[quote name='gaelan']my 10 have been recorded and sent. what do i do about a trade where i left for the other person, but they did not leave feedback for me? i will assume i'm SOL unless told otherwise.[/QUOTE]
I found about eight of them that were missing in going through mine, gaelan.
I've sent the other person a small PM, with a link to the feedback I left them, and a request to have them leave me feedback. So far, so good, all people that have replied have done it. I have two more PM's outstanding with people, and haven't heard back from them yet.
If you show them the link to the post with your feedback for them (make sure to click on the post # for the post, and then send them a link to the specific post), I can't see why they wouldn't take the time to leave you the feedback you're asking for.
Of course, the four feedback across three people I have outstanding, two haven't been on in 10 days, and the other one blows off my PM's. I wish you luck, gaelan.