Yeah, this has to stop. We have to be, completely and officially, roommates and nothing more, or nothing at all.
My family is coming stay at my place (Seattle) for a week starting the 16th, they're all from Louisiana. My mom, step-dad and sis. I sort of think I should wait and tell her after their trip, just so she doesn't feel like a fifth wheel during their stay. I can't foresee how that'd make anything worse.
I talked to one of my friends about it today, she's been in a ton of serious relationships, and when she told me I need to stop sleeping with her to let her let go of the relationship I didn't even question it. I don't understand WHY, as sex doesn't affect me with the relationship, but I know she's right just because she always is. So yeah, stop sleeping with her now, tell her we should start seeing other people after my parents leave?