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You're female. Finding a bigger video game nerd is a much easier task for you.

This is like dallow trying to find a chick who is more into window dressings than he is. It will be tough but it's not an impossible goal.
 
[quote name='wubb']You're female. Finding a bigger video game nerd is a much easier task for you.

This is like dallow trying to find a chick who is more into window dressings than he is. It will be tough but it's not an impossible goal.[/QUOTE]

True, but still. There's no reason why pitt's fiancee can't at least RESPECT his fucking hobbies. It's not like his hobby is watching child porn or some shit.
 
DoK I don't think you get it. You're a gamer chick, which in and of itself puts you in a unique minority. It is a generalization but it's true and you know it. You may have some chick friends that game, but thats probably just because you are that way and people with similar interests tend to migrate towards each other.

Lets say, hypothetically, that your alleged boyfriend is really into baseball and you hate it. He watches EVERY game (3 or 4 hours a day like what 150-200 days out of the year?) During this time he doesn't really engage in deep conversation with you, or pay you much attention, or do anything productive. He just likes to watch his baseball games and he totally neglects you while he does it.

If you didn't like baseball or didn't like how much time/attention he spends on watching that (and it is therefore time/attention taken away from you) you would consider this a "fundamental problem"? If so I'd say you need to lighten up a bit, not take things too seriously and not make mountains out of molehills.

Guys like shit girls don't. Face it, it's a fuckin fact. It works the other way too. I hate American Idol, Dancing with the Stars, scrapbooking, making my myspace page look "pretty" and all kinds of other shit that girls generally like.

Men and women sometimes have divergent interests in addition to thier common interests. There is no such thing as a couple who has every single exact same interest, and if you consider having some divergent interests a fundamental problem then you're fundamentally fucked. Now having NO common interests IS a fundamental problem; I can agree to that, however that's far from the case when it comes to Amie and I.

FWIW, I have other interests too ya know. I am a huge aquarist, I have multiple fish tanks and am moving into getting one planted w/CO2 fertilization and the works (this may not mean much to you all here, but it does to all my buds on www.aquariumadvice.com). She actually would rather me spend time "fish tanking" b/c (1) She gets to use the good HDTV, (2) I'm not engaging in conversation with other people whom she can't know or talk to, and (3) It is something that "betters" our apartment, by having a "nice pretty" tank in it. #2 I can kind of relate to b/c it annoys me sometimes when she is on the phone with her sister/friends for hours at a time, it's like I might as well be by myself and I can see that she would feel this way when I'm voice chatting.

I'd also like to know how, in your opinion, one can go about respecting videogames? She lets me play alot more than some more needy/high maintenance chicks would. It's not like she ever threw my VG out the window or confiscated it from me for playing too much (unlike my MOM...I still remember that with rage!)

BTW, It's sort of funny having this conversation with a gamer-girl because you have both perspectives (that of a femal, AND that of a gamer). Again, I doubt I'm the only CAG with this issue (that is NOT fundamental) lol.
 
I wouldn't be dating a dude who didn't share at least some of my interests, and on the interests we didn't share, someone who'd have a mutual respect and understanding of our diverging interests. My boyfriend and I have diverging interests for sure, but we at least respect them.
 
[quote name='pittpizza']Lol, none taken! Seriously when it comes to vid games, she is. She Hates how much I game. I dunno if it's just that my time is better spent doing other things, or that it takes some of my attention and time away from her, but probably a healthy combination of both. I doubt I'm the only CAG whose gf/fiance/wife hates video games.

Courageous, I don't really know what to expect, maybe about two thirds of the gifts will be from Target, it is so easy for everyone to get to as they're everywhere. Generally I like target, they have some good deals, it's close, and perhaps most important for registry purposes, they have great return policies. BB&Beyond sucks my balls. fuck YOUR LOOFAH![/quote]If you were an evercrack/WOW addict i'd understand, but i doubt you're that wrapped up in any game. I don't know, maybe it's because i'm not the compromising type.

Maybe find something she does that you don't like and tell her the same thing?:lol:
 
[quote name='SkeletonBrute']They could watch a bluray together... TADA... onto the registry with the PS3![/quote]

Hot Damn! Nicely done! Seriouisly, good one, way to bring the thread full circle.

I fear that some of you may be underestimating the amount of time I spend gaming and overestimating her bitchiness/need for attention. I think her issue with gaming in particular (again she doesn't mind my other hobbies, which adimitedly I spend MUCH less time doing) it's probably 20% she just isn't into gaming and 80% she doesnt like how often/how much time I spend doing it. She would definitely be better able to "respect it" whatever the hell that means, if I didn't play so much and spend so much time away from her gaming.

