How do you know if a girl likes you?

[quote name='CYRiX']Make friends with her friends and slowly poke at the idea of her liking you with her friends...[/QUOTE]

Poke at more than that.
 
[quote name='SteveMcQ']If you could be half as spirited with girls as you are with all things Sony-related, you'd be in a better situation.

Next time, just imagine their breasts as Dual Analogs on a DS and the gleam in their eyes as the chrome on a 60GB and you might find the passion to go after them regardless of how they may feel about you.;)[/quote]


:applause: :lol:
 
There's no point wondering about this shit. If she rejects your advances, she doesn't like you, if she goes along with it, she likes you. Only way to know is to jump and see what happens.

She sounds like bad news what with flirting while dating some guy and being the type of nutso chick that wants what she doesn't have and such.

I'm also of the opinion that if you have to wonder, it's not right yet or she doesn't like you. Women don't hide these things.
 
[quote name='SteveMcQ']Ask her if she wants to come over and play some 360. If she refuses and goes on a rant about Sony stating the the PS3's superiority and how Heavenly Sword, MotorStorm, and Resistance are heaven-sent, examples of gaming perfection, then you know it's love.

(Seriously, I'll give it a read later and post accordingly. I imagine yukine and JimmieMac will chime in and give you something good to read, though).[/quote]

[quote name='Demolition Man']... stick it in her pooper?[/quote]

[quote name='javeryh']I feel like if someone followed college javeryh and The Mana Knight around for a week back in 1994 and filmed everything we'd have the greatest comedy of all time.[/quote]

I would pay good money too see that and the shitting/sharting/whatever that would happen.

[quote name='Lord Draconus777']Pics. Now.[/quote]

[quote name='goukill1120']Ask her if she stopped masturbating. If she says yes that means she loves you.[/quote]

:lol:

[quote name='getmyrunon']If you've got to post about it and ask the internet community at large, the answer is usually no.

PS3 > Girlfriend, anyway.[/quote]

[quote name='anomynous']And by girl do you mean your PS3?[/quote]

[quote name='SteveMcQ']If you could be half as spirited with girls as you are with all things Sony-related, you'd be in a better situation.

Next time, just imagine their breasts as Dual Analogs on a DS and the gleam in their eyes as the chrome on a 60GB and you might find the passion to go after them regardless of how they may feel about you.;)[/quote]

[quote name='SteveMcQ']Unless she's talkin' about Uncharted and R&C, then propose to the gal 'cause clearly she'd be a keeper.[/quote]

Start a conversation about which controller between the PS3 and 360 is the best. Say you like the SixAxis and wait for someone to argue the other point. If she sticks up for you and sings praises for the SixAxis and how rumble really is "last-gen", but how Sony is a great enough company to cater to the audiences and is giving you the best of both worlds in releasing the DS3, then you know she likes you. Girls taking up for inane interests of your own means she "like likes" you. That's way better than just "liking" you. Teehee.

Love is like fanboyism. You have to take a leap and carry the flag of your beloved console no matter how ridiculous your arguments may become. Sure, shit like Lair gets released, but you jump in knowing your love for the system is too strong to let it sway you from the initial pain in finding that there's really nothing to play.

Love makes no excuses. Except when you know you're wrong. Then you make up the dumb excuses so you don't feel like an idiot.

Like how Sony touts BC in their consoles and is now saying the best thing to do is just to buy a PS2./
This shit is just too good. All good answers through out and pretty much anything and everything I was thinking. This thread is golden. Thread of the year here.

TMK - Thanks for a great laugh tonight. :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::applause::applause::applause::applause::applause::applause::bouncy::bouncy::bouncy::bouncy::bouncy::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
 
[quote name='The Mana Knight']-She once said she wanted to fix my anti-social behavior or something and get me out more (make me take her somewhere expensive).[/quote]

Girls say a bunch of shit. None of it which they mean. Most of which they'll change their minds about months, if not days, later. Don't be a dumbass. These 'signs' mean nothing if you don't act on them IMMEDIATELY.
 
You sound like me....in middle school (see: Mean Tricks thread ).

I think that if a relationship is actually going to work, you won't have that " will she or won't she " kind of feeling. If you do, she's probably leading you on or as shy as you are, which isn't likely.

I say move on. Dealing with these " will she or won't she " situations actually drains you. You're too busy focusing on that girl to focus on girls who might actually like you. Everything she said is probably the oposite of what she meant. Some girls like to pick the lowest boy on the totem poll ( which you are socially ) and pretend like they're going to change you. Like they're going to love you, like they see something else in you that no one else does. But in reality they are repulsed. They just have sympathy for you. Then they stop caring and leave you to pick up the pieces. You cannot confront them about this because they can argue that they never cared about you in that way, anyway.

