Wow, 10 years for that?

[quote name='Scorch']lol seriously though.. 10 years.. You entered the 'friend zone' after about 6 months.. so you're around nine and a half years too late.[/quote]The dude's right. And once a girl claims you as a "friend" all hope and opportunity is lost. Forget about trying to forge any kind of relationship because girls expect the guy to make some kind of move. If you don't strike while the iron is hot she'll just assume you're not interested in her that way either and then catagorize you as the same to her. Making friends with girls is the worst way to approach a relationshiop. Get to know them, yes. Go out on dates and have fun, yes. But you have to make some kind of move early on to let them know you're interested in "more." If you don't, she'll always regard you as "just a friend" and nothing more and then you're screwed as you found out. Pouring out your feelings and she basically "hangs up" on you.

-K
 
[quote name='6669'][quote name='Kayden'][quote name='GameDude']Well, she signed off...that sure was fast.[/quote]

Dude... you arent too sharp are you? She saw you're still on =P

These guys are right... women really are pretty whory in the teen years... cut your loses and find someone worth a damn. Actually... Just sticky anything that lets you for a few years... and then when theyre actually worth the effort, stick with one. Young girls are nothing but confused, selfish, neurotic headcases that will only drain your wallet and your patience. Think I'm being bitter or critical? Just pay attention to what they say... its either comes down to money or clothes... I'm really worried about our generation... most of us are really stupid... Err... thats a different rant... anyways...

Girls at this age aren't worth the trouble. Anyone care to second that?

Girls dont want that weepy heart felt guy you see in those shitty movies, they say its sweet... but when they get it they say its suffocating or just abuse the guy, I've seen it first and second hand.

Just act like an arrogant cocky asshole and you can bang any dumb teeny bobber... save the mature sensitive guy for divorced soccermoms over 30...[/quote]

I'm so shaq-fuing sick of every boy on this site that has to talk shit about girls just because they cant get one. Maybe if you didn't think about girls like this, then you could manage to get out of the house and find one. Anyone care to second that? I didn't think so. Go ahead and respond with all your stupid comments, because I don't give a shaq-fu about anyone that does.[/quote]

I happen to have a girlfriend, and it just so happens that we live together. I don't say things like that because I have some kind of grudge, I say it because its more or less true. Also, I didn't say that all girls are a waste of time. I said most. My girlfriend also happens to consider other girls her age freakin retards.

I tried to get a couple of girls interested in me by taking the nice guy route. I got shot down all the time. Then I got fed up and stopped giving a damn. If a girl asked me what I thought of her hair I wouldn't kiss up and say it looked great. I'd say it would look better if she didn't cake on the makeup like a dime store hoe... and I'll be damned if I wasn't with a new girl every week. I don't know if they like being treated like crap or what... Maybe they think the nice guy thing is a load... atleast when you act like a dink they think you're being honest... who knows... who cares... I'm glad I don't have to put up with that stupid crap anymore.
 
[quote name='epobirs']Don't worry, GameDude. She isn't avoiding you. It just that she can't spend more than a brief period online as she needs to wash her hand 40 or 50 times and hour since reading your letter.[/quote]

:rofl: So true it hurts! :rofl:
 
I actually have to agree with 6669 on this one. Some of the posters have the worst ideaas about women that I have ever heard. By the way, I'm a guy, but I definitely notice that guys who are talking about being nice guys and complaining that women aren't worth it are full of shit usually. The problem a lot of "nice" guys have isn't that they are too nice. The problem is that they have no self-confidence. Girls like conifident guys, thats why it sometimes seems like they go out with the assholes. They don't want someone who is afraid to ask them out or afraid to try to kiss them. It's all about being condident about yourself and if a girl says no, moving on. A lot of "nice" guys end up obsessing over a girl they are interested in and that scares girls off.
 
[quote name='Scorch'][quote name='mousin']i have sex. and im 15. and i do it in my room when my parents are home. nice to know huh?[/quote]

No one cares. I won't bash you.. and I figure that the reason your parents won't bash you either is because it's normal. Everyone does it. But hey, it's sex with someone you love, right? But they have internet forums to discuss masturbation, and this isn't one of them..