Did any of you ever see that youtube video where the guy redid the Akon song "put the blame on me" to "blame it on halo 3". She cracked up and could totally relate to that vid.

I like how I'm the only one in this thread who admits to having an "other" who complains/hates on VGs and seem like I'm the minority when all of you know in reality, the minority is really the "Video gaming couple."

[quote name='JolietJake']
Maybe find something she does that you don't like and tell her the same thing?:lol:[/quote]

Oh I do....all the time. :lol:

DOK would probably say there is a fundamental problem in our relationship because I don't respect making my myspace page look pretty or b/c I don't respect all the crap reality tv shows on VH1 that girls go crazy for.

DoK you couldn't be more wrong, it's actually important for a couple to have some interests, some things that you each enjoy doing individually. No offense or anything DOK, but gamer-chicks are not my type. Not any one that I've ever laid eyes on anyway.:puke:
 
The problem is not that your girlfriend doesn't like videogames, it's that you're being a pussy about it. What did you say to her when she explained why she didn't want games on the registry with this: They're "childish, immature, not productive, not family focused?" Probably you just took it like a pussy because you're whipped. If I was dating someone who said that shit to me in a serious manner, I wouldn't even be going so far as engagement unless he changed his attitude towards my most important hobby. She is being a bitch, and you are just letting her walk right on you. Good luck with the marriage if that's how it's like when you're not even married yet.
 
You're looking at it from a woman's perspective. From a guy's perspective, the woman is always right, at least if you want any amount of peace. Every married guy is whipped to some extent, otherwise his life would be a living hell at home.
 
[quote name='Dead of Knight']The problem is not that your girlfriend doesn't like videogames, it's that you're being a pussy about it. What did you say to her when she explained why she didn't want games on the registry with this: They're "childish, immature, not productive, not family focused?" Probably you just took it like a pussy because you're whipped. If I was dating someone who said that shit to me in a serious manner, I wouldn't even be going so far as engagement unless he changed his attitude towards my most important hobby. She is being a bitch, and you are just letting her walk right on you. Good luck with the marriage if that's how it's like when you're not even married yet.[/quote]

I thought the problem was that she didn't respect video games? Now the problem is I'm a pussy? Which is it? Make your mind up would you?

When she said that, I responded "But it can also play blu-rays!!!" And I think she said to have my groomsmen get it for me or something to that effect (which, along with other freinds, is who I had in mind would get it for me if I registered anyway, lol.)

As far as not being married yet, we practically are, we have been together for 6 years now. Again, No offense or anything DOK, but gamer-chicks are not my type. Not any one that I've ever laid eyes on anyway.:puke: Being a gamer chick, you're at best pretty busted, at worst downright FUGLY! Hence, I'm the blue smiley and you're the yellow. Love the puke. Love it.
 
[quote name='pittpizza']I thought the problem was that she didn't respect video games? Now the problem is I'm a pussy? Which is it? Make your mind up would you?

As far as not being married yet, we practically are, we have been together for 6 years now. Again, No offense or anything DOK, but gamer-chicks are not my type. Not any one that I've ever laid eyes on anyway.:puke: Being a gamer chick, you're at best pretty busted, at worst downright FUGLY! Hence, I'm the blue smiley and you're the yellow. Love the puke. Love it.[/QUOTE]

It's both.

I suppose, given your attitude towards my arguments, that your fiancee would have a reason to say that videogames are "childish and immature," considering you're the gamer that she's closest to.

And my pic is in the Family Album that's stickied on the top of this very forum if you care to take a look.
 
[quote name='Dead of Knight']It's both.

I suppose, given your attitude towards my arguments, that your fiancee would have a reason to say that videogames are "childish and immature," considering you're the gamer that she's closest to.

And my pic is in the Family Album that's stickied on the top of this very forum if you care to take a look.[/quote]


Well you're right about my immaturity, at times I can be quite childish and immature, but never w/ with the arguments I make. When it comes to those I'm quite elitist.

And no thanks as to viewing the pic. I like to keep my keyboard vomit-free thanks.
 