Just move on. No point.
 
TMN, as I read through your post, it was obvious the vibes that the girl was giving you were due to some sort of liking. I don't verbally flirt with guys like that to be talking to myself.

Anyway, I know you said you would try to move on and everything, but perhaps if you feel like you can't really lay the matter to rest, you could try contacting her through her Facebook or other friends or something and strike up a dialogue and bring up the past. You could at least ask the questions you want to ask and see if there's anything possible now.

Back in high school, there was a boy that I liked for ages but he was a great friend of mine. I finally got up the nerve to ask him if he liked me. He was very sweet and let me know he wasn't interested in me that way, and we never mentioned it again and still remained friends. Like someone said a page or so back, people are usually respectful when you reveal yourself like that.

I don't know anything about Facebook, but it sounds like removing you from this list is an important sign. But maybe it's me being a girl and all and always wondering what might have been -- it might not hurt for you to have some resolution.
 
[quote name='Brak']To answer the topic title:

If she lets you come inside her.[/QUOTE]

If that's the case I've tricked lots of girls into liking me.

:twisted:
 
[quote name='utopianmachine']TMN, as I read through your post, it was obvious the vibes that the girl was giving you were due to some sort of liking. I don't verbally flirt with guys like that to be talking to myself.

Anyway, I know you said you would try to move on and everything, but perhaps if you feel like you can't really lay the matter to rest, you could try contacting her through her Facebook or other friends or something and strike up a dialogue and bring up the past. You could at least ask the questions you want to ask and see if there's anything possible now.

Back in high school, there was a boy that I liked for ages but he was a great friend of mine. I finally got up the nerve to ask him if he liked me. He was very sweet and let me know he wasn't interested in me that way, and we never mentioned it again and still remained friends. Like someone said a page or so back, people are usually respectful when you reveal yourself like that.

I don't know anything about Facebook, but it sounds like removing you from this list is an important sign. But maybe it's me being a girl and all and always wondering what might have been -- it might not hurt for you to have some resolution.[/quote]Good stuff. Keep this in mind though TMK, you should never ask questions that may have answers you aren't prepared for.
 
The key word was let. IE- the were conscious and willing at the time.

[quote name='RedvsBlue']If that's the case I've tricked lots of girls into liking me.

:twisted:[/quote]
 
Aren't you in your mid-twenties? This is the kind of shit people bring up when they're 11 or 12. Before you start worrying about whether or not girls like you (because they don't, I promise), you need to get a job where you interact with people, move the hell away from your parents' watchful eyes, and get some therapy.

Seriously, you sound like one of those heavily-parented, wholesome high school girls who will, without a doubt, fuck the entire basketball team her freshman year, end up on academic probation after her first semester, and develop an unrivaled taste for bottom-shelf flavored vodka. Except you're not going to "blossom" in this fashion until you're into your thirties, and you'll never be able to start getting random strange ass at that point in your life. You'll be a full-on sexual deviant before 40.

Face it--you either get your shit together now, or you're going to end up behind bars for touching that little boy in the Wal-Mart bathroom.
 
[quote name='Kayden']The key word was let. IE- the were conscious and willing at the time.[/QUOTE]
I thought conciousness was like a spectrum?
 
[quote name='Halo05']I knew from the title that this would turn out badly.[/QUOTE]

Don't worry, we're working on it.
 
Thats probably what he's worried about.

[quote name='RedvsBlue']Don't worry, we're working on it.[/quote]
 
[quote name='CouRageouS']
do-you-like-me.gif
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Maybe I should make a VB program with that and send it to a girl. She might be impressed with my programming skills. :)
[quote name='defiance_17']Aren't you in your mid-twenties? This is the kind of shit people bring up when they're 11 or 12. Before you start worrying about whether or not girls like you (because they don't, I promise), you need to get a job where you interact with people, move the hell away from your parents' watchful eyes, and get some therapy.[/QUOTE]I'm 25 years old. I should have a job in less than a year, so that may help.
[quote name='Brak']To answer the topic title:

If she lets you come inside her.[/QUOTE]You mean, like when Misha wanted Lyner to dive deeper within her, to learn more about Misha in Ar Tonelico (a JRPG). I play a little too much RPGs sometimes. ;)
[quote name='Acidbath42024']you should watch the movie "the 40 year old virgin" that should help.[/QUOTE]A friend told me that and showed me a few clips.
[quote name='Zen Davis']Girls say a bunch of shit. None of it which they mean. Most of which they'll change their minds about months, if not days, later. Don't be a dumbass. These 'signs' mean nothing if you don't act on them IMMEDIATELY.[/QUOTE]I was honestly wondering if she was joking or telling the truth, which had me too unsure what to do. At that time, I was a bit close to her, but that was the same time she had a boyfriend. To an extent, I felt her boyfriend was a better person than me (He had just as high of a GPA as me, he ran and was apart of several clubs, fraternity member, very popular, loved parties, and made me look very pathetic).

