Would you date a fat chick

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[quote name='mattfoley7']most girls will do anything to get the cutest guy and most guys will do anything to get into the girls pants. simple as that. how does this relate to the topic? hell if I know but what I just said is true. As for dating a "fat" chick if you have to ask anyone then you shouldn't bother.[/QUOTE]

No. You're misguided.

We will do anything to get the guy with the most power.

In high school, that may be the guy with the best car... or some guy who is/was with some girl we hated/thought was better or cuter than us.

In college, it's more about being a sweet talker. We're vulnerable at that age, and want to have fun while we still can.

After college, when it really matters, then it's 100% about the money.
 
Well, guess i'll put my two cents in on this and then let it be.

Letter B, Letter B, after A but before C. It's the second letter... Letter B. Yeah!


I know alot of people dont date, "fatties" but then who are you to judge how anyone looks?

A person with thier own free will. If they are willing to accept the reprocussions of thier actions, they can behave just about however they want, no matter how henious the act is or not.


Ok, you got me, I am a "fat chick" and nope, I dont have a boyfriend at the time.

I could make a glib offhand comment here, but I'm going to let it slide.

Not sure if it's because us fat people are icky and might devour half the nation or if it's because people are afraid of what others might think when you walk down the street with a hippo by your side.

My God! The fat people! They've gone and done it! The entire East Coast is gone!!! There is ocean front property in the Dakotas now! Heaven help us!!

Hmm. Guess we better hunt down the people singing "I want a hippopotamus for christmas" right now to try and avert this crisis.

Whatever it is, well, I dont care to be honest.
I also find it funny when I go to an arcade and play "Pump it up" (similar to DDR, but much better) and I can see people looking at me as I get on the pads and are probably thinking, "aww..poor fat chick got lost. The pizza is that way sweetheart" but then I start playing and people actually think it's cool.

People are talking generalities. Most of the terrible things in the world can be accounted for by abstraction. As so as you can disassociate yourself with the human aspect of things, it's much easier to not feel bad about destroying people.


Anyway, point is, not all fatties just sit there and do nothing. I have been fat my entire life and I have tried everything to lose weight (I played baseball for 6 years, softball for 3, and would play outside everyday with my friends growing up) It sometimes gets depressing when you see people who say, "Why dosent that cow just get up and get some excercise...it'll do her some good" because I do and nothing seems to help.

Again, generalities.


So before you judge, understand.
Je ne comprends pas.
 
[quote name='Lina']No. You're misguided.

We will do anything to get the guy with the most power.

In high school, that may be the guy with the best car... or some guy who is/was with some girl we hated/thought was better or cuter than us.

In college, it's more about being a sweet talker. We're vulnerable at that age, and want to have fun while we still can.

After college, when it really matters, then it's 100% about the money.[/QUOTE]

First, joo gets da money.
Den, joo gets da power.
Den, joo gets the women!

Heee. Random qoutes are fun!!
 
I agree that people can judge people however they want. Whether that be first impressions, stereotyping, whatever. And certainly, certain types of person are more attractive to certain people than others--for instance, blonde hair doesn't really do much for me.
And if someone says 'I'm personally not attracted to, or am turned off by, overweight women/men', well, fine.
But to say 'Don't date a fat person, because your friends might not like it', to me, shows an incredible weakness of will and shows how petty a person one is, that they are always seekign approval for their actions.

What's the difference between a "generality" ["S/He's fat, so s/he needs to get off her ass and do some exercise instead of eating Twinkies and Coke"], and a "stereotype" ["S/he's black, so s/he wo't get a job and instead will sit at home watching Springer, popping out kids, and draining the welfare checks", or "He's Jewish, so he's a cheap penny pincher."]
 
Ok, without reading all the other responses...


A "fat" chick is ok. You can be big without being sloppy and some are just as attractive as slimmer girls IMO. For example, I think Queen Latifah is a very beautiful lady and she is a big girl. Some people just carry their weight better than others. I don't mind a big girl as long as she doesn't look sloppy.
 
[quote name='MegoW64']Well, guess i'll put my two cents in on this and then let it be.


I know alot of people dont date, "fatties" but then who are you to judge how anyone looks?


Ok, you got me, I am a "fat chick" and nope, I dont have a boyfriend at the time.


Not sure if it's because us fat people are icky and might devour half the nation or if it's because people are afraid of what others might think when you walk down the street with a hippo by your side.