Oh my god friend. I have NEVER seen such a epic case of BITCH in my life. You need to put her in her place and drop kick her. I mean she's teabagging you with the disrespect. Why not be a MAN and put her where she belongs? You think it's bad now? Try getting married man. When that happens she will OWN YOUR SOUL. Think these demands are BS? Wait till she gets married and cheats on you with the pool boy or gardener. I know she's the sweetest thing you ever seen and she'll NEVER do it to you because YOU"RE DIFFERENT. YOU"RE SPECIAL. YOU ARE THE ONES WITH TRUE LOVE. A LOVE that will TRANSCEND THE HEAVENS. A LOVE that NO OTHER MORTAL CAN COMPREHEND. Because YOU have found the genuine article. Let me show you what you are right here.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LrwVEPa-8Ao

You're CUPCAKING AND SIMPING AND CRIMPING all in one. If you were any more of a bitch, you'd be Oprah, Dr. Phil, Montel and Tyra all in one. I'm not saying this to be mean, but you need to make her respect your hobbies. My advice is RUN HARD. RUN DEEP. RUN FAST. JUST RUN. There's always other vaginas that will accept your hobbies. Why marry one that won't?
 
[quote name='pittpizza']
And no thanks as to viewing the pic. I like to keep my keyboard vomit-free thanks.[/QUOTE]

Posting it anyway. If I seriously make you vomit, then you must be this guy:
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Now I'm no Estella Warren, but I KNOW I am not vomit-inducing, since I've never seen anyone puke or run straight to the toilet after seeing my face:
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Other than having pubic hair growing out of your head not that bad I suppose.

Also knowing your age helps me take your views w/ a grain of salt I suppose. You look too young to have ever been in a serious relationship. What are you like 13?

That dude reminds me of Dwight Schrute only with a double chin.

Paco I LMAO.
 
[quote name='pittpizza']Other than having pubic hair growing out of your head not that bad I suppose.

Also knowing your age helps me take your views w/ a grain of salt I suppose. You look too young to have ever been in a serious relationship. What are you like 13?

That dude reminds me of Dwight Schrute only with a double chin.[/QUOTE]

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

Quoted for posterity.
 
[quote name='JolietJake']Well this thread is taking a turn for the worse....[/quote]

Ha, agreed. A little late though don't you think?

Still lookin for an answer to the blu-ray/surround sound questions though.
 
[quote name='Dead of Knight']:rofl::rofl::rofl:

Quoted for posterity.[/quote]

I see you don't feel like disclosing your age or whether you've ever been in a serious relationship.

Lemme fill you younger CAGs in on a little insight, which you may not understand for years: At some point in time, one realizes that a healthy relationship actually takes work. One must do things they don't want to or feel like doing for the other person if they want the relationship to work. So at some point in time you will come to see "whipped" as "making a relathionship work."

Richie Kohler is sort of an idol of mine. I don't idolize him or think he is a hero, but he is someone who I've come to look up to. Google him if you want. Richie is a Deep Sea Diver (another hobby of mine) and made one of the biggest historical discoveries of the 1990's. Anyway his diving, his passion, his obsession, was ripping his family apart. So what did he do. He gave it up for years. (Trust me when I tell you it was much harder for him to do this than it would be for any of us to give up VGs for years). A teenager would say he did it because he was whipped. An adult who has had success in a long term relationship would understand that he did it because making a relationship work takes more than just love, it takes work.

This is probably way too lofty for most CAGs, but some of you will get it.
 
[quote name='pittpizza']I see you don't feel like disclosing your age or whether you've ever been in a serious relationship.

Lemme fill you younger CAGs in on a little insight, which you may not understand for years: At some point in time, one realizes that a healthy relationship actually takes work. One must do things they don't want to or feel like doing for the other person if they want the relationship to work. So at some point in time you will come to see "whipped" as "making a relathionship work."

Richie Kohler is sort of an idol of mine. I don't idolize him or think he is a hero, but he is someone who I've come to look up to. Google him if you want. Richie is a Deep Sea Diver (another hobby of mine) and made one of the biggest historical discoveries of the 1990's. Anyway his diving, his passion, his obsession, was ripping his family apart. So what did he do. He gave it up for years. (Trust me when I tell you it was much harder for him to do this than it would be for any of us to give up VGs for years). A teenager would say he did it because he was whipped. An adult who has had success in a long term relationship would understand that he did it because making a relationship work takes more than just love, it takes work.[/QUOTE]

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

I didn't reply to your baseless insults because I didn't feel like taking anymore effort in replying to someone who somehow got through law school with the creativity of a 6th grader. Shows how much law schools are taking money from anyone who can pass the LSAT these days.

I'm 20. I've been in a three-year relationship in high school, a year and a half relationship early in college, and I've just gone six months with my current boyfriend. This has all been posted before on CAG, multiple times. It's not like I wasn't disclosing it.

And as Paco said, you are a simp. There's no need to reply to you anymore since you obviously just don't get it. This will be my last post in this thread.
 
