I think my cousin might be gay but how do I find out for sure?

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He moved to US a few months ago, haven't seen him since were' babies

Anyway here's why I think so

- somewhat soft spoken feminine voice but not too obvious like you see in movies

- sometimes crosses his legs when sitting like a TV anchor woman would

- picked out a chick flick from Redbox

- Told me a certain wrestler looks pretty, but even I can acknowledge that and I'm not gay

- found a science like book in his car titled "Genetics"

reasons why he might NOT be gay:

- dresses casually like a regular guy would

- is engaged to a female that I barely know

 
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Go down on him and see if he stops you? Other than that who cares if he is or if he isnt. Let him come out when he feels the need if he is.

 
Check his internet history...

I had a gay room mate in college who looked anything but (big strong black defensive lineman from the inner city that dressed / acted that part) however once I got to know him it was pretty obvious. You could tell he wasn't ready to come out because he'd always make typical guy comments like "OMG Jessica Alba is so hot...." but when it counted he never showed any interests in girls and was actually pretty obsessed with a few guys (off the record).

Then one day he leaves for class and doesn't sign off his computer. I think Kazaa or Bearshare were big at that time and I checked his video section and there were hundreds of gay porn videos (guys on guys).

I mean if you just randomly download a lot of porn I supposed it's possible to have a few gay porn mixed in but to have nothing but is a pretty big red flag.

Anyways he came out a few years later and seems to be in a better place for it.

I suppose you could always ask your cousin and be direct about it... just don't be a dick and do it from an accusatory place.

 
I think the important question here is: Why does it matter if he's gay, Sherlock Jr.?

But, I do need to know exactly what "chick flick" he chose at Redbox.

 
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Have a 3 way with him and his fiance.  If given a choice of your butt or her vagina to insert his dick into and he chooses you, there's your sign.

 
Is there a reason why he would want to hide it? If you don't mind me asking where do you live? In South Florida being an adult gay man/woman is almost a non issue nowadays. Or does he live in a family or from a culture that would shun him for being gay?

 
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I would ask him about all of these things. I think this is how Republicans figure it out as well. :lol:

 
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gunnm said:
I'll be the gay magneto and protect his gay cousin from him.

My cape will be swag as fuck
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TooMuchCoolness said:
Anyway here's why I think so

- found a science like book in his car titled "Genetics"
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... What?...

TooMuchCoolness said:
reasons why he might NOT be gay:

- is engaged to a female that I barely know
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It is totally possible he is bi-sexual.

Anyways I don't understand why you're sneaking about investigating him, just ask him if it matters that much to you (and assuming you can handle asking and receiving the answer in a non-hostile way). Also, since you say he currently has a significant other who is female I wouldn't ask him if he's gay, you should ask him if he finds men physically attractive. The reason I'd avoid the term gay is because if he is bi-sexual it's very possible he wouldn't identify as that since the term only implies attraction to someone of the same sex exclusively.
 
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We all have an allowance of gay points to use up when it comes to certain things we like or ways we behave. There are few straight men who are as into Taylor Swift's music as I am, and I've used up all my gay points on that alone.

There are always stereotypes but the only sure way to know that a guy is gay is if you watch them have sex with men. And then maybe you're gay for watching.

 
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