Whatever it is, well, I dont care to be honest.

I also find it funny when I go to an arcade and play "Pump it up" (similar to DDR, but much better) and I can see people looking at me as I get on the pads and are probably thinking, "aww..poor fat chick got lost. The pizza is that way sweetheart" but then I start playing and people actually think it's cool.


Anyway, point is, not all fatties just sit there and do nothing. I have been fat my entire life and I have tried everything to lose weight (I played baseball for 6 years, softball for 3, and would play outside everyday with my friends growing up) It sometimes gets depressing when you see people who say, "Why dosent that cow just get up and get some excercise...it'll do her some good" because I do and nothing seems to help.


So before you judge, understand.[/QUOTE]

Try cross-country?
 
[quote name='dtcarson']\

Wow....So you date people based on what your friends think? How little you must value your own opinion. Think for yourself for a change, and make/have/STAND BY your own opinions. Don't decide what you think by taking a poll.[/QUOTE]

Back when I was in High School, image was everything, and pretty much everyone knew that, its not a matter of thinking for yourself, its in general the damage that could be caused by going down that route, if you want to go for it, but kids can be cruel.
 
Image is 'everything' even now.
Britney Spears isn't a 'star' for her talent, nor is Keanu Reeves [whoever told that man he could act?]
Some people see more than just an image, some [many] don't.
I don't buy into the 'cult of personality' we have nowadays in the entertainment industry; I also didn't buy into it in high school. I am me, I am who I am and I like what I like; if that bothers you [other high school kids], then that's your loss. I had enough faith in my own self-identity, I didn't need to fit an 'image.' I was going to AP English class, wearing torn jeans and a King Diamond t-shirt, then hanging out with some of the shoppies before going to a math team meet or a football game. I didn't 'conform' into any crowd, so I was able to interact with all of them.
Kids can be cruel, sure. So can 'adults', as we are seeing in this very thread [I'm assuming there are some adults here, and not just a bunch of high school punks.] Sadly, they can't even be creatively cruel.
The only 'damage' comes from a society in which we are led to believe you have to please everyone, you have to appease, and you're not allowed to be yourself.
I'm proud to say I've always thought for myself, and done what I have thought was the 'right' thing to do even though it may not have been the 'popular' thing to do, and borne any consequences thereof.
Perhaps the 'image is everything' attitude of high schools in the recent decades has helped to lead us where we are now, where appearance counts for more than content, where it doesn't matter if you're a good person or a jerk as long as you say the right words to not 'offend' anyone, where kids are shooting each other to get the newest pair of shoes some jock plugs, etc.
 
[quote name='MegoW64']I know alot of people dont date, "fatties" but then who are you to judge how anyone looks?[/QUOTE]

Bottom line is there has to be an initial attraction, and it's simply not there for me.
 
[quote name='sblymnlcrymnl']Bottom line is there has to be an initial attraction, and it's simply not there for me.[/QUOTE]

Well said.
 
Just remember that looks can definitely be deceiving. Take me, for example.

Just by looking at me, you could probably classify me as overweight or fat, or whatever you wanna call it. However, there is a lot more going on than you would know about. Plus, of course, there is also the "how that person got there" story that no one knows about.

Since birth, I have battled with a myriad of illnesses, mostly respiratory problems. I practically lived in the hospital for a few years when you add up all the visits. I was never really overweight, just big for my age (mostly in height). Well, one night my body gave up. I was on the verge of death. The only way that the doctors could bring me back was by bombarding my body with over a dozen different medications, including several antibiotics and steroids.

There was a period when my body chemistry was altered by the medication regimen and I would gain a lot of weight, even with the lowest-calorie, healthiest foods. My body wouldn't process nutrients properly. With 30 different medications and various forms of therapy, I'm not surprised!

The steroids ended up bulking me up a little and ruining my eyesight (nothing that a pair of glasses or contacts can't fix though, thankfully; my eyesight just won't improve, that's all). The added power that steroids gave me (it was pretty significant for a time; I remember being a young kid and being able to bodyslam some of my grown relatives when I would play and wrestle with them) helped me get my body working again so I could live.

