[quote name='Rodimus']I told my wife. I had a crush on the girl for about a month or two, before I even meet my wife. There was nothing to hide. Beside she would've found out sooner or later since we share a lot of the same college friends. It would've been like:
"Did you hear Jackie's a Pornstar?"
"What.... no"
"You mean Mr. Rodimus didn't tell you, he told me."
"No...."
Then she would defiantly have a reason to wonder.[/QUOTE]
This. Anyone who's been in a relationship of more than 5 minutes would agree it's always better if they hear it from you, especially if there's nothing to hide. Somehow they always find out, and then you're in trouble. I can see it now, for the rest of your life every time you wanted something in the bedroom you'd here "why don't you just call your friend ________?"