I hate getting involved in other peoples business. You can yell and fight and scream on the front lawn all you want and frankly I am not even interested in what your drama is about. Its not my business. But and this is a big BUT(heh big but)you are not allowed to physically touch a woman in any aggressive way. My neighbors were just going at it and I wasn't worried about it, but when I stepped outside to bring the dogs in they came out of their house and I saw the guy grab the girl by the wrist and pull her to him as he yelled. Even if he isnt hitting her(yet?)thats far outside my comfort zone....
Thankfully the cops showed up when they did because when the guy saw me he pulled the chick in to the back yard where I couldnt see her. I thought I was going to have to physically go over there vs just yelling across the street and making my presence and how uncomfortable with the physical contact I was known.
This incident as well as my tuss with Dohdoh yesterday over sexism in America has me curious what everyone else here thinks about sexism and physical violence. When should a man get involved in a scuffle between another man and a woman? Should he even get involved at all? If it was two men would you react differently? What if its the reverse and a woman hits a man, how would you react then. And
Personally you can clearly see from the above I am extremely uncomfortable with violence towards women and would get involved the second things got serious. If it were two guys id wait for the first blow, try and break it up and if I couldn't I would call the cops(after warning them I was calling). If it were a woman hitting a man, again id try and break it up and make it clear I am calling the cops if I couldn't break it up.
What do you guys feel about this touchy subject?
Thankfully the cops showed up when they did because when the guy saw me he pulled the chick in to the back yard where I couldnt see her. I thought I was going to have to physically go over there vs just yelling across the street and making my presence and how uncomfortable with the physical contact I was known.
This incident as well as my tuss with Dohdoh yesterday over sexism in America has me curious what everyone else here thinks about sexism and physical violence. When should a man get involved in a scuffle between another man and a woman? Should he even get involved at all? If it was two men would you react differently? What if its the reverse and a woman hits a man, how would you react then. And
Personally you can clearly see from the above I am extremely uncomfortable with violence towards women and would get involved the second things got serious. If it were two guys id wait for the first blow, try and break it up and if I couldn't I would call the cops(after warning them I was calling). If it were a woman hitting a man, again id try and break it up and make it clear I am calling the cops if I couldn't break it up.
What do you guys feel about this touchy subject?