However, some of my body is still damaged (both of my lungs are scarred, and one of them barely functions; have occasional skin problems), but I'm really healthy. All of my organs work perfectly, my blood tests come back excellent... I'm in great condition and I can give anyone a run for their money when I play around with them. Plus, after having my composition tested, I found that I have a lot of muscle, and that my bulk isn't all fat. Plus, it's not difficult for me to lose weight. If I was less busy and I could cook, I would definitely be able to get into better shape. Plus, even with my low self-esteem (which thankfully I'm learning to deal with and build upon), I don't think I'm really ugly. I think I'd be handsome if I had a better body.

Just by looking at me, you wouldn't see all of that. You'd just see the outside: an "overweight" person.

It's true that a lot of people can't help being overweight. It's just like how small-minded people can't help being assholes; it's just genetic. :)

EDIT: Almost forgot. When looking for a long-lasting relationship, remember that looks aren't everything, and are pretty useless when you get older. When you are 70 or 80 years old, looks won't matter. You will most likely be unable to have sex, so if your mate doesn't have a personality, things will suck. It's those times when you need someone to talk to, and share feelings with. Sex is great, but a lot of times people find that the other things in a relationship really make life sweet.
 
[quote name='MegoW64']Well, guess i'll put my two cents in on this and then let it be.


I know alot of people dont date, "fatties" but then who are you to judge how anyone looks?


Ok, you got me, I am a "fat chick" and nope, I dont have a boyfriend at the time.


Not sure if it's because us fat people are icky and might devour half the nation or if it's because people are afraid of what others might think when you walk down the street with a hippo by your side.

Whatever it is, well, I dont care to be honest.

I also find it funny when I go to an arcade and play "Pump it up" (similar to DDR, but much better) and I can see people looking at me as I get on the pads and are probably thinking, "aww..poor fat chick got lost. The pizza is that way sweetheart" but then I start playing and people actually think it's cool.


Anyway, point is, not all fatties just sit there and do nothing. I have been fat my entire life and I have tried everything to lose weight (I played baseball for 6 years, softball for 3, and would play outside everyday with my friends growing up) It sometimes gets depressing when you see people who say, "Why dosent that cow just get up and get some excercise...it'll do her some good" because I do and nothing seems to help.


So before you judge, understand.[/QUOTE]


You said it.
I'm a "fattie" also. I'm also one of the most active people I know. I walk everday for almost thirty minutes a day. I'm always swimming at the beach, playing football or basketball with my friends. I also barely eat. I eat one little meal a day and in between I snack on fruit such as strawberries, oranges, or grapefruits. Yet I can't lose the weight and it's because I have a very slow metabolism. Also, almost everyone in my family is "overweight". It's genetics. I can also tell you this, I may not be skinny but I'd probably be the nicest person ever...
 
It depends on your moral values. If you feel fat people/girls are somewhat lesser people then don't date them or hang out with them. I have never dated a "fat chick" partially because I am not attracted to them and they usually end up being my friends or move on. Remember that "fat chicks" have needs too, it's up to you to decide if you are the one to satisfy them or not.
 
Intersting. If only FHM, Stuff and Maxim, or TV, or movies, or celebrities, or people around me at school...and on the internet...and to a lesser extent, in books didn't keep telling me that being fat is a terrible thing and that I ought to worship the thin and (more often than not) underdeveloped body.

Personally, I find pop culture's infatuation with looks to be despicable. The hot girl thread is a great way for a bunch of people to objectify women as posting pictures and offering your two cents on whether or not you'd "do her".

As for myself, I hardly think I'm fat. HOwever, my weight fluctuates a lot based on how much (and how hard) I'm working out that month. When I fall out of routine, I gain weight, when I'm spot on, I'm extremely built, but that's all beside the point.
 
[quote name='Moxio']Um why was this thread of death bumped? :cry:[/QUOTE]

Yep. Someone's Thread-necroing for sure.

Wise from your Gwave!
 
Dude DDR is better than Pump it Up, boo to imitations! And being on topic I have nothing against "fat chicks", sucks when people make fun of them. But alas I have never dated one :whistle2:#
 
I was thinking of making a sci-fi/Horror movie about these Fat Chicks that take over the planet and they make men their sex slaves. There will be a lot of CGI special effects
 
My fiancee thinks she's fat (5'4", 140) but no, I would not date a fat chick. I did when I was fat myself, but now I can do better.
 
