[quote name='pittpizza']I certainly fear an eternity of nothingness. I realize if that is what happens, I won't know about it but it still scares me. I love life, everyday is a holiday, everyday above ground is a good day for me. I have a girl that loves me, a warm bed, lots of freinds and badass videogames. I don't want any of that to ever go away or end. Sometimes I'll try to visualize what an etenity of nothingness would be like and it really really upsets and scares me. It makes me feel so meaningless and small in the grand scheme of things. We really are even less than a tiny blip on the timeline of the universe. I wish I could say with 100% confidence that there is life after death, then none of this would upset me. As of now I can say that I would guess there is life after death, and I can say with 100% certainty that I really really hope there is.
Being alive is

in great, and it sucks IMO that it has to end. I've heard that acceptance comes with old age. It is easy to see how a pain-ridden stomach cancer patient does not fear death, or how a colonial slave may not fear death.
Here is a hypothesis:
The better and more pleasurable one's life, the greater they fear death.
Whadaya think?[/quote]
I disagree. Why should one have to fear it? Believe me, I love life as well. Sure, certain aspects suck now, but compared to the livelihood of the rest of the world, I have a damn fantastic life. Sure, I'd prefer that all of the wonderful things I experience to go on forever, but I also recognize and acknowledge that like all good things, it must end. As long as I can have the people I love around me (not my blood family, to be honest), I could die happy. Sure, it sucks that it has to end, but it's just that: it has to end. I've accepted that fact, 'cause it's just how things work. They say live each day like it's your last, right? Dude, I'm a student in the most valuable and amazing field that exists, ever. I have a job that sucks, but I make money in order to have (relatively) nice things to make the short-term pleasurable. I have friends and a boyfriend who make the short AND longterm something to enjoy, yet I don't fear death 'cause it's just a biological process, and I know that once it happens, it happens and I probably can't change it. So, I think that it depends on how you live, and your life philosophy that determines how you feel about dying. You can't apply a formula to everyone, in other words.
I try to live with my motto of
primum non nocere, I try not to be a dick, and I try to improve people's lives. I think that's enough to be a good person and validate one's life.
There was something else I wanted to mention but I forget. Oh well. I have a question: how do you all plan to have your remains processed after you die? I figure I'll donate my body to medical research/education, 'cause I've taken a lot out of that community and I'd be happy to give it back.
Either that or have my body be cremated and the ashes spread somewhere near the Maroon Bells mountain range.