But I second the argument that "girls don't know what they want at this age". If you want to get laid, it pretty much breaks down into two categories.. in high school, flash your car keys. In college, look at them. I'm serious, college girls are so willing to give it up, it's unreal.

I'm one of those "nice guys".. I don't drink or smoke and i'm always nice to women. I don't drink or smoke because my grandfather died of lung cancer and my dad's an alcoholic, so i've seen first hand what it does to people. I treat women with respect, which often lands me right in the "friend zone".. but hey, if they want a retarded guy with his pants hanging down to their knees, that's fine. They can have him. I'm not in a rush. I've been best friends with one of my friends since 6th grade, and i've always thought that one day, she'll come around and realize that we are a good match for each other.. we've never fought, talked on the phone almost every day for several hours each day (for 8 years, i'd love to see the phone records and how much total time we've talked), and get along great. She's mature for her age, but not relationship wise. She shocked me the other day when she asked if I wanted to go out with her. Then she kept talking about how I was a great friend, how I was always there for her, etc.. I figure it's only a matter of time, and if it's meant to be, it'll happen.

But yeah. I totally agree. Girls aren't worth it until the college years or later.. so have fun while you can.[/quote]

Haha. Scorch'd. But seriously, sex isn't gonna help you when you're 35 working at the drive-through window.
 
[quote name='Kayden'][quote name='GameDude']Well, she signed off...that sure was fast.[/quote]



I happen to have a girlfriend, and it just so happens that we live together. I don't say things like that because I have some kind of grudge, I say it because its more or less true. Also, I didn't say that all girls are a waste of time. I said most. My girlfriend also happens to consider other girls her age freakin retards.

I tried to get a couple of girls interested in me by taking the nice guy route. I got shot down all the time. Then I got fed up and stopped giving a damn. If a girl asked me what I thought of her hair I wouldn't kiss up and say it looked great. I'd say it would look better if she didn't cake on the makeup like a dime store hoe... and I'll be damned if I wasn't with a new girl every week. I don't know if they like being treated like crap or what... Maybe they think the nice guy thing is a load... atleast when you act like a dink they think you're being honest... who knows... who cares... I'm glad I don't have to put up with that stupid crap anymore.[/quote]


That's because most girls want to take on projects and "better" thier man. It's an odd nurturing thing that men don't have.

And i'd have to agree with most of the posts stating that young girls are basically retarded, but so are most young guys. It's an endless cycle.


And lastly jaykrue That is the coolest little stick figure animation i've ever seen!
 
[quote name='Deadpool']
That's because most girls want to take on projects and "better" thier man. It's an odd nurturing thing that men don't have.
And lastly jaykrue That is the coolest little stick figure animation i've ever seen![/quote]


Are you subtlely implying I'm not already perfect? HERESY!!! :p

She loves me and thats all that matters :cool:

And yes, COOLEST SIG EVER! :wink:
 
I'm sorry about the girls in CAG, but that guy is right. When I think about all the guys that have the hot-ass girlfriends, they treat their girls like shit. Wow, girls are stupid.
 
[quote name='6669']I'm so shaq-fuing sick of every boy on this site that has to talk shit about girls just because they cant get one. Maybe if you didn't think about girls like this, then you could manage to get out of the house and find one. Anyone care to second that? I didn't think so. Go ahead and respond with all your stupid comments, because I don't give a shaq-fu about anyone that does.[/quote]

Well said, man. The lack of respect for women shown here is astounding. If you don't show any respect, you won't get any either. Time for some people to grow up maybe.
 
No need for the "holier than thou" crap though... the reality is there's more married guys on here than anything, so maybe ya shouldn't let a few posts ruffle your feathers.
 
[quote name='Kayden'][quote name='Scorch'][quote name='mousin']i have sex. and im 15. and i do it in my room when my parents are home. nice to know huh?[/quote]

No one cares. I won't bash you.. and I figure that the reason your parents won't bash you either is because it's normal. Everyone does it. But hey, it's sex with someone you love, right? But they have internet forums to discuss masturbation, and this isn't one of them..

But I second the argument that "girls don't know what they want at this age". If you want to get laid, it pretty much breaks down into two categories.. in high school, flash your car keys. In college, look at them. I'm serious, college girls are so willing to give it up, it's unreal.

