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Where I come from, it's "done buyed."
I've got a few stories I can share.
1) Both Gamestops near me have turned into preorder central. You go in there for anything and they'll start schmoozing you for a preorder. You ask if they have game x, they'll ask if you've put $5 down on y or z. If you ask about a guide or accessory, they start asking what systems you have and what genres you're interested in to find out what preorders to suggest.
Earlier this year, I went to trade in a few games and see if the store had an unopened copy of de Blob 2. I ended up dealing with the manager, who told me they didn't have an unopened copy and started asking why the opened copy wasn't fine. I explained that the case gets beat up on the floor, the stickers leave residue on the case, and that I've bought an opened "new" game before only to find save data already on it. He didn't find any of those answers acceptable, so he kept pushing me to buy the opened copy. I kept telling him no and that I'd just take the credit for my games. He eventually gave in, but not before telling me, "Well, if you wanted it unopened, you should have preordered." That transitioned nicely to his next pitch, "Is there anything you want to preorder?" I said no and that I just wanted the credit. He then took the next four minutes (Seriously, four minutes. That's not exaggerated.) to read a list of upcoming games I could preorder. I kept telling him no, that I would save the credit. All the while a line formed behind me that went all the way to the back of the store. The manager finally accepted that I wasn't going to preorder anything and did the transaction like I asked...but I was steamed by that point. I wound up giving him a terrible survey score.
Another time a few months ago, I went back in to see if the store had an unopened copy of Devil Survivor Overclocked. I would have bought it elsewhere, but only Gamestop and Amazon carry it as far as I can tell, and Amazon was sold out. I ask the guy at the store about it, explaining that I just bought a 3DS and needed some games to play, and he said the only copy they had was the shelf copy. "Why didn't you preorder it?" he asked. If he had been paying attention, he would have heard me say
I just bought my 3DS. No one sensible preorders games for systems they don't own. He then started lecturing me on why preorders are necessary because I won't get the games I want if I don't preorder. In this singular case, he was right. But 99% of the time if one store doesn't have the game I want, another will. On the street this Gamestop is on alone, there's a Best Buy, Walmart, Toys R Us, Sears, Target, and a second Gamestop. At least one of those is bound to have what I want. Treating the gaming market like we're in a bubble where only your store exists won't make me preorder more.
Another time, when Dark Souls came out, I'd preordered the game at Best Buy since I had a gift card. My store ended up not getting the limited edition upgrades like most stores, so I decided to check Gamestop to see if they got an extra copy in. I explained the situation to the manager hoping to win some pity points. He told me no, they didn't get any extra copies, then (with a completely straight face) said the upgrade was Gamestop exclusive and if I really had wanted it, I would have preordered there. Yes,
lying will make me want to preorder at your store. Brilliant!
2) When I worked at Toys R Us, I was one of the employees in the R Zone. This was back when the section was walled off and employees weren't allowed to leave the section. One day, a nice, soft-spoken British man came in asking about Transformers games for the DS. He wanted to get one for his son for his birthday. I walked him over to the DS section and started showing him each Transformers game when a woman outside the section started yelling at me to come help her. I didn't realize she was talking to me at first, but once I figured it out, I ignored her on principle, as I was with another customer and she was

ing yelling at me. I hoped she would take the hint, but she kept shouting. I finally turned around and told her I'd be with her once I got done with the customer I was already with. She didn't like that, so she found someone else to help her.
A little later, she walked into my section with her husband and son. The son got excited that he was going to get to look at video games, but the cow swatted him and said they were just in the section to check out. When they got to the counter, the husband pulled out two model cars from the basket and tried to decide which one he wanted. He couldn't choose, so he asked the cow for her opinion. She shouted at him, stating she didn't give a crap and he just needed to pick one. He hung his head a little, grabbed one, and put it on the counter along with the rest of the cart's contents. I started ringing them up while the cow thumbed through a magazine she found on a shelf. Once I finished ringing everything up and bagging it, she grabbed one of the bags and said, "I'm going to put this in here," dropping the magazine into it. "No," I told her, "I haven't rung that up yet." She flipped out. "YES YOU DID, YOU JUST RUNG IT UP! I SAW YOU SCAN IT! MOO MOO MOO!" Her husband looked up at me, shooting a sympathetic glance, turned to the cow, and shouted, "You've been holding that magazine this whole time! How could he have scanned it when you haven't even given him the chance?" The cow looked surprised that her husband stood up to her. "Oh...well, how much is the magazine?" she asked. I scanned it and told her, and she flipped out again about it being way too much and we're trying to scam her and if anyone wants her, she'll be in the car. She then stormed off. The husband finished up the transaction and followed with the son. A minute later, the lady working the service desk came over and asked what I did to piss off the cow, because she was apparently cursing me as she walked out the door. Worst case of menopause ever.