Ok well she called me back and says theres no declines on the card so its the website not even trying to make the transaction or the website traffic is super high and broken.... or something.
I dunno, whatever, I give up.
My paypal account isnt "verified" aka, directly connected to my bank account. I refuse, thats bs. I dont want it, or anything, on a direct IV to my bank account so Im just SOL here I guess.