone was respectful and responsibile these days.[/quote]


First of all I DO NOT Freeload. I pay rent. The arguement here is whether or not I should continue to pay rent considering I am not represented properly. No taxation without Representation.

Second I do have the right to do all those things except for the music one , the talking back one, and the breaking rules because they are bogus one.
 
And don't think I am treated like this for something I did. I do not smoke, drink, do drugs. My parents know this, and yet they still treat me like I do. I found pot in there room though. Maybe I should start searching them whenever they leave.
 
All I would like to do is go out to a party, or whatever, not drink or do drugs, but have fun. Somhow I am not allowed to do that. Yet my parents told me they were wild teens once. My mom admitted to using cocaine before.
 
Wow, 4 different posts in a row.

First off, you're paying 1/3rd of the "rent" in this case so it sounds like they're doing you a favor.

Ever look at it from their viewpoint? If your mom has done drugs maybe she's just trying to sheild you from all the trouble you could go through. They probably have good intentions or you're leaving something else out.
 
On top of that, my mom goes on these psycho rampages where she throws shit at people and berates them. Yet she is never reprimanded for it. I had to punch my dad in self defense once because he assaulted me with a spoon and they called the cops on ME and had me taken to ECMC for evaluation. They let me go because they found nothing wrong with me. The cops even sided with me and told me they thought my parents were insane.
 
This thread is done. This guy obviously doesn't want our help, only sympathy.

I suggest we just quite adding to the stupidity of this thread and just leave him here to talk to himself.
 
[quote name='Cornfedwb']Learn some respect punk. Do they feed you, house you, etc? And for them to search you like that.. I'm somehow positive you've given them good reason. Kids these days have 0 respect for their parents, here are rights you do NOT have as a freeloader in your parents house:

You do not have the right to privacy.
You do not have the right to stay out all night.
You do not have the right to leave with no notice.
You do not have the right to play your music loudly.
You do not have the right to talk back to your parents.
You do not have the right to have females spend the night, or to be alone with them in a seperate room.
You do not have the right to break any of your parents rules simply because you think they are "bogus".

It's be an amazing thing if anyone was respectful and responsibile these days.[/quote]

Seeing as how he's over eighteen and they take money from him I'm guessing to feed him, him house him, etc. I'd say he does have pretty much all those rights. I'm glad I'm not in your situation kid...I like for my parents to trust me and have some faith in me to do the right thing.
 
[quote name='Dragonlordfrodo']On top of that, my mom goes on these psycho rampages where she throws shit at people[/quote]

I thought only monkeys did that.

Sorry, couldn't resist.
 
And apparently she has been going on rampages at work as well. She is a nurse and I heard that she told an old woman that she "Hates the Elderly". I heard that she put a patient's head through a wall because he wouldn't sit still.
 
Let's divide this quote into two parts.

[quote name='Dragonlordfrodo']Plus they know I wouldn't do drugs because I am practically straightedge (No drugs no drinking, no smoking.)[/quote]

Yeah, drugs aren't good, don't do them.

[quote name='Dragonlordfrodo']Stop supporting hitler.[/quote]

See the above comment made by me.
 
[quote name='Dragonlordfrodo']Plus they know I wouldn't do drugs because I am practically straightedge (No drugs no drinking, no smoking.)[/quote]

You see, straight edge are people who are surrounded by this type of behavior, find it unfitting for themselves, and choose not to. You don't do it because you would have your ass handed to you by your parents if you did. If you move out, and continue to not engage in these activities (which I applaud you for not doing, btw), then you'll have the right to call yourself straight edge. I'm not trying to stand up for the straight edge lifestyle, I just don't believe you should say that about yourself in light of your current situation. There is a difference between simply not being able to do something, and surrendering the desire to do it.
 
Not only is he not responding to anything we say, but he keeps rambling on in the form of 4 posts in a row that could easily be put into one. All he wants is for us to feel sorry for him because he acts like an idiot on the forums. Maybe if you don't want to do anything I suggest you should just be quiet considering you're just an annoying attention whore.
 
I don't want to live in another city. All my family lives in buffalo.

About the straightedge thing. Even if I were surrounded by it, I still wouldn't do it. BTW I should be the one of all people to be doing drugs. I should be shooting heroin to cope with my life.
 
[quote name='Dragonlordfrodo']BTW I should be the one of all people to be doing drugs. I should be shooting heroin to cope with my life.[/quote]

No, you should stop blaming all your problems on your parents, act like an adult, and MOVE THE fuck OUT. If you have the slightest shred of integrity or self respect, you will take everyone's advice to heart and get the hell out of that place. I understand that you have a mental illness, but you seem to be capable of taking care of yourself. All you gotta do is get out there. If your doctor says you shouldn't be living on your own, do what it takes to prove to him that you are a capable human being who can stand on his own two feet. If you can have a job, dress yourself, and feed yourself, then there is no reason that you shouldn't be able to have your own life. So put the fuck up and do what you gotta do. Get some, go again. Life can be a bitch, but you are just letting it kick your ass.
 
I refuse to post here (this thread) anymore. He's gotten good advice by the barrel but he seems more content to talk than act.
 
[quote name='Dragonlordfrodo']I can get a normal apartment, but then I would have to live in the ghetto where I got shot at, or a shotgun shack.[/quote]

...that right there... just unbelievably stupid to think that... not all apartments are in the.... ahem... ghetto...
 
[quote name='Fatesealer'][quote name='Dragonlordfrodo']I can get a normal apartment, but then I would have to live in the ghetto where I got shot at, or a shotgun shack.[/quote]

...that right there... just unbelievably stupid to think that... not all apartments are in the.... ahem... ghetto...[/quote]

All the cheap ones are.

You can't comment. You don't live in buffalo. Only Punqsux, Never4Ever, and doylerulz can comment at least they live in buffalo
 
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