Hey everyone...as usual I've been swamped, but that's not really a good excuse...so let me get right to it...
the ender -- welcome and thanks for joining! The matching process lasts 3 days per seller -- and cycles a few times in between. What we try to do is create a balance for both the buyer and seller in that you as the buyer want the match to go through fast and maybe for one reason or another, the seller can't be at his computer to complete the trade. If you are matched for more than 3 days it's because you have moved onto a different seller. Whenever a seller doesn't commit to a trade, the game is removed from their library to prevent future long timeouts. So to answer your question, you cannot opt of a match because we want to give the seller a reasonable chance to earn points for a trade.
As for your case, you are on the second seller in the queue. PM me if that doesn't go through in the next day.
Troz1820 -- hi and welcome too! I like the new faces and questions! Please see my response above about the matching process. And the reason for the limited number of trading slots for new members is to deter against any would-be scammer who wants to flood the system with fake trades.
Mr. Unorignial -- you may not be sending out much more because of a few reasons. The people requesting don't have enough points and/or trade credits, they may have their trade slots full, or you're in a long queue.
Excellent idea about the point review! and its actually the direction we're headed towards...
GrayWolf323 -- mahzilla answered you correctly! thanks mahzilla!
Mahzilla -- outside of PS1 and Dreamcast, Xbox is probably our least demanded console. Our highest is Xbox 360, PS2, PC, GC, Wii...and down the line...
johnnypark -- hey there! So the credit card payments is handled with Cybersource which is owned by Bank of America, the second largest bank in the U.S. after Citi. They do safely handle all your credit card info and processing. As for Paypal...our tech guy is having a problem tieing them into our db -- will be resolved soon and working for everyone!
darthbudge -- yes CAG-2007 still works! It expires in July...you'll get all the bonuses after your first positive trade...
Hope I helped out...and thanks again to all the new members who have posted questions!