I'll go out w/ a girl that can be described as 'thick' but beyond that, no I wouldn't date a fat chick. Sorry if that depresses any fat girls out there. Not to sound vain and shallow but when a woman is physically fit, it makes her very attractive. It's a sign that she's taking care of herself and thus is a healthy sign that she is a sexually fit person to mate with. And I seriously think that a lot of girls would be physically attractive but just don't take care of themselves. Very few people in the population can truly make the excuse that "fat is in their genes so it would be harder for them to get fit". Speaking as both a former stick (grade school) & fattie (early college) I know what it's like on both ends. But I manned up and decided I wasn't gonna take that shit anymore and forced myself to get fit. For the majority of the population, there's no excuse for being fat.
 
Would I date a fat guy? No. I mean, a little fat here and there is okay (almost everyone has it), but there's very little excuse for being overweight or obese. It shows a lack of self-control or care about one's health.
 
[quote name='Dead of Knight']Would I date a fat guy? No. I mean, a little fat here and there is okay (almost everyone has it), but there's very little excuse for being overweight or obese. It shows a lack of self-control or care about one's health.[/QUOTE]

As opposed to us lazy skinny people who sit around eating nachos all day but don't gain an ounce?
 
[quote name='Dead of Knight']Would I date a fat guy? No. I mean, a little fat here and there is okay (almost everyone has it), but there's very little excuse for being overweight or obese. It shows a lack of self-control or care about one's health.[/QUOTE]

Well like some people said there are reasons apart from self control and whatnot, genetics/slow metabolism.

Dunno into what category of "fat" I fit into. 5'11 180 aaaaaaaahhhhhhh
 
[quote name='zionoverfire']As opposed to us lazy skinny people who sit around eating nachos all day but don't gain an ounce?[/QUOTE]

That would be me, sort of. But if you're a fatass, there's definitely easy ways to change your diet and exercise habits so you can lose weight. I will most definitely change my food and exercise habits as I get older and my metabolism slows down. As for now, however, I'm underweight without any exercise whatsoever other than walking across campus, and I'm loving it.
 
[quote name='Dead of Knight']That would be me, sort of. But if you're a fatass, there's definitely easy ways to change your diet and exercise habits so you can lose weight. I will most definitely change my food and exercise habits as I get older and my metabolism slows down. As for now, however, I'm underweight without any exercise whasoever other than walking across campus, and I'm loving it.[/QUOTE]

Horrible.:lol:
 
[quote name='Dead of Knight']That would be me, sort of. But if you're a fatass, there's definitely easy ways to change your diet and exercise habits so you can lose weight. I will most definitely change my food and exercise habits as I get older and my metabolism slows down. As for now, however, I'm underweight without any exercise whatsoever other than walking across campus, and I'm loving it.[/QUOTE]

I'll believe that when I see it.
I'd wager there are plenty of fat 30 year old people who said the exact same thing when they were in college. Of course, if you can manage it, balance your health and life, good for you, so long as it doesn't become an unhealthy obsession.
 
Considering I bust my ass in the gym 5 or 6 days a week to stay in shape....there is no way I would date a fat girl, or an ugly girl, or anyone who isn't hot. Sorry to all those average girls out there.
 
[quote name='afedock']Considering I bust my ass in the gym 5 or 6 days a week to stay in shape....there is no way I would date a fat girl, or an ugly girl, or anyone who isn't hot. Sorry to all those average girls out there.[/QUOTE]

Oh yeah, I bet they are all out thier balling thier fucking eyes out and having their way with themselves just to let out the pent up frustration that afedock won't give them the time of day.

I mean, what the fuck is it with most of you? Are you so fucking deluded that you all think you're some kind of great fucking catches or something, and that people would actually be lucky to snag you or lust after you? There might be 5% of you where that might be the case, and that's being really fucking generous.
 
[quote name='JSweeney']I mean, what the fuck is it with most of you? Are you so fucking deluded that you all think you're some kind of great fucking catches or something, and that people would actually be lucky to snag you or lust after you? There might be 5% of you where that might be the case, and that's being really fucking generous.[/QUOTE]

Glad to see that some nerds have at least enough self respect that they wouldn't lower themselves by dating a f-f-fattie.
 