I'm one of those "nice guys".. I don't drink or smoke and i'm always nice to women. I don't drink or smoke because my grandfather died of lung cancer and my dad's an alcoholic, so i've seen first hand what it does to people. I treat women with respect, which often lands me right in the "friend zone".. but hey, if they want a retarded guy with his pants hanging down to their knees, that's fine. They can have him. I'm not in a rush. I've been best friends with one of my friends since 6th grade, and i've always thought that one day, she'll come around and realize that we are a good match for each other.. we've never fought, talked on the phone almost every day for several hours each day (for 8 years, i'd love to see the phone records and how much total time we've talked), and get along great. She's mature for her age, but not relationship wise. She shocked me the other day when she asked if I wanted to go out with her. Then she kept talking about how I was a great friend, how I was always there for her, etc.. I figure it's only a matter of time, and if it's meant to be, it'll happen.

But yeah. I totally agree. Girls aren't worth it until the college years or later.. so have fun while you can.[/quote]

Heh... you may be more nieve than the OP! =P

I'm pretty sure shes tagged you as a woman w/out breasts. I don't know if she'll come around, but if it weren't for impossible goals, Napoleon wouldn't have gone insane... or was that syphalis? Oh well, good luck. :wink:[/quote]

And i'm pretty sure that you're a dick for trying to judge her without knowing her.. don't ever try to judge my friends and say she has me pegged as anything. You're assuming every girl is the same, which will probably lead you into a very celibate life. If there's one thing in life I can NOT stand, it's people that judge others based on appearance or word of mouth. I made friends with a girl that works at Hastings and she told me that the thought I was stealing things because I wear a hoodie. What the fuck?

Besides that, I think part of the reason that I've stuck around with her is that she's like the unattainable. We've liked each other at different points and we've dated in the past.. she's pretty much the only girl I can level with completely. I've got commitment issues, i'm not afraid to admit that. I get bored after two or three months because everything gets boring and predictable then. I like the chase. I like the newness of relationships. Once it wears away, it's not really that fun anymore. I could see myself settling down with my friend (we've already made that 'if we're not married by age so and so' pact. But I got a backup. Then I got a backup of a backup, and backup #3 has the biggest chest out of them all. heh), but not for a while.

As for now.. just go out and have fun.
 
Good God no!! Don't make it any harder on yourself... she obviously does not want you... don't call or even look at her anymore. This is your only chance to let her know you are not hurt or give a crap... just avoid her.

[quote name='rockhero']Maybe (just maybe) she doesn't walk to talk about your long letter about true feelings on AIM of all things? Call her on the phone at least, or take her to get a drink...[/quote]
 
Zenith, I think you misread me.

No 'holier than though' intended. Seriously. Sorry if it came out that way. I guess I just got a little disgusted finding this thread right after seeing all the responses to redgopher's thread about proposing to his girlfriend.

I've heard this kind of crap for years (as I'm sure most guys have) and it gets really old. I'm sure most of it's just talk anyway, but you get tired of hearing it.

You're right though, I have found that there are many married people on here. And I did let a few idiots get to me - but you have to admit there was a record amount of stupidity and immaturity being spouted in this particular thread.

sorry if respecting women means coming off as preachy
 
I have a lot of respect for women. I don't like teenage girls. My girlfriend is my world and I let her know how much she means to me all the time. I just have very little patience for the shit teenage girls try to pull. Yet again, I didn't say all girls are like this, just MOST are. The few that aren't I don't really categorize as teenage girls, but more women. Teenage guys are just as bad, they only want someone to touch their pecker. I didn't claim that guys were saints. Its just that since this thread was about girls, thats what I'd talk about.

I probably should have clarified this earlier, but I cosider males and females to be further split into atleast two other groups. Boys and men and girls and women. Boys and girls are your typical teen that think they own the world but don't have a clue. Men and women are sensible and well rounded individuals. May I further add, I don't think it has much of anything to do with age, but mentality and experience.

I didn't say all women are skanky trash, and I didn't say all men are perfect. What I was saying is that a lot of teenage girls are clueless little money grubbers and attention whores.

Clear?
 
Kayden, please note that I never (nor anyone else posting comments along the same lines) singled you or anyone else out.