Oh well, I decided I'm going to try to move on. It will kind of suck being away from a girl for a while. I might not get another girl until I finish college (I'm almost done with college and it may be too late).

That reminds me, I thought that girl might have been mad at one night when I couldn't go out with her (when she was in my hometown, due to having an intern there) due to being out of cash (I was jobless that summer and had like $5 in the bank). I actually avoided her for sometime (well, meaning I just didn't talk to her), but I bumped into her and she was glad to see me (and she gave me a hug). This was over 2 years ago.

Thanks everyone. :D
 
[quote name='The Mana Knight']It will kind of suck being away from a girl for a while. I might not get another girl until I finish college (I'm almost done with college and it may be too late).[/quote]If by that you mean wondering years down the line whether she liked you or liked you, liked you then I agree.
Seriously dude, man up and get some damn confidence. You're on a fucking internet message board and instead of going the way most people do and bragging about and building themselves up, you constantly belittle yourself.

Think Sony. Be Sony. Maybe that'll help.
 
I have the "perfect boyfriend" but even I am guilty of flirting with another because my boyfriend wasn't paying me as much attention as the other guy. Girls like to feel pretty and if their current boyfriend starts getting comfortable and not paying her the compliments, she's bound to cling to someone who gives her that attention. It doesn't even mean she likes you... she likes the attention you are giving her.
 
Mana Knight... Take comfort in the fact that she never liked you as much as you wanted her to like you. She was NOT interested in the type of relationship you want. If anything, the most you would have gotten was exclusive fuck buddy rights for a few months and and an empty wallet.
 
TheManaKnight, I kinda know how you feel. I'm a female and I've been single all my life. I just don't know how to approach guys I guess! I accepted that my nerdiness is probably going to keep guys from ever liking me more than a friend, but I'm always hoping I'll meet someone great someday. I'm sure you'll find someone special because it doesn't seem like you're a nerd or anything like that. Lafayette is a great place to be for single guys and gals -- I should know, I live there too! ;)


Anyway, I suppose I'll get back to Ratchet and Clank. I know I'm a dork, but I love my games!
 
[quote name='FoxyGamerLady']TheManaKnight, I kinda know how you feel. I'm a female and I've been single all my life. I just don't know how to approach guys I guess! I accepted that my nerdiness is probably going to keep guys from ever liking me more than a friend, but I'm always hoping I'll meet someone great someday. I'm sure you'll find someone special because it doesn't seem like you're a nerd or anything like that. Lafayette is a great place to be for single guys and gals -- I should know, I live there too! ;)


Anyway, I suppose I'll get back to Ratchet and Clank. I know I'm a dork, but I love my games![/QUOTE]
You two should totally hook up. Seriously.
 
[quote name='SteveMcQ'] You're on a fucking internet message board and instead of going the way most people do and bragging about and building themselves up, you constantly belittle yourself.[/QUOTE]

Actually, both are manifestations of deeply rooted insecurities, so turning into a braggart won't do him any good. I do agree with you though, in that he really needs to find some self confidence - unfortunately when you're at his level it's pretty hard to pick yourself up alone.

TMK - you have hit social rock bottom. Might I recommend VH1s "The Pickup Artist" (Available online streaming from VH1s website). Even though I think it's complete and total bullshit, I've seen it work to raise some people's self confidence.
 
[quote name='FoxyGamerLady']TheManaKnight, I kinda know how you feel. I'm a female and I've been single all my life. I just don't know how to approach guys I guess! I accepted that my nerdiness is probably going to keep guys from ever liking me more than a friend, but I'm always hoping I'll meet someone great someday. I'm sure you'll find someone special because it doesn't seem like you're a nerd or anything like that. Lafayette is a great place to be for single guys and gals -- I should know, I live there too! ;)


Anyway, I suppose I'll get back to Ratchet and Clank. I know I'm a dork, but I love my games![/QUOTE]

Oh come on, this is so cruel. Join date in October pretending to be the perfect woman. If you aren't fake, though, I second the motion. You guys should go out on a date.
 
Ok, I'm actually not going to ridicule you on this thread, and give you an honest answer. It'll be hard, but I'll manage.

Brother, the girl definitely does not like you now, and I doubt she ever did. NO offense to the women on this board, but girls are, for the most part, fickle and deceptive creatures. (For the most part, mind you.) Her flirting with you in the past meant nothing, and if it did mean something, you did nothing, so it matters not.