[quote name='jaykrue']I'll go out w/ a girl that can be described as 'thick' but beyond that, no I wouldn't date a fat chick. Sorry if that depresses any fat girls out there. Not to sound vain and shallow but when a woman is physically fit, it makes her very attractive. It's a sign that she's taking care of herself and thus is a healthy sign that she is a sexually fit person to mate with. And I seriously think that a lot of girls would be physically attractive but just don't take care of themselves. Very few people in the population can truly make the excuse that "fat is in their genes so it would be harder for them to get fit". Speaking as both a former stick (grade school) & fattie (early college) I know what it's like on both ends. But I manned up and decided I wasn't gonna take that shit anymore and forced myself to get fit. For the majority of the population, there's no excuse for being fat.[/QUOTE]

Shit aren't you Asian though? I always thought with Asians most of the time it just happened to be the luck of the draw that some Asians are fat but if one singing group I know is real and doesn't lipsync they need to keep that weight and sing on and shit. Big Mama.
Anyway I will admit I once saw an abnormality, an Asian girl with curves and MAN that shit was nice being the rarity it is. One Asian girl I know is a str8 up stick.
fuck camoor you gonna play the fat joke card man? Damn dude you need to cut that shit out.
Afed get the fuck over yourself, no one can truly help the looks they just have while weight may be another thing. Speaking of hot I hope you end up with Pamela Lee and wake up next to her.
Btw wanna talk about ugly. This one chick I caught a pic of you can't find anymore was UGLY and she wouldn't have been so bad if her attitude was nice but because she THOUGHT she was hot it kept her there. Sure her body was nice but put a paper bag over her head and some Saran Wrap over her pussy and a Listerine Condom on me if I have to fuck her and a vomit bag for afterwards. She was talking on the radio one day she thought the dude she was with at the current time was gay because he wouldn't holla at her. Shit she should've been relieved, realize he wasn't gay. Man I'm bad. Soz ya'll.
 
[quote name='afedock']I am a good catch, non nerdy guy who happens to like this site. My hot, non fattie girlfriend would tell you the same.[/QUOTE]

PICTURES!!!111
 
[quote name='afedock']I am a good catch, non nerdy guy who happens to like this site. My hot, non fattie girlfriend would tell you the same.[/QUOTE]

Dude you need to come to terms with your nerd or geekyness and if your girl read this shit she'd put you in check.
 
[quote name='camoor']Glad to see that some nerds have at least enough self respect that they wouldn't lower themselves by dating a f-f-fattie.[/QUOTE]

And you call me morally bankrupt? You get a kick out of laughing and making sophomoric jokes directed at an entire group of people, as well as anyone who doesn't agree with your twisted viewpoint, and my morals are in question?
 
[quote name='alonzomourning23']And you call me morally bankrupt? You get a kick out of laughing and making sophomoric jokes directed at an entire group of people, as well as anyone who doesn't agree with your twisted viewpoint, and my morals are in question?[/QUOTE]

I think we all have a little founded prejudice here and there like camoor seems sensible in most things but has this sadistic streak in making fun of fat people. Me? I hate Gypies unless they've contributed to society but I think most are fucking thieves you should watch your wallet around. I honestly can't think of what VALID contributions they usually make except to steal other people's money literally. What's your MAYBE unfounded prejudice? Do you have a problem with Gypsies like I do?
 
I think I may have already mentioned this before, but

Its more about the ratio than raw weight/fat. In women, a .7 Waist to Hip Ratio is ideal, and a woman who is what we would consider overweight, yet who is close to that ratio, will still be much more attractive than someone who is not.

In the same vein, a thin or average weight women, who deviates further away from .7, will actually be gauged as LESS attractive than the overweight woman who is closer.

Side Point
Fatness =/= fitness. Though maybe not as much so in America. Some people have a naturally unusually large build. These people according to BMI, would be morbidly obese. Yet healthwise, they are pretty much normal.
 
[quote name='Sarang01']I think we all have a little founded prejudice here and there like camoor seems sensible in most things but has this sadistic streak in making fun of fat people. Me? I hate Gypies unless they've contributed to society but I think most are fucking thieves you should watch your wallet around. I honestly can't think of what VALID contributions they usually make except to steal other people's money literally. What's your MAYBE unfounded prejudice? Do you have a problem with Gypsies like I do?[/QUOTE]

Well, Gypsies play cool music, can tell your fortune, and have one super hot chick in each caravan. Fatties sweat too much and can't fit through doors. Which one is cooler - I'll let the public judge.
 
[quote name='afedock']I am a good catch, non nerdy guy who happens to like this site. My hot, non fattie girlfriend would tell you the same.[/QUOTE]

Easy to say anonymously. People are far less likely to call your bluff.
 
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