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What gives? Imus has been dropped by MSNBC as of today (though it's not clear if that means his show is done for altogether - it seems as if the televised portion of it strictly is).
So, here's the question I have. Is it right to demand Imus' firing and reprimanding, because what he said was so reprehensible as to deserve no second chance? Or, should we actually listen to someone who has made multiple apologies and give them that chance to redeem themselves?
The offensiveness/unoffensiveness of what Imus said is not up for debate, IMO (though I find it strange that nobody seems to be bothered that he used the phrase "jigaboo" to describe the team - real strange, in fact).
What is, I suppose, is the "one mistake and you're out" rule in public discourse. Imus is no angel, and frankly, I think he's a bastard more often than not. But two things separate him from most public figures who
up royally:
1) He's actually suffering and lost his job as a result
2) He apologized for the mistake he made
What does it say about our society that we cast out the offensive at our own expense? We shout "OUT! OUT! OUT!" to Imus, and don't pay attention to the fact that he, unlike many, has accepted the responsibility for what he said.
He didn't go that weak-ass "I apologize if my words caused offense" passive-ass bulshit, like Pope Bernadette did when he lambasted all Muslims. He didn't pass the buck. He didn't back down. He stood up, he said "boy, that was really
ing stupid, and I apologize" (paraphrasing).
Here's what he actually said:
I look at situations like this, and I look at the laughter and mockery that Mel Gibson's apology earned, and I can't help but think that we're setting a bad example here. As a nation, as a people, we don't accept apologies. We assume they're insincere, and just a way to get back into people's good graces. Worst of all, it's a double-edged sword. Those people in positions of power who we want and demand accountability for will look at these examples and see the futility of admitting error and making mistakes. Why would Bush ever admit a single thing went wrong in Iraq, in the pre-war planning, or elsewhere when he sees that those who apologize and show vulnerability, only for a moment, are eaten alive by the public?
We can't ever expect a public figure to apologize again. Why would they? I won't apologize to you either.
you all. Nobody's going to believe me anyway.
Worst of all, this shows that people seem to think that racism is some old Archie Bunker bullshit. It shows that people don't recognize the systemic racism that permeates our society. Instead, we assume that it's these fleeting moments of irrationality, where a radio guy calls a woman "jigaboo." We can't see the rest of it in front of our faces, even when it's all around us. In the end, a person who genuinely apologizes for a remark loses their job, all for the purpose of making the rest feel good when we bullshit ourselves into thinking that we've succeeded in ridding society of some racism.
Other thoughts?
So, here's the question I have. Is it right to demand Imus' firing and reprimanding, because what he said was so reprehensible as to deserve no second chance? Or, should we actually listen to someone who has made multiple apologies and give them that chance to redeem themselves?
The offensiveness/unoffensiveness of what Imus said is not up for debate, IMO (though I find it strange that nobody seems to be bothered that he used the phrase "jigaboo" to describe the team - real strange, in fact).
What is, I suppose, is the "one mistake and you're out" rule in public discourse. Imus is no angel, and frankly, I think he's a bastard more often than not. But two things separate him from most public figures who

1) He's actually suffering and lost his job as a result
2) He apologized for the mistake he made
What does it say about our society that we cast out the offensive at our own expense? We shout "OUT! OUT! OUT!" to Imus, and don't pay attention to the fact that he, unlike many, has accepted the responsibility for what he said.
He didn't go that weak-ass "I apologize if my words caused offense" passive-ass bulshit, like Pope Bernadette did when he lambasted all Muslims. He didn't pass the buck. He didn't back down. He stood up, he said "boy, that was really

Here's what he actually said:
"Want to take a moment to apologize for an insensitive and ill-conceived remark we made the other morning regarding the Rutgers women's basketball team.
It was completely inappropriate, and we can understand why people were offended. Our characterization was thoughtless and stupid, and we are sorry."
I look at situations like this, and I look at the laughter and mockery that Mel Gibson's apology earned, and I can't help but think that we're setting a bad example here. As a nation, as a people, we don't accept apologies. We assume they're insincere, and just a way to get back into people's good graces. Worst of all, it's a double-edged sword. Those people in positions of power who we want and demand accountability for will look at these examples and see the futility of admitting error and making mistakes. Why would Bush ever admit a single thing went wrong in Iraq, in the pre-war planning, or elsewhere when he sees that those who apologize and show vulnerability, only for a moment, are eaten alive by the public?
We can't ever expect a public figure to apologize again. Why would they? I won't apologize to you either.

Worst of all, this shows that people seem to think that racism is some old Archie Bunker bullshit. It shows that people don't recognize the systemic racism that permeates our society. Instead, we assume that it's these fleeting moments of irrationality, where a radio guy calls a woman "jigaboo." We can't see the rest of it in front of our faces, even when it's all around us. In the end, a person who genuinely apologizes for a remark loses their job, all for the purpose of making the rest feel good when we bullshit ourselves into thinking that we've succeeded in ridding society of some racism.
Other thoughts?