[quote name='Soodmeg']I disagree. Racism is racism. Yes, I fully understand why my mother to this day still has a problem with white people (its far done down now...seeing as I have a white wife) but to hate the entire group for the actions of a few is still wrong. I get it...I just dont agree.
There were indeed white people fighting against racism even back then. Hate the ones that commit the crime or let the crimes happen....its part of my personality.
Now, to my point and you have hinted and plainly yelled it many of times. My problem is how often the topic of race comes up but no one takes claim to their own families and friends. How can you discuss the plight of blacks and other minorities yet you dont even acknowledge of your own family doings or wrong doings.
Again, in my personal experience white people will talk all day about racism as long as its about the black fight and white people in black and white photos...but if you try to bring up what role their families or their friends families played all of a sudden its too personal for them to handle. Which means you at the very core can not even discuss racism properly because you are living in a fantasy land in which the only real racist are obvious neo-nazis.
I know what my mom was doing during the movement but if I polled all of my white friends (and I have done this) seemingly no one even remembers or "it wasnt like that in my town, city, school." So apparently my mother was either fighting ghosts that all vanished like a Boo from

ing Mario brother or you guys do not do enough to learn your own family history.
EVEN though the shit just happened only a mere 60 years ago.
There are MANY MANY MANY white people that I have met who really do get it but most do not. Most seem to focus solely on the over the top racist neo-nazi while letting their fairly racist banker father continue to deny minorities loans. I do not remember who said it but it was someone on this board but it was but in the best why possible. "You may think that your dad is not racist but let your sister come home with a black guy and see how he flips out."
My wife (who is Mexican and German) grew up in a private school bubble. Private elementary, middle and high school. We then met in a private college. She grew up with the same people from 2nd grade to college. She had like 25 friends....do you know how many she lost when they found out she was dating a black guy? About 10. The others said and I quote because they said this to me..."well its ok to date one but we would probably have a problem if you got married." When we announced are engagement she lost another 10.
THAT is the racism white people should focus on instead of debating god damn Sharpton and Jackson. I am talking about bank workers, accounts, the guy who works at the plant...those people are the most dangerous and they are everywhere, yet somehow no one ever talks about them. One of the things that pisses me off the most is the fact that my Mother who was in the Black Panthers and my Father who was a cop in Memphis can tell me story after story about what it was like. Yet not white person ever can remember what happened.[/QUOTE]
If I was black my fiance's father would have had a

ing meltdown when he met me. i hate to even say that because otherwise he's a great guy, but damn if he doesn't fall right into that old white southern racist category I mentioned earlier.