[quote name='dmaul1114']I'd say the key if finding the happy medium/right balance. Life is short (we never know how much time we have) so you can't live too poorly always dreaming of some future that may never happen.
But one also can't be short sited and blow all their money and live paycheck to paycheck. They key is to try to get in a situation where you can build up your retirement accounts, build up your savings (have at least 6 months expenses) but also have enough disposable income to live comfortably and enjoy life.[/QUOTE]
Completely agree. Life is at its best when balanced, it does not matter if its politics, food, exercise, work or anything else when you find the middle ground you will be most happy. Problem is two fold though. First off as I have stated before , we get by on a single lower middle class income. Before taxes we are sitting at about $35k a year, nothing to sneeze at since we do not have kids, but that still limits you a lot. Second we have had a wave of expenses. First we put a little more towards the down payment on the house, then our dogs got sick which ran another $1,500ish(one had a stroke)and then our car had a major issue which ran us another $1,000. All said we are outside our 6-8 month savings rule by about $4,000 right now which again on a single income is a lot of money. Even with that though we have still gone out and had korean or Sushi once a month, bought a few games for me and my wife some shoes, and next month we will go see her best friend who lives about 6 hours away which requires gas money and a hotel. We are not depriving ourselves of anything, just right now we are buckled down a bit more then usual.
Plus I really do not feel as though I am doing anything extreme. 58 is not that low of a temperature and I am really not uncomfortable, I just think since its so outside what other people do that people are reacting like I am sitting here with the heat off eating ramen noodles and playing NES games. We treat ourselves and we heat ourselves, we just make minor sacrifices today for large pay offs tomorrow.
Edit - Going to edit in that I HATE being warm far more then being cold. That said that means during the summer even though most experts reccomended X to save on the bills I will probally be 4-10 degrees below that
