SadieDee
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When is it too young to have a baby?
I just found out yesterday that I'm going to be an Aunt. I'm 21.
It's my brother's child and he's 24 and his girlfriend is 18
Personally, I think it's way too young and I just don't agree with it but of course I can't tell my brother that. So far, I've just been giving them the typical "Congrats" lip service. I've just been glad that they told me online and not in person. I'd have probably freaked out (for the worse if you know what I mean). So anyway, I'm frustrated because I don't really want to be an Aunt or have to deal with his mistakes (AGAIN) by babysitting, etc. It comes down to, he is just not responsible enough to care for a child and it's care is going to be put soley on his gf, my parents, or me (heck no)
They are planning a wedding sometime within the next few months. They've only been dating 3.5 months. My boyfriend and I have been dating over 5 years and there's still no children or mention of marriage. It's alittle f*ed up and I'm fairly angry.
I was contemplating what to get my brother and his gf for Christmas. I decided on a $10 gift card for Hollywood video last week. I think my $10 would have been better spent on a box of condoms if you know what I mean.
I just found out yesterday that I'm going to be an Aunt. I'm 21.
It's my brother's child and he's 24 and his girlfriend is 18
Personally, I think it's way too young and I just don't agree with it but of course I can't tell my brother that. So far, I've just been giving them the typical "Congrats" lip service. I've just been glad that they told me online and not in person. I'd have probably freaked out (for the worse if you know what I mean). So anyway, I'm frustrated because I don't really want to be an Aunt or have to deal with his mistakes (AGAIN) by babysitting, etc. It comes down to, he is just not responsible enough to care for a child and it's care is going to be put soley on his gf, my parents, or me (heck no)
They are planning a wedding sometime within the next few months. They've only been dating 3.5 months. My boyfriend and I have been dating over 5 years and there's still no children or mention of marriage. It's alittle f*ed up and I'm fairly angry.
I was contemplating what to get my brother and his gf for Christmas. I decided on a $10 gift card for Hollywood video last week. I think my $10 would have been better spent on a box of condoms if you know what I mean.