[quote name='DarthPuma']Mind making a list of all the patches you would recommend for the game? I think I'd like to play it if I could find a copy.[/QUOTE]
I very much recommend it. Torment is probably my favourite WRPG - no,

that, favourite RPG - ever. Just keep in mind that the game's combat system is not particularly well done, and you'll have to micromanage them a lot to keep things running well. And, again, don't worry about getting your ass kicked in a fight - that happens a lot early on. And, yeah, be prepared for a

ton of reading.
Depending on which version of the game you have, you may or may not need to start with
this patch.
Lucky for you, three of the most important fan-made fixes have been amalgamated into
this fixpack. That one fixes a crapload of things, including some bugs relating to the Many As One. Other major changes are the fixes to Dak'kon's sword (it now changes in its strength as his morale improves/worsens, as it was originally meant to), allowing many enemies to run, and a crapload of typo fixes.
Arguably the second most important thing to install is the
tweak pack. There are a lot of thing included that you can turn on or leave off if you wish. At the very least, you'll want to install the Scale of Souls and Save Nordom. The Banter Accelorator is quite nice, too - if Black Isle wanted to shell out the money to get Homer Simpson, Pinky of "Pinky and the Brain", and Bastilla Shan in a room together, then you might as well hear them talk from time to time.
Moving on, there's
unfinished business. Restoring cut content seems to be a big thing when it comes to Chris Avellone games. There's a bunch of good stuff in there.
Finally, there's the
UI mod for higher resolutions.