Jkmetal
Banned
Go ahead, call me anything that you like after your done reading this, its your right, but please read this.
Ok, so I am a 19 year old sophomore in college. Just this last weekend, I realised something, I feel like that up to this point in life that if things go the way they have been going since highschool I really don't see my life being one that will really worth anything. I was thinking about my new living arrangements in school, classes and my social life. I realizeded that at this point I havet made only one friend by myself alone (me and my twin brother always had mutal friends, those 2 (sad I know only two friends from highschool) whom I still have. However, I know that without my brother I would not have been friends with even them) my entire freshmen year and even the last 5 years of my life. At this point, I don't even know how to make friends or how to keep them. I find it impossible to make any meaningful conversation with strangers, I avoid most types of socal situations and whenever I am taken to a party I usually find some way to escape a few minutes later to just sit on the couch. I am usually in constant fear of other people, of saying the wrong thing, of coming off as werid or unusual. Around everybody but my two friends and family. Even then. Futher more, I've never had a girlfriend or done anything beyond professional and some social gatherings with a girl. Anything. Its not that I don't want to, I can't. Its impossible, I don't even know how to begin.
Even moving beyond the social aspect of my life even though I have some motivation in school (I stay above water, usually), I really have no goals in life, at all, and I really mean this, beyond just staying above water. I don't ever think about a career, a future, a job or anything like that. For me its like only this moment in time is what I can think about. I never really plan, I just slide along. Even when I was involved in the martial arts, I didn't have any real abiltiy to progress in rank after the first year and a half, even though I enjoyed being a part of it.
Anyway, bottom line that I am one ed up person. And at this point, I really, really, dislike myself. Maybe even hate myself. I know I should seek help and I am going to. I was just wondering though, is it better? When you actually have a life? Has anyone here ever been through something like this before? How did you snap out of it?
Anyway, thats it. Feel free to flame me as usual, I mean i get it all the time in real life, so why not here?
Ok, so I am a 19 year old sophomore in college. Just this last weekend, I realised something, I feel like that up to this point in life that if things go the way they have been going since highschool I really don't see my life being one that will really worth anything. I was thinking about my new living arrangements in school, classes and my social life. I realizeded that at this point I havet made only one friend by myself alone (me and my twin brother always had mutal friends, those 2 (sad I know only two friends from highschool) whom I still have. However, I know that without my brother I would not have been friends with even them) my entire freshmen year and even the last 5 years of my life. At this point, I don't even know how to make friends or how to keep them. I find it impossible to make any meaningful conversation with strangers, I avoid most types of socal situations and whenever I am taken to a party I usually find some way to escape a few minutes later to just sit on the couch. I am usually in constant fear of other people, of saying the wrong thing, of coming off as werid or unusual. Around everybody but my two friends and family. Even then. Futher more, I've never had a girlfriend or done anything beyond professional and some social gatherings with a girl. Anything. Its not that I don't want to, I can't. Its impossible, I don't even know how to begin.
Even moving beyond the social aspect of my life even though I have some motivation in school (I stay above water, usually), I really have no goals in life, at all, and I really mean this, beyond just staying above water. I don't ever think about a career, a future, a job or anything like that. For me its like only this moment in time is what I can think about. I never really plan, I just slide along. Even when I was involved in the martial arts, I didn't have any real abiltiy to progress in rank after the first year and a half, even though I enjoyed being a part of it.
Anyway, bottom line that I am one ed up person. And at this point, I really, really, dislike myself. Maybe even hate myself. I know I should seek help and I am going to. I was just wondering though, is it better? When you actually have a life? Has anyone here ever been through something like this before? How did you snap out of it?
Anyway, thats it. Feel free to flame me as usual, I mean i get it all the time in real life, so why not here?