The big problem is my wife........ I'm in trouble here CAG spouses.....
I can't help out much there, my wife and I haven't gotten each other Christmas gifts in a long time (probably since we got married honestly). We opt for doing something creative or thoughtful for each other instead, but in either case there isn't much pressure for either of us, especially moreso since the focus has shifted on the kids.
Maybe this isn't normal, but my wife and I have mutually enjoyed the arrangement thus far...
For the kids, they are getting
an activity table, a set of solid chairs, and a bunch of toys and sets that go with it (mainly wooden toys this year). Usually the toy sets and pieces just go all over the place, hopefully the table and its storage will keep it organized.
Another fun idea my wife had was over the past few months, she's been looking out for fancy / fun dress up stuff for our girls, mainly at thrift stores and whatnot. Adding it all together in a chest she bought, its become a dress up box for them, which in the end didn't cost much but I know they will love it.
And hate on me if you will, but I did buy Amiibo Festival for my two oldest as their only video game related gift. I've been toiling over the reviews and I am well aware of its shortcomings, but my oldest is in love with Animal Crossing, and the main game is simple enough that the middle child will be able to play too. I guess I'm pretty much their target market for this kind of game.