It was simply stated by someone that there was a lot of trashing being done and I agreed. You can't deny that this was the case. No fingers were pointed at anyone by anyone. (Except Zenith's at me :) j/k Zenith).

edit: the thing you guys have to know is that I'm also a hopeless romantic. So not so much 'holier than though' as just a naive sap. I'm actually rooting for the OP. (Yeah, I know. But what are you gonna do?)
 
[quote name='6669']I'm so shaq-fuing sick of every boy on this site that has to talk shit about girls just because they cant get one. Maybe if you didn't think about girls like this, then you could manage to get out of the house and find one. Anyone care to second that? I didn't think so. Go ahead and respond with all your stupid comments, because I don't give a shaq-fu about anyone that does.[/quote]

Ok, I'm gonna be pedantic about this:

if you don't give a fuck about anyone making comments about girls, how can you contradict yourself w/ your opening comment about being fucking 'sick of every boy on this site that has to talk shit about girls'?

Girls are confusing contrary creatures :?
 
[quote name='jaykrue'][quote name='6669']I'm so shaq-fuing sick of every boy on this site that has to talk shit about girls just because they cant get one. Maybe if you didn't think about girls like this, then you could manage to get out of the house and find one. Anyone care to second that? I didn't think so. Go ahead and respond with all your stupid comments, because I don't give a shaq-fu about anyone that does.[/quote]

Ok, I'm gonna be pedantic about this:

if you don't give a shaq-fu about anyone making comments about girls, how can you contradict yourself w/ your opening comment about being shaq-fuing 'sick of every boy on this site that has to talk shit about girls'?

Girls are confusing contrary creatures :?[/quote]

She actually said that she doesn't care how any of you respond to her post. Re-read post. Sorry, but she didn't contradict herself at all.
 
[quote name='greendj27'][quote name='jaykrue'][quote name='6669']I'm so shaq-fuing sick of every boy on this site that has to talk shit about girls just because they cant get one. Maybe if you didn't think about girls like this, then you could manage to get out of the house and find one. Anyone care to second that? I didn't think so. Go ahead and respond with all your stupid comments, because I don't give a shaq-fu about anyone that does.[/quote]

Ok, I'm gonna be pedantic about this:

if you don't give a shaq-fu about anyone making comments about girls, how can you contradict yourself w/ your opening comment about being shaq-fuing 'sick of every boy on this site that has to talk shit about girls'?

Girls are confusing contrary creatures :?[/quote]

She actually said that she doesn't care how any of you respond to her post. Re-read post. Sorry, but she didn't contradict herself at all.[/quote]

Well, I went back and reread it and it still looks like she was talking about about how she doesn't give a fuck about guys who talk shit about girls:

When she responds that she doesn't give a fuck 'about anyone that does' I took that to mean the guys who talk shit about girls.
 
[quote name='megashock5'][quote name='6669']I'm so shaq-fuing sick of every boy on this site that has to talk shit about girls just because they cant get one. Maybe if you didn't think about girls like this, then you could manage to get out of the house and find one. Anyone care to second that? I didn't think so. Go ahead and respond with all your stupid comments, because I don't give a shaq-fu about anyone that does.[/quote]

Well said, man. The lack of respect for women shown here is astounding. If you don't show any respect, you won't get any either. Time for some people to grow up maybe.[/quote]

Yep, 6669's got the audacity I lack to say things like that. I think i've tried in the past and it's just got bad results in the end, but some people are as stubborn, bitter and jaded as ever, so no matter how ridiculous their posts are I just try to ignore, or avoid them entirely... and this is just one, one of the countless, countless threads that i've seen here about women being bashed, and I do have to agree with 6669: It gets fucking old after a while.
 
this ones a snoozer. you shouldnt have played stuffed animal to this girl in the first place. there was your first mistake. thats just how girls are. and of course, its just how men/boys are too. you liked her and thought being nice and genuine would get you some butt smacking, but it back fired. moral of the story: who needs friends of the opposite sex? not me. catch me going to the flicks with a girl i dont date and you can pull my card- if you dont let your intentions be known. things like this can happen.
 