She might have gone for you if you had made a serious attempt to get her from her old bf, but then you'd find yourself in the same boat as him. If a girl will leave another man for you, she'll leave you for another man as well. Don't trick yourself into thinking that you are the one amazing man with enough staying power to keep her stuck on you forever.

As for how to know if a woman likes you, I suggest asking her out, not asking her if she likes you. That sort of upfront bluntness is a complete turn-off to women, and it will get you nowhere, unless you are so awesome that she is going to dig you no matter what. Part of the greatness about falling in love is the mystery of it, so don't ruin it by "Do you like me?". I mean, c'mon, that sounds so needy.

Bottom line: Man up a bit. You seem to be decent-looking and intelligent, with something to offer. If I had to peg your one downfall in regards to the opposite sex, I'd say it's a lack of confidence and self-assuredness. A woman likes to know that she is actually getting something desirable and valuable when she dates a guy, and if you act like you are just stumbling your way through life and the relationship, you'll find yourself spending more time here on CAG and less time in some chick's panties.

Good luck!

(Oh, one more thing. Please, do not judge all women by the standards of the girls on this message board. They are fundamentally different from 99% of girls you'll encounter in the real world, and their advice is going to be skewed masculine. No offense, ladies. It's just true: Ya'll aren't typical chicks.)
 
[quote name='FoxyGamerLady']TheManaKnight, I kinda know how you feel. I'm a female and I've been single all my life. I just don't know how to approach guys I guess! I accepted that my nerdiness is probably going to keep guys from ever liking me more than a friend, but I'm always hoping I'll meet someone great someday. I'm sure you'll find someone special because it doesn't seem like you're a nerd or anything like that. Lafayette is a great place to be for single guys and gals -- I should know, I live there too! ;)


Anyway, I suppose I'll get back to Ratchet and Clank. I know I'm a dork, but I love my games![/quote]

Now who are you really?
 
OP, you had a chance but that boat has long sailed. If you still have any mild interest in her still (i wouldn't) , just ignore her. Women HATE to be ignored. And date other women on campus. She gets wind of you dating other women & showing them a good time, she just may show some interest in you. Women want what they can't have.

When she asks about the girl you're currently dating then slyly asks if you want to go out with her sometime, kindly tell her you would have had it not been for the women you're currently dating.

Women hate playas but love being played. It's sucks but its the truth.
 
[quote name='Punk_Raven']get ur titties out.[/quote]

WTF? I'm not going to take offense to what some guy who's clearly the bane of every girl around him says.
 
[quote name='FoxyGamerLady']complain and bitch [/quote]
Tits or GTFO.

Wait, what's gotten a hold of me? I'm sorry. That is wrong for me to say.
 
If FoxyGamerLady is in fact, a girl, how about the two of you go out. It doesn't have to be romantic, but show TMK what the hell to do in a social setting. Be his guide. Be his Hitch to his Albert. Only he's not as funny and captivating, but more sad and pitiable. He can be fixed, though.

If all else fails you two can :joystick: the night away.
 
[quote name='Liquid 2']I really hope that Foxy is an actual girl and not some joke account.[/QUOTE]
Well we all know on CAG it is guilty until proven innocent (by taking pics of the goods).
 
[quote name='SteveMcQ']If FoxyGamerLady is in fact, a girl, how about the two of you go out. It doesn't have to be romantic, but show TMK what the hell to do in a social setting. Be his guide. Be his Hitch to his Albert. Only he's not as funny and captivating, but more sad and pitiable. He can be fixed, though.

If all else fails you two can :joystick: the night away.[/quote]

I don't even know what he looks like.
 
[quote name='FoxyGamerLady']I don't even know what he looks like.[/quote]He looks like Denzel Washington. But come on, are we to assume you going out with someone hinges greatly on looks? Shouldn't personality have a bigger part to do with it? TMK has a great one. You've not seen flag-waving 'till you get him started on all things Sony.

Oh and by:joystick:, clearly I meant play R&C together. Clearly.
 
[quote name='SteveMcQ']He looks like Denzel Washington. But come on, are we to assume you going out with someone hinges greatly on looks? Shouldn't personality have a bigger part to do with it? TMK has a great one. You've not seen flag-waving 'till you get him started on all things Sony.[/quote]

Yea, the nigga know how 2 get tha ladies wet.
 
just man up and tell her how you feel...who cares if she likes you or not...if she does, you wont get restraining orders/weird looks from her friends...and anyways anytime a chick asks about marriage or speaks of it.. i stay away because..kids are not my deal atm..i can barely take care of myself...
either way you think too much just act... fuck it...start saying shit like...."how would our kids look?" can we make them tonight?"
 
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