Do all the decent girls always have bfs?

[quote name='KingSpike']I think it's important to remember the phrase "there are plenty of fish in the sea."

Yes, it certainly does suck if a girl you're interested in rejects you. We've all been through that on some level, I'm sure. It hurts of course. But if you write off all women because that girl that smiled at you once when you hit your head on your locker door has a boyfriend...well that's just foolish.

If you convince yourself that Girl X will be the greatest thing since sliced bread, you're probably not only making assumptions about who she is (so when you find out who she really is you may be disappointed) but also if you are rejected it will hurt more. If you're interested in someone, ask them out. If they say no, move on. Let things happen when they happen.

Let the Living Force flow through you

Oh, and another thing. If you say things (whether it's to friends, on a message board, wherever) like "I'm so lame" or "I'll never find a girl" that lack of confidence and self esteem really shows through. It affects everything you say and people WILL notice. I'm going to E3 with a website I work for. One of my fellow staffers said "I'm not going...but I doubt anyone will care." If you act negatively and think negatively, only negative people will be around you. If you are positive then positive people (the kind you hopefully want) will be around you.[/QUOTE]


Amen to that, confindence and attitude are a big part of it
 
[quote name='Kayden']Girl Requirements
1. Boobies
2. No penis...
3. If there is a penis, it must be smaller than mine.[/QUOTE]

I know I shouldn't laugh at that but that was funny, lol. :lol:

The thing is, that nowadays people have to check for that because transgendered people are becoming more common.
 
[quote name='Kayden']So true. When girls are in relationships they don't like they tend to bitch incessantly.[/QUOTE]

Are you suggesting that not all women bitch incessantly all the time?
 
[quote name='Dr Mario Kart']Are you suggesting that not all women bitch incessantly all the time?[/QUOTE]

Yes in a relationship they enjoy they instead demand pointless little trinkets.:D
 
[quote name='zionoverfire']Yes in a relationship they enjoy they instead demand pointless little trinkets.:D[/QUOTE]

You're not kidding. I just got re-involved with one of my exes, and she seems dead set on changing me. That's the reason we broke up in the first place.

Trinkets in this case is minor changes in my behaviour.
 
Uh.... Try getting a girl that like you for who you are?

My girlfriend and I have minor things we want to change about the other, but its like don't leave shit there...
 
Part of love is accepting the other person for who they are, including their flaws. Even loving those flaws. That doesn't mean that you can't hope they improve, or help them improve and become a better person...but if you can't get beyond him scratching his butt occasionally and don't think you ever will, that may be a sign of things to come.
 
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