[quote name='pittpizza']Other than having pubic hair growing out of your head not that bad I suppose.

Also knowing your age helps me take your views w/ a grain of salt I suppose. You look too young to have ever been in a serious relationship. What are you like 13?

That dude reminds me of Dwight Schrute only with a double chin.

Paco I LMAO.[/quote]


Yes, it's funny to watch it when it's someone else that's on the receiving end of the LAWLS, but you shouldn't find it funny. You're one of those cupcakers. Keith sweat isn't enough for you my friend. You need some of this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXqQsXOnLmc&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jx-PJfsvR5Q

THAT"S LIONEL RICHIE FOOL. When you can relate to Lionel Richie, you're so fucked and you don't even know it. I'm sorry, but you need to lay your foot down. She doesn't even respect you friend. The more shit you put up with from her, the more she's going to put demands on you and you're going to have to expect less as your reward. Don't placate her, demand from her.

I'll admit that I had my share of fucked up shenanigans dating worthless women, but I would never bend down to their bullshit. I also made sure they regretted pulling their bullshit on me. Simply because I'm good with LAWLS.

Take my advice. You'll be happier and SHE'LL be happier if you step up to the plate and tell her to shut up. Fifty years of feminism have fucked up thousands of years of progress.
 
The secret to a good marriage is being able to work out your differences of opinion and accept that you wont like everything your signifigant other does.
It doesnt sound like they have raging fights over his gaming. She doesn't like it and expresses her feelings as such. I'm sure she has some hobbies he could say the same about.
No harm in that. It's when they start arguing over it that it becomes a problem.

Lots of couples end up taking up hobbies they hated so that they can get more enjoyment/quality time in with their partner . I think its easier for a girl to take up her husband's hobby than it is for a guy to take up his wife's. I wouldn't be surprised if somewhere down the road, she saw you playing something that made her second guess her stance and looked fun enough to try with you. Especially if you have kids, I imagine it woud be great way to get some family time in on some co-op games.

I don't think he deserves the "whipped" or "P-word" moninker since he is still gaming normally and hasn't given it up. A whipped guy would give it up and become a yes man.
You guys really are being too harsh on him.
 
[quote name='Dead of Knight']:rofl::rofl::rofl:

I didn't reply to your baseless insults because I didn't feel like taking anymore effort in replying to someone who somehow got through law school with the creativity of a 6th grader. Shows how much law schools are taking money from anyone who can pass the LSAT these days.

I'm 20. I've been in a three-year relationship in high school, a year and a half relationship early in college, and I've just gone six months with my current boyfriend. This has all been posted before on CAG, multiple times. It's not like I wasn't disclosing it.

And as Paco said, you are a simp. There's no need to reply to you anymore since you obviously just don't get it. This will be my last post in this thread.[/quote]

I lack creativity? I guess someone has said it looks like you're growing pubes out of you head before eh?

As to the lawschool, (completely OT but you brought it up) only 10% of the applicants of my school got in. I guess I just got lucky.

Congrats on your plethora of relationship expertise and your years of real-life experience though! Highschool rocks! Way to go.:applause: Adios and have fun NOT posting in this thread anymore.

[quote name='Paco']...but you shouldn't find it funny.[/quote]
I try not to take life too seriously, or comments like yours for that matter, so yeah, I should find it funny. ;)

Also I can't click those youtube links yet, and am less than well-versed in keith sweat and Lionel Richie music, so you'll have to forgive me if I have absolutely no clue what the hell you're talking about here.

[quote name='Paco']Don't placate her, demand from her. [/quote]

I take it this has worked for you in the long run???:whistle2:k

[quote name='Paco']I'll admit that I had my share of fucked up shenanigans dating worthless women...[/quote]
This...
[quote name='Paco']Fifty years of feminism have fucked up thousands of years of progress.[/quote]
...and this make pittpizza VERY hesitant to take advice from Paco...

yet it's so tempting I think I'll try it. Should I smack her too?

Thanks for adding some rationality to the thread Noodle, and Linkin, OMG
:rofl::rofl::rofl:[quote name='LinkinPrime']I bought a XBOX360 for my brother as his wedding gift. I told the bride that this way she can share his love for videogames.[/quote]


HELL YEAH!!! This is what I'm talkin about! I take it your sis-in-law rolled her eyes and gave you the stink eye?
 
Is it seriously that hard to get a significant other interested in gaming? Just break out the Mario Parties or other cutesy multiplayer games and gradually work your way up. Mario Kart FTW btw. It worked with my fiancee who until me hadn't owned a system since the nes and then only because it was her brother's. I eventually had to get her a ds for her birthday because she was playing mine so much. The only reason she doesn't want a ps3 on the registry is because we already have a 360 and a wii.

