First there is the OP, but not even counting that.
I'll paraphrase:
Kayden: "Well i'm gonna get laid"
GG: "Why haven't you done it yet?"
K: "Why haven't you?"
GG: "Well i've been pointing my ass toward you"
*Time passes*
K: "Well i just got laid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
GG: "Yeah, you were slapping my ass!"
I think it's explicit enough when you say "Ok guys, we're off to have sex now!" And then you come back and tell us how it went.
In response to you and trust:
I don't agree with the double standard either, and I don't subscribe to it. I look down on all the guys who have half-naked women as their avatars, or anybody who openly boasts about what should be their own private lives (regardless of gender).
When I saw defender's post, I originally thought it was Kayden who posted it.
Was his thread the classiest? No, not by a long shot
Do I think he should keep his business to himself? You betcha
You've given us 10x more detail than defender did, so you're still currently the main offender. But don't get me wrong, I don't agree with either post.
Also, if you're so concerned about being a slut, yet your only justification is that you're doing it with one guy, and that talking about what you do DOESN'T make you a slut, then why not keep going? Let people call you up on the phone and sex talk with you. You're not having sex with the caller, so it doesn't make you a slut. Videotape a session and post it here. You're just showing us, so it doesn't make you a slut. Are we going to start argueing over varying levels of slutitude?
I think the arguement over words is hilarious. So you don't want to be a slut? Fine, choose whatever negative adjective. Low-class? No-dignity? Slutty? It's all the same to me, pick whatever word you want.
But you don't see me giving you guys a play-by-play. And you don't see me with an animated gif of a stripper in my signature. Why?
Because I have self-respect, and nothing to prove.
Well then in this case I am happy to leave it as we have a difference of opinion and in life style. And that is fine with me, as it does take all types.
I don't care if people call me a slut, but what makes me angry is believing it's simply because I'm a women who talks about things a 'women shouldn't talk of'
You were raised a lot different that I was, that is apparent and you are as entitled to your opinions as I am. I have a goodly amount of self respect that in my opinion is not destroyed by saying I have a sex life. (And that little excange the other night with the ass in the air bit...was because it was funny in my opinion. ) He was the one that came back a day or two later to say he got laid after someone else posted about it.