[quote name='assassinX']How long have you known the girl just wondering.[/quote]
If you're talking overall, I've know her for about 6 years. If you're talkin' about that particular episode, I'd known her only for about 2 days.
[quote name='Theduck']Again, thanks for all the comments.
About the friend zone, if I am in it I would deff like try to get out of it. Starting today I started working in another department in the same store, so it's kind of like we're not working together anymore. I find myself missing her, even tho i'm so close. I require more responsibility so I can't just go start chatting with her on the clock. This girl is crazy in the head because she comes brom a broken home, yet she cares for me and accepts who I am. I'm the closest guy to her, as far as friends go which is good, but I kind of want to try to be more than friends. I don't just go for it because I worry things will go wrong after I try. I don't want her to end up with an asshole and the thought of her going out with another guy in the future annoys me atm. I know it seems crazy probably, but she's really cool and easy going, which I've never seen before from a girl. Tommorow we have a store meeting at 6:30 AM, I told her I wanted to pick her up but hers is a little earlier meaning I have to wake up earlier to pick her up and get her there before I have to be there. I don't know why the
i'm doing this, and I wish I could find the answer because I feel that i'll end up getting hurt, as negative as that is.
Thanks for listening.[/quote]
[quote name='Purple Flames']If you're in the friend zone, I'm sorry to say you're already
ed. The longer you wait, the less and less your chances are of getting with her. The key to women is to make them want you, but you have to do your best to hide your sexual intentions, because nothing makes a woman want you more than acting disinterested.
And as far as getting up early to pick her up, by doing that you're only digging yourself deep and deeper. You're being too accommodating. A lot of guys think that doing little favors for women make them attracted to them, but actually the reverse is true. When you do things like this, women see right through it. It's like Chris Rock said, when a guy asks a woman if she can do her any favors, all he's doing is offering her some dick. It's a weird paradox, but in the courting stages, women are actually repelled when a guy shows too much obvious interest in her.
And as far as that getting hurt shit, do you honestly think that a woman is gonna pull out a knife and stab you in the balls if you approach her to talk? You have to get that mentality out of your head, because the worst thing a women can say if you approach her is "I'm not interested". I can tell you're the kind of guy who would get all sorts of negative thoughts in his head to the point that it would psyche you out into fearing rejection to the point that you give up before you even try.
Once you overcome that, thing will be much much easier.[/quote]
Purple Flame covered most of it. I do want to point out one thing. You don't have to hide your sexual attraction all the time. Because if done too much, she's actually start to believe that you're not interested... or worse, you're gay. You want to show her enough attraction that you're interested in gettin' together w/ her (for the short/long term) but too much that you appear desperate. It's a fine line to walk on & a delicate balancing act so tread lightly. For example, women love sensory experiences while men love physical acts. So how do you translate a sensory experience into a physical act? or vice versa? To do so for girls, subtle touches like lightly brushing a girl's hand when she's telling a good story or even an introductory kiss on the back of the hand (though it's more appropriate in a formal setting) while intensely gazing into her eyes sends the signals that you want her. But after you've done the subtle touches on one date, go cold turkey on the next. Your goal here is to 'flatline' her or seemingly appear disinterested while being pleasant (if indifferent) company. The point of this is to keep her off-balance & guessing what your intentions are. It's the same technique women use on men. It's particularly effective on guys who think too much *cough*Theduck*cough* because they're in the exact position where the woman should be - kept guessing. Seriously, dude, you're too accomodating. Don't do her any favors just yet. They'll come after you get together but honestly, if you haven't gotten w/ her by now (and I don't mean sexually), your chances are pretty much nil.
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Hell, my own father said he'd disown me if I ever dated a black girl. I dated one just to piss him off.