As for not wanting you to spend all your time gaming, I can see that. I'm a big fan of fire emblem, advance wars, and the like. Given that a single mission can take an hour to an hour and a half she's not real thrilled if I'm in the middle of playing it when she comes over. No women in the world appreciates anything that takes time and attention away from her. She really doesn't like Illini basketball either because it takes time and attention away from her. That's just the way it is. However, just because she doesn't like it doesn't mean she gets upset or throws a fit or is controlling. In fact, she barely says anything about it, encourages me to go have my guy nights, and just generally let's me do my thing. That doesn't mean she likes it though.

As for all gaming girls being ugly though I obviously can't agree given I'm marrying one that loves playing the mulltiplayer games with the exception of FPS. She'll play them but since she's not great at them, she prefers other games.

On a side note how do I upload a picture into a post off my computer?
 
[quote name='Dead of Knight']:rofl::rofl::rofl:


I'm 20. I've been in a three-year relationship in high school, a year and a half relationship early in college, and I've just gone six months with my current boyfriend.
And as Paco said, you are a simp. There's no need to reply to you anymore since you obviously just don't get it. This will be my last post in this thread.[/quote]


I don't understand how you can insult him and tell him he's doing it wrong/is a pussy/whipped when you yourself have had 3 relationships, 2 of which didn't work out for you, and 1 that is only 6 months old?
He has been in his for 6 years and is about to get married and seems excited for it. How is your experience and knowledge/advice going to help him when he clearly has the edge over you in terms of experience/working/healthy relationships?
 
[quote name='sweeetja713']Is it seriously that hard to get a significant other interested in gaming? Just break out the Mario Parties or other cutesy multiplayer games and gradually work your way up. Mario Kart FTW btw. It worked with my fiancee who until me hadn't owned a system since the nes and then only because it was her brother's. I eventually had to get her a ds for her birthday because she was playing mine so much. The only reason she doesn't want a ps3 on the registry is because we already have a 360 and a wii.

As for not wanting you to spend all your time gaming, I can see that. I'm a big fan of fire emblem, advance wars, and the like. Given that a single mission can take an hour to an hour and a half she's not real thrilled if I'm in the middle of playing it when she comes over. No women in the world appreciates anything that takes time and attention away from her. She really doesn't like Illini basketball either because it takes time and attention away from her. That's just the way it is. However, just because she doesn't like it doesn't mean she gets upset or throws a fit or is controlling. In fact, she barely says anything about it, encourages me to go have my guy nights, and just generally let's me do my thing. That doesn't mean she likes it though.

As for all gaming girls being ugly though I obviously can't agree given I'm marrying one that loves playing the mulltiplayer games with the exception of FPS. She'll play them but since she's not great at them, she prefers other games.

On a side note how do I upload a picture into a post off my computer?[/quote]

More rationality!? WTF!?? Better watch it, it's contageious and can be habit forming.

And sweetja, I never said ALL (though I implied it, true). Of course absolutes are never true, it was a generality, and generally it's true. All JMO of course.
 
[quote name='pittpizza']I lack creativity? I guess someone has said it looks like you're growing pubes out of you head before eh?

As to the lawschool, (completely OT but you brought it up) only 10% of the applicants of my school got in. I guess I just got lucky.

Congrats on your plethora of relationship expertise and your years of real-life experience though! Highschool rocks! Way to go.:applause: Adios and have fun NOT posting in this thread anymore.


I try not to take life too seriously, or comments like yours for that matter, so yeah, I should find it funny. ;)

Also I can't click those youtube links yet, and am less than well-versed in keith sweat and Lionel Richie music, so you'll have to forgive me if I have absolutely no clue what the hell you're talking about here.



I take it this has worked for you in the long run???:whistle2:k


This...

...and this make pittpizza VERY hesitant to take advice from Paco...

yet it's so tempting I think I'll try it. Should I smack her too?[/quote]

Let me take a guess. Political correctness has rammed a dildo up your bung hole until you no longer have any common sense correct? This is typical of most college educated "Or in this case EDUMACATED" students. Especially anyone that majors in a liberal art OR law. It teachers you a whole bunch of bullshit unfortunately. It seems to me that people who major in words oftentimes have the least common sense. I'm not saying you lack common sense, but from my perspective, you are just walking straight into an incoming train with no regard of the fact that it's going to ruin you not only financially, but mentally, spiritually and physically.