[quote name='johnnyoski'][quote name='epobirs'][quote name='mousin']i have sex. and im 15. and i do it in my room when my parents are home. nice to know huh?[/quote]

Considering that your parents weren't ballistic over the GPA you reported to us some months ago, any other lack of concern on their part comes as no surprise.[/quote]

:rofl:

Man, this topic sure is showcasing the bright future our youth has to offer.[/quote]

Yea - whats next - maybe he'll tell us about his raging heroin habit?
 
[quote name='megashock5']Zenith, I think you misread me.

No 'holier than though' intended. Seriously. Sorry if it came out that way. I guess I just got a little disgusted finding this thread right after seeing all the responses to redgopher's thread about proposing to his girlfriend.

I've heard this kind of crap for years (as I'm sure most guys have) and it gets really old. I'm sure most of it's just talk anyway, but you get tired of hearing it.

You're right though, I have found that there are many married people on here. And I did let a few idiots get to me - but you have to admit there was a record amount of stupidity and immaturity being spouted in this particular thread.

sorry if respecting women means coming off as preachy[/quote]

first and foremost I don't know what you're talking about saying I'm pointing a finger at you...

Horses have hooves!

No need to apologize though, things would most likely be better if more people took your stance intsead spouting the immaturity/stupidity that you speak of, assuming that at least 50% of the posts are a direct reflection of how these characters treat women in real life.
 
I haven't read everything in this topic, but I hear a lot about most teenage girls being... I'm not sure "slutty" is the word, but it's the best I can do at the moment. I constantly see this (what with being in high school) and I've created my own personal theory about why this happens: I blame the media. It glamorizes sex (especially the music) and makes it the most flattering thing in life. (Whether this holds true is one's own opinion) The girls "innocence" (if you could call it that) gives in to all the glory placed on sex and are, likewise, very willing to "give it out." Basically, the girls (the same can hold true for guys) don't have enough common sense to make their own decisions so whatever is on T.V. or in magazines guides them and creates their morals. The thing I find most ironical, yet quite annoying is how all these teenage girls are giving themselves completely (to a guy they'll break up with in 2 months) to many differant guys, and then they want to bitch when they screw up and get pregnant.

NOTE: This is my personal theory. I do not intend to offend anyone or challenge anyone's intelligence.
 
[quote name='dental_regurgitation']Why on earth did I read this entire thread?

I want the OP to update, his situation is kind of interesting.[/quote]

There isn't much to update. She contacted me basically saying she wasn't interested.
 
[quote name='False Hope']I haven't read everything in this topic, but I hear a lot about most teenage girls being... I'm not sure "slutty" is the word, but it's the best I can do at the moment. I constantly see this (what with being in high school) and I've created my own personal theory about why this happens: I blame the media. It glamorizes sex (especially the music) and makes it the most flattering thing in life. (Whether this holds true is one's own opinion) The girls "innocence" (if you could call it that) gives in to all the glory placed on sex and are, likewise, very willing to "give it out." Basically, the girls (the same can hold true for guys) don't have enough common sense to make their own decisions so whatever is on T.V. or in magazines guides them and creates their morals. The thing I find most ironical, yet quite annoying is how all these teenage girls are giving themselves completely (to a guy they'll break up with in 2 months) to many differant guys, and then they want to bitch when they screw up and get pregnant.

NOTE: This is my personal theory. I do not intend to offend anyone or challenge anyone's intelligence.[/quote]

Nope, I totally agree with your theory, it's true. There are tons of little sluts in HS, mine included. I just don't like it when guys say EVERY girl acts this way, EVERY girl is a slut, blah blah blah.
 
[quote name='GameDude'][quote name='dental_regurgitation']Why on earth did I read this entire thread?

I want the OP to update, his situation is kind of interesting.[/quote]

There isn't much to update. She contacted me basically saying she wasn't interested.[/quote]

So does this mean she's not coming over to play WarioWare with you this week??
 
[quote name='johnnyoski'][quote name='GameDude'][quote name='dental_regurgitation']Why on earth did I read this entire thread?

I want the OP to update, his situation is kind of interesting.[/quote]

There isn't much to update. She contacted me basically saying she wasn't interested.[/quote]

So does this mean she's not coming over to play WarioWare with you this week??[/quote]

Yes.
 
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