Do you think it's acceptable to contact people you don't know on Facebook?

[quote name='McNutsack']Although I think you falling head over heels for a waitress just by glancing at her is silly, I disagree with the majority of the people saying "dont do that, it's creepy". Welcome to 2010. What these guys don't know is that LADIES love to contact you via facebook, and they do it so often and nonchalant.
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Maybe it's a generation gap since I'm in my early 30's, and my friends, girlfriend etc. are the same or older.

But that seems very foreign to me (and my girlfriend said she'd be weirded out if some random guy she ran into sent her a facebook message like that).

We're both on facebook, as are many of our friends, but it's soley for things like keeping in touch with friends in other cities, sharing pictures with family and friends, playing some silly games etc. Not for getting in touch with random people.
 
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Hey OP, you got 3 pages of solid advice. It is your duty to at least give us a picture of the girl your stalking - trying to talk to.

Then an update of your pursuit of said girl.......if you want, i dunno, what eves.
 
Where do people put their full name on nametags? That might as well be outlawed in MN as far as I know. They don't want creepy stalkers to bug 'em.
 
One of my mom's good friend met her husband when she was waiting table. He went there a few times then asked her out.
 
[quote name='strongpimphand']YOU WAIT FOR HER TO GIVE IT UP!

Too many men are ready to give THEIR contact info first. I've seen it. Women don't care! If she wanted your contact info....she'd got it while waiting on you or whatever. Trust me. She'd slipped it in or fished for it.

If she says she don't have a pen on her or whatever just say you got a good memory and...memorize. She's going to put up a slight hurdle unless you're just a 7-10. Regardless...get it and go![/QUOTE]


Actually if a waitress tells you they don't have a pen... consider that worse than them saying no.
 
[quote name='gargus']If that were the scenario youd be better off writing down your phone number and just saying "Im sorry, I know your busy but I thought if you would like maybe we could do something later. Here is my phone number" and leave it at that. Sending someone a message on facebook later is kind of like having someone give a note to someone else for you in the 6th grade.?[/QUOTE]

[quote name='Wolfkin']completely uncomparable. guys are easy. I'm not saying we're all the same but 90% of us if a girl broke into our house while we were at work and jumped out of our closet at the very least we're gonna make out and probably get into some light-heavy petting. even if all of us wouldn't go all the way with a waitress we barely remember. interesting question how many of us wouldn't go all the way with what is essentially a stranger but would brag on CAG that we did?[/QUOTE]

omg. I fucking laughed out loud so hard! These two instances happened to me in my life and it was just too comical that you guys brought it up. I was working at a chinese buffet :cry: when this girl gave me a piece of TP (lol) with her name and number on it. I was like SCORE! but turned out she was jailbait and I found out from her dad a little later! Man, that was some screwed up shit.

Then when I was in HS my gf snuck in one of her friends into my house and when I came home this strange girl popped out of my closet and the thoughts that ran in my mind during those 5 seconds were too crazy and wild. lol

Back on topic..I honestly don't see what's wrong with contacting her on face book. Most likely she will ignore or friend you without advancement (same thing in my book). But hey, it's worth a shot. Better than doing nothing at all.
 
hey Cheapest. joining Twitter/Facebook for the coupons happens. Heck I've seen some cags that joined twitter only for the coupons and or the CAG contests based on their timeline. I'm pretty sure that's how I started Twitter (now i have a seperate account just for contests+
I've said it before and I'll say it again. Facebook used to be a great tool for keeping in touch until they decided to become a web portal. it's a sad sad day when kids know how to check their facebook page but don't understand how e-mail works (this happened+
 
[quote name='Afflicted']Actually if a waitress tells you they don't have a pen... consider that worse than them saying no.[/QUOTE]
That's why you say you can memorize the shit. Everyone knows a waitress got a pen on her...unless she doesn't like tips

It's though in my experiences always some type of hurdle a woman puts in there to make you quit...unless you look good. From not having a pen, to not really texting that much, to whatever.

So you gotta stay the course and let them know in a subtle way...I came over here to get your info. If you don't have a pen, I can memorize that shit.

And you memorize it...using the 2-2-2-1 format. Home numbers used to be so much easier because you know you could forget the first 3 digits and remember hte last 4...and then just look up the prefixes for the first 3 in a phone book. Early cell phone days too.

Nowadays, you can just do the 2-2-2-1 format. pair the first 2. then the next. then the next. and the last number. 55-54-86-2 = 555-4862.



OR, you could just be that guy who puts the number in your phone the moment you get it....but beware....women/hoes start to notice shit.

"What type of phone does he have?"
"Why is it taking so long to put my number in there?"
"Why did he just say he's going to call my phone to make sure it's legit?"

Women get mad when they get done like that. They know they can't give out a fake number so they give out the real one...and the guy calls her to confirm it. Now she got your number listed under someone NOT to respond to!

My advice if you must pull out your phone....don't dial it! Instead, just show her the number back with your thumb near the save button. And then trust that she gave your the right number since she visually confirmed it.

That way when you do text her (don't call of course) she doesn't have it programmed in her mind to blacklist you....or at least until your text game ain't where it should be
 
[quote name='mtxbass1']She probably didn't even notice you.

Do it and report back. We could all use a good laugh.[/QUOTE]I'm always up for a good laugh!
 
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