I don't try to take life too seriously, I'm fairly laid back. I enjoy my games, hang out with friends, play online, use the internets, educate the younger generation and so forth. Like I said, I'm fairly laid back and try to get the most out of life and try to prevent any suffering of males.

Watching those are love ballads. Or pussy songs. They're female porn about what they think they want and teh many men who try to emulate such bullshit only to get shot down. Women don't want nice guys. They want guys who treat them like shit, at least in their youth. When youth fades, common sense comes into play. But why would you want some used up old cunt? Hell I personally think women are old after about 28. But then again, I'm from Mexico. I"m from the old school patriarch and people respect that far more then an accomodating nice guy. At least in FEMERICA.

I never had any long term relationship simply because I tolerate no shit. One strike and YOU'RE OUT. I wouldn't put up with any shit. Again, this comes from me being a part of "old country" and man being the be all power.

Anyone that acknowledges feminism as anything but BULLSHIT for the most part are full of BULLSHIT or PUSSIES. Women are NOT equal. Equal opportunity does NOT mean equal outcome. I'm for equality, but I see things in a more realist view then the politically correct view from communist Russia.

I feel bad for you because you don't seem to mind tossing your body into a landmind. As a lawyer, you should know first hand about how fucked up the system is against men. Do you have some sort of Aegis that prevents you from being fucked over? I wonder.
 
[quote name='Noodle Pirate!']I don't understand how you can insult him and tell him he's doing it wrong/is a pussy/whipped when you yourself have had 3 relationships, 2 of which didn't work out for you, and 1 that is only 6 months old?
He has been in his for 6 years and is about to get married and seems excited for it. How is your experience and knowledge/advice going to help him when he clearly has the edge over you in terms of experience/working/healthy relationships?[/quote]

I think/hope pubehead left this thread, but I doubt it.

Generally though I'm a fan of info. It helps me know things. (eg. Learning from other's mistakes, yada yada yada.) Even if it's from a pubeheaded relationship noob, it is still more info, though as you correctly pointed out, not nearly as authoritative or credible.
 
I've just deleted an uncalled for post which was reported. Keep your insults and namecalling out of here, guys. Otherwise the thread gets closed.


As for DoK, she's old enough and intelligent enough to fight her own battles.
 
Paco you may like this little diddy by NOFX: (I know I know, but I havent cited to them in a while and it is just so damn on topic). It is froma song called Kill Rock Stars
"Kill the rock stars" how ironic, Kathleen
You've been crowned the newest queen
Kinda like the punk rock Gloria Steinemm
You can't change the world by blaming men
Can't change the world by hating men

Just cause I don't know the reason you're so pissed
Don't dare tag me misogynist
I thought the goal here was mutual respect
Not constructing a separate sect
I wish I could have seen Courtney
Demonstrate some real misogyny
Can't change the world by hating men
Click to expand...

If you feel like starting a thread about feminism in the vs. forum I encourage you to do so and will gladly take part b/c it interests me. It has zero relevance to this thread though b/c I can assure you that Amie, as a moderate "girly-girl" hates femi-nazis.
 
[quote name='pittpizza']Paco you may like this little diddy by NOFX: (I know I know, but I havent cited to them in a while and it is just so damn on topic). It is froma song called Kill Rock Stars


If you feel like starting a thread about feminism in the vs. forum I encourage you to do so and will gladly take part b/c it interests me. It has zero relevance to this thread though b/c I can assure you that Amie, as a moderate "girly-girl" hates femi-nazis.[/quote]

I'm sorry, but you completely miss the point. Just because she's a moderate girlie girl does NOT mean she is NOT infected with the disease. When it comes to a divorce "which is inevitable in this CUNTRY" She will use EVERY feminist tactic in the book. Even NON feminists know how biased the CUNTRY is against men and will not hesitate to fuck you up with the laws.

I recommend you as a lawyer really look through what you're signing for. Each individual state has different rights or in your case ways to be raped by the hilariously one sided "Family court"

Let me ask you this. Would you still be happy if you didn't have her? I most likely already know the answer, but I would like to hear it directly.
 
[quote name='Paco']

Women don't want nice guys. They want guys who treat them like shit, at least in their youth. When youth fades, common sense comes into play.

I never had any long term relationship simply because I tolerate no shit. One strike and YOU'RE OUT. I wouldn't put up with any shit. Again, this comes from me being a part of "old country" and man being the be all power.

Women are NOT equal.

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1. Yes a lot of women seem to want guys that treat them like shit but that's primarily because those are the guys with the confidence to make a move. A lot of nice guys or those that consider themselves nice guys who never get the girl never make a single move and don't have confidence. Hence they don't get the girl.

