[quote name='DJSteel']spOOge.. on a lighter note... wtf are you doing in Johnstown??? that place is a black hole of depression..lol[/quote]
Exactly. She's the one who wanted to move here. She grew up here. I'm from Chicago. We were living out in Palm Springs for several years and everything was great. Once we found out she was pregnant, she just HAD to be back with her family because she wanted Rachael to have hte same type of childhood she had. That apparently meant no future and a piss-poor school system. I fought her on it, but I let her win the argument. Big mistake.
All there is as far as nightlife is bars and narcotics. It's pathetic. This is the only town I know of that has more bars than churches.
She finally admitted a few months back that she's regretting moving back here. A little late now.
EDIT: By nightlife, I mean things for the parents to do when the kid is at the grandparents.
[quote name='007'] Second, again echoing much of the board, your child is the most important issue here. If your house, and your wife, are in the state you claim, this needs to be about your daughter. It's a question I had wanted to ask earlier, but never did... if you work all the time, and your wife spends much, if not all, of her home time on the computer, who exactly watches your daughter when you're not around? Is your wife neglecting your daughter, as well as the expected half of marriage related duties? These are the questions to ask. Your wife has a problem, and she needs help. Something was lacking in her real life, and knowing the area I can understand that, and she sought out a new life. She seems as if she's already made up her mind... but it's a question of whether she truly wants that, or whether it's the addict's mind that wants that.[/quote]
She claims that she watches her, plays with her and all that, as she did last night. But from 4:30pm to 12:05am, with a short 20-30 minute span at Rachael's bath/bed time, there was a constant flow of IM's in both directions. When I called her last night from work, she claimed that they were on the couch, cuddling and watching Shrek the Halls. Well, I can tell you that with the way the room's situated she certainly can't lay on the couch and use the computer at the same time. So my conclusion is she sat Rachael in front of the TV all night and pissed around on the computer.
EDIT #2: I'm confonting her on EVERYTHING when she gets home from work in a few hours. So, if I go missing for awhile, things probably went severly awry and I won't be back on for at least a few days, if not longer.
Exactly. She's the one who wanted to move here. She grew up here. I'm from Chicago. We were living out in Palm Springs for several years and everything was great. Once we found out she was pregnant, she just HAD to be back with her family because she wanted Rachael to have hte same type of childhood she had. That apparently meant no future and a piss-poor school system. I fought her on it, but I let her win the argument. Big mistake.
All there is as far as nightlife is bars and narcotics. It's pathetic. This is the only town I know of that has more bars than churches.
She finally admitted a few months back that she's regretting moving back here. A little late now.
EDIT: By nightlife, I mean things for the parents to do when the kid is at the grandparents.
[quote name='007'] Second, again echoing much of the board, your child is the most important issue here. If your house, and your wife, are in the state you claim, this needs to be about your daughter. It's a question I had wanted to ask earlier, but never did... if you work all the time, and your wife spends much, if not all, of her home time on the computer, who exactly watches your daughter when you're not around? Is your wife neglecting your daughter, as well as the expected half of marriage related duties? These are the questions to ask. Your wife has a problem, and she needs help. Something was lacking in her real life, and knowing the area I can understand that, and she sought out a new life. She seems as if she's already made up her mind... but it's a question of whether she truly wants that, or whether it's the addict's mind that wants that.[/quote]
She claims that she watches her, plays with her and all that, as she did last night. But from 4:30pm to 12:05am, with a short 20-30 minute span at Rachael's bath/bed time, there was a constant flow of IM's in both directions. When I called her last night from work, she claimed that they were on the couch, cuddling and watching Shrek the Halls. Well, I can tell you that with the way the room's situated she certainly can't lay on the couch and use the computer at the same time. So my conclusion is she sat Rachael in front of the TV all night and pissed around on the computer.
EDIT #2: I'm confonting her on EVERYTHING when she gets home from work in a few hours. So, if I go missing for awhile, things probably went severly awry and I won't be back on for at least a few days, if not longer.