[quote name='shrike4242']Here's my analysis of the situation, looking at all of your points:
Pros -
* 13%+ increase in annual pay - which ends up being about 10% net, due to annual 2-3% COLA increases
* Better benefits - could be a huge plus, because of having the wife + very young child, costs could be expensive for healthcare (though, how are they better compared to now?)
* Larger, more prestigous firm - could be a springboard for better jobs at other companies
* More growth opportunity - a good opportunity if you're not looking for something short-term
* boredom in current job will go away - important to keep the job interesting, as it'll increase productivity
* Nice little sign on bonus - nice perk, though what's "nice little"?
Cons -
* will lose 20% vesting of retirement - at 29, you should be able to make that up quickly by changing how your portfolio is constructed with some higher-risk, higher-gain options
* will have to commute ~1 hour each way (currently work from home) - increases of cost & wear/tear on car, plus change in work schedule with commute figured in there
* tied to the above, won't be home as much to see the lil dude and wifey (it's important to note that changing jobs was inevitable though) - if this was an inventiable change, they should be understanding in the change of you being around
* CAG time will become very limited -

:lol: - should be the last thing on your mind
Some questions:
1) Quantify how your benefits will be "better". Lower cost? More coverage for more things?
2) Define the "nice little sign on bonus".
3) Can you do the commute through means other than the car? I know in Chicago, your transportation options are better than they are here in St. Louis, though if you could it via train, that could be some "downtime" for you to read/listen to music/etc. I'm sure if you can do it via train, that'll even out some of the mess of the commute.
4) Do you think it'll be much issue to make up your vesting by changing around your portfolio to generate the difference?
I'd put in a vote to make the change to the new job, since IMHO, it looks like a better long-term prospect than the current one.[/QUOTE]
That's a very good analysis of the situation and my list of pros and cons. See below for answers to your questions....I don't think any of the below would change your opinion.
1) Benefits will be better in that they will be cheaper and more comprehensive than what we have now.
2) The sign on bonus is $4,000 (payable with my first paycheck) which helps to offset the bonus $$$ I'll be leaving on the table by leaving at this point in the year.
3) I will be commuting via train if I get a job downtown (where this job would be). The train station is about 15 minutes from my house, it's about an hour train ride, and would drop me off a half a block from work.
4) I work with an financial advisor now and have my own retirement and savings stuff going on in addition to my work retirement so changing things around and contributing more to those accounts would be no problem especially given the extra $$$ in base.