2. At least you realize why you've never had a long term relationship. People are human they'll make mistakes.

3. Women are equal. I would much rather have a partner than a servant.

No real person is going to take you seriously when you have views like this. Come back when you've grown up a bit.
 
[quote name='sweeetja713']1. Yes a lot of women seem to want guys that treat them like shit but that's primarily because those are the guys with the confidence to make a move. A lot of nice guys or those that consider themselves nice guys who never get the girl never make a single move and don't have confidence. Hence they don't get the girl.

2. At least you realize why you've never had a long term relationship. People are human they'll make mistakes.

3. Women are equal. I would much rather have a partner than a servant.

No real person is going to take you seriously when you have views like this. Come back when you've grown up a bit.[/quote]

1. I realize full well how this works. It also gives the th ability to truly fuck up a woman and just constantly batter someone mentally and emotionally. Women get away with this emotional abuse all the time. Think of it as payback with someone that can comprehend it in a logical way and make it even more dangerous.

2. It's more of a flaw with women and their bullshit then any flaw with me. I don't play games for the most part unless it's a mental punch specifically tailored for someone.

3. That marks you as an idiot. So you're going to say that 50 years of feminism are correct over thousands of years of evolution? Answer me this. If that is so true, why is it that the west is faltering while islam and muslims are prospering? Or how about the fact that the US would be in far greater straights if it wasn't for the Patriarcial Hispanic community keeping the birthrate up.

No Feminized person would take me seriously. People who have more common sense however DO. You can say whatever you want about me being a pig or whatever, but I no longer hold feminist or any male opinion that gravitates towards the socialist experiment as worth anything. I'm realist. And ironically, I'm the biggest believer of equal rights then anyone else believe it or not. I just don't give women any slack or leeway and I let them fall hard on their face without any help whatsoever. THAT is the way to TRUE equal rights.
 
[quote name='pittpizza']Well put Sweetja.

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Paco, if we broke up or she died (G-d forbid) or some event happend where we were no longer together, I WOULD not be happy as I love her dearly and it's perfectly normal to be sad after a long relationship breaks up. Don't confuse this word "WOULD" with "COULD" though. I COULD definitely be happy again after some time.

Your views are seriously misogynist.

Guess who made all those female friendly laws you speak of: Legislatures!! aka Lawyers. They form committees and listen to experts (who know a hell of a lot more than you) and then decide and vote on how to make laws.

This might resonate a little more with you though, since you'll discredit anything I say because I'm educated and don't hate women:

Legislatures are 95% (or something very close, depending on your state) MALE dipshit.[/quote]


But sometimes you forget that you may be the fool as you have your emotion strings being put through the test. Who's to determine exactly what a fool is?

So you're saying that you can't live without her. Why do so many men think their lives revolve around someone else? Or that their life isn't complete without a woman to SHARE it? Are you really that weak willed that you'd be a wreck because of it?

My views are not politically correct. I'll grant you that, I don't believe in it. As a foreigner your views come off as steeped in a fantasy land. They're BS. And women are stringing you along laughing at you for believing in this crap.

I know who made the laws. They also word several laws to where they can't be voted down. How about VAWA or violence against woman act? How many men would vote against that? But if you read it, it's basically all men are criminals no matter how you slice it. It's worded in such a way that ONLY MEN are capable of crime. BUT who would vote against something that sounds so good?

I don't discredit the educated. I discredit the STUPID. Though I'm only a Sophomore in college, I don't go with politically correct agenda. Most liberal arts majors have no ability. Same with lawyers. A lot of them aren't stooped in reality. And the way you communicate also shows this. I'm sorry but is there some bonus to have your thoughts not drawn in reality when making laws or practicing them? I wonder simply because I met very few lawyers that come off as normal.

I also love how as a lawyer and supposedly with your wide command of the English language you stoop to childish insults. I LOVE THIS.
 
[quote name='Paco']1. I realize full well how this works. It also gives the th ability to truly fuck up a woman and just constantly batter someone mentally and emotionally. Women get away with this emotional abuse all the time. Think of it as payback with someone that can comprehend it in a logical way and make it even more dangerous.

2. It's more of a flaw with women and their bullshit then any flaw with me. I don't play games for the most part unless it's a mental punch specifically tailored for someone.

3. That marks you as an idiot. So you're going to say that 50 years of feminism are correct over thousands of years of evolution? Answer me this. If that is so true, why is it that the west is faltering while islam and muslims are prospering? Or how about the fact that the US would be in far greater straights if it wasn't for the Patriarcial Hispanic community keeping the birthrate up.

No Feminized person would take me seriously. People who have more common sense however DO. You can say whatever you want about me being a pig or whatever, but I no longer hold feminist or any male opinion that gravitates towards the socialist experiment as worth anything. I'm realist. And ironically, I'm the biggest believer of equal rights then anyone else believe it or not. I just don't give women any slack or leeway and I let them fall hard on their face without any help whatsoever. THAT is the way to TRUE equal rights.[/quote]

1. Pretty sure both males and females get away with emotional abuse all the time. We as humans can be pretty selfish and manipulative and part of that is inflicting some level of emotional abuse.

2. How is you not putting up with any mistake a flaw with women and their bullshit. Are you saying that we men don't make mistakes?

3. Give me some examples of what you mean by Islam and Muslims prospering. As of right now I have no clue what you mean by us faltering and them prospering. As for the Hispanic community keeping birthrates up what the hell does that have to do with anything? Unless you're referencing the need for births for social security purposes in which case I have news for you, we're pretty much fucked when it comes to social security anyway.
 
[quote name='Paco']But sometimes you forget that you may be the fool as you have your emotion strings being put through the test. Who's to determine exactly what a fool is?

So you're saying that you can't live without her. Why do so many men think their lives revolve around someone else? Or that their life isn't complete without a woman to SHARE it? Are you really that weak willed that you'd be a wreck because of it?

My views are not politically correct. I'll grant you that, I don't believe in it. As a foreigner your views come off as steeped in a fantasy land. They're BS. And women are stringing you along laughing at you for believing in this crap.

I know who made the laws. They also word several laws to where they can't be voted down. How about VAWA or violence against woman act? How many men would vote against that? But if you read it, it's basically all men are criminals no matter how you slice it. It's worded in such a way that ONLY MEN are capable of crime. BUT who would vote against something that sounds so good?

I don't discredit the educated. I discredit the STUPID. Though I'm only a Sophomore in college, I don't go with politically correct agenda. Most liberal arts majors have no ability. Same with lawyers. A lot of them aren't stooped in reality. And the way you communicate also shows this. I'm sorry but is there some bonus to have your thoughts not drawn in reality when making laws or practicing them? I wonder simply because I met very few lawyers that come off as normal.

I also love how as a lawyer and supposedly with your wide command of the English language you stoop to childish insults. I LOVE THIS.[/quote]

I determine who the fool is, and it's you b/c (1) you're quite a bit younger than I am, (2) I have a lot more life experience than you, (3) You're sexist, (4) Your misogynist, and (5) I rule. So yeah, you're the fool.

And no, I never said I can't live without her. You said that. I purposefully pointed out the difference between teh words "WOULD" and "COULD" and I even put them in all caps so you'd notice. Do me a favor and read that part again would you. If you do, you'll see that I'm not saying I can't live without here and you'll get my point if you have any reading comp. whatsoever. I know you said you have a problem with people who major in "words". I know what you mean by this (history, english, poli sci, philosphy etc.) and it sort of makes me think you're not all that fond of reading a writing (other than to spew oral bile on CAG).

That sentence about you equating "love" with being "weak willed" really made me genuinely sad for you. I feel bad for you bro, I hope with time you find happiness. No offense is intended but I'm seriously wondering. Are you gay?

As far as VAWA, it only applies to women just like a statute against defacing a corpse only applies to corpses. It's supposed to be narrow and aimed and righting a specific wrong. Dom. violence is a huge problem, it's cyclical, and current laws were not righting the ship. Nobody has a problem with this law because it's a good law unless you're in favor of violence against women. Are you? Do me a favor and point me to the provision of the VAWA that states, as you put it: "all men are criminals no matter how you slice it." I'd like to see that.

I see you didn't point to a specific provision of your state's family code that you have a problem with. I asked you to so we could have a structured and civil debate about something you take issue with, why didn't you?

FWIW, I think your problem is not with the way I "communicate." You disagree with my views, not the form of my communication. Have I been unclear or confusing? Have I not expressed myself clearly?

And trust me, I only stoop to childish insults on CAG, I leave that stuff here and don't take it into the courtroom with me. Though it would be awesome and totally hilarious to see an attorney call a judge a "pubehead."
 
I wish I didn't post any advice on the surround sound situation after reading how rude you are to other CAGs pittpizza. Does insulting the way someone looks make you feel better about yourself? That really was uncalled for. Some of the comments made toward you must have some merit if they caused you to take your argument in that pathetic direction.

You and your future wife seem perfect